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By *impleme667 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Hi, I have a question:

In some profiles I read "no Asians", does it only applies to Indian/Pakistani ethnic group or all countries in Asia?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Probably best you ask the people concerned, as we wouldn't know what their preferences were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would class no Asians as Asians including Chinese, Thai etc but better ask the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats something you need to ask the people concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing they mean south asian but you'd have to ask them.

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By *impleme667 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

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By *impleme667 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Thank you all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think most people probably referring to beleifs/religion rather than ethnicity. The (perceived?) attitude of muslim men towards women perhaps.

I have come across this attitude from asian guys in clubs etc and at a party I attended where one such guy was asked to leave.

I have also had good experience of asian guy and one attended a little gb I organised. Very polite and respectful attitude to all but joined in just as the rest of us.

Can't judge all the same but sadly some folk have had bad experience so tend to just refuse all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me we english refer to asians as the indian/pakistani people

Chinese/thailand are refered to as orientals.

Americans are the ones who call orientals asian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me we english refer to asians as the indian/pakistani people

Chinese/thailand are refered to as orientals.

Americans are the ones who call orientals asian"

Yeah I would agree with that

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By *impleme667 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I understand exactly what you all mean. but you know Asia is a big continent and I m not from India, Pakistan or south east Asia. so that s why I get confused when I see "no Asian" on the profile and I ask myself should I approach them or not.

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By *impleme667 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Think most people probably referring to beleifs/religion rather than ethnicity. The (perceived?) attitude of muslim men towards women perhaps.

I have come across this attitude from asian guys in clubs etc and at a party I attended where one such guy was asked to leave.

I have also had good experience of asian guy and one attended a little gb I organised. Very polite and respectful attitude to all but joined in just as the rest of us.

Can't judge all the same but sadly some folk have had bad experience so tend to just refuse all."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand exactly what you all mean. but you know Asia is a big continent and I m not from India, Pakistan or south east Asia. so that s why I get confused when I see "no Asian" on the profile and I ask myself should I approach them or not. "

Im not from those asian countries either but if someone says 'no asians' I think its safe to assume that they wont be interested.

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By *impleme667 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"To me we english refer to asians as the indian/pakistani people

Chinese/thailand are refered to as orientals.

Americans are the ones who call orientals asian"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was Indian or a Pakistani I would refer to myself as such . I am English not British or European ,If people are racist thats their problem not yours , have some pride in your country. Having lived in Spain for 8 years I have Argentinain , Morrocan , Dutch ,Russian and Columbian friends we all refer to ourselves as being from our country not continant because we are all proud people.

PS I also have Scotch and Welsh friends too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My issue with asians by this i mean pakistani guys is and i generalise here and if i offend folk so be it is outlook on women in general.

As said its a generalising folk but thats how i see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My issue with asians by this i mean pakistani guys is and i generalise here and if i offend folk so be it is outlook on women in general.

As said its a generalising folk but thats how i see it."

Yeah yeah we all see women as second class, cooks, baby makers blah blah blah lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive got no prob meeting them like any guy i get on with .but i do have in the back of my mind .do the know my ex hubby lol.and what would there mother say if they know having sex before getting married lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive got no prob meeting them like any guy i get on with .but i do have in the back of my mind .do the know my ex hubby lol.and what would there mother say if they know having sex before getting married lol "

Lol haha yh you know asians well. My mum still thinks I am a virgin lol. Bless her

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"My issue with asians by this i mean pakistani guys is and i generalise here and if i offend folk so be it is outlook on women in general.

As said its a generalising folk but thats how i see it."

Crikey!!! I never realised that was the impression my ethnicity gave. I may change my profile to say i'm tanned see if that works any better

That is a very sweeping and generalised statement, i'd love to know what's given you that impression

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"ive got no prob meeting them like any guy i get on with .but i do have in the back of my mind .do the know my ex hubby lol.and what would there mother say if they know having sex before getting married lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive got no prob meeting them like any guy i get on with .but i do have in the back of my mind .do the know my ex hubby lol.and what would there mother say if they know having sex before getting married lol

Lol haha yh you know asians well. My mum still thinks I am a virgin lol. Bless her "

i do was married to my ex for 20years lol even went over seas to see his family.lol

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Probably best you ask the people concerned, as we wouldn't know what their preferences were."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive got no prob meeting them like any guy i get on with .but i do have in the back of my mind .do the know my ex hubby lol.and what would there mother say if they know having sex before getting married lol

Lol haha yh you know asians well. My mum still thinks I am a virgin lol. Bless her

i do was married to my ex for 20years lol even went over seas to see his family.lol"

20 years is a long time. Go on, admit it, you wore a sari for him on his birthday lol

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By *icky1Man
over a year ago

Nuneaton

if u the same colour as bin laden ur are asian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was 16 when i meet him .went on to have 5 boys.thing change and ive found who i realy am .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if u the same colour as bin laden ur are asian "

Always knew will smith was asian lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was 16 when i meet him .went on to have 5 boys.thing change and ive found who i realy am . "

Aww happy ending for you then. Thats great

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By *icky1Man
over a year ago

Nuneaton

dont worry u asian or indian guys im one to i get blocked if i tell them im a indian guy lol how sad are they to block u they just have to say no thanks not into indian guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"dont worry u asian or indian guys im one to i get blocked if i tell them im a indian guy lol how sad are they to block u they just have to say no thanks not into indian guys "

Noooo dont presume its cus your asian.

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By *awk_eyeMan
over a year ago

east london


"dont worry u asian or indian guys im one to i get blocked if i tell them im a indian guy lol how sad are they to block u they just have to say no thanks not into indian guys

Noooo dont presume its cus your asian. "
lol

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By *icky1Man
over a year ago

Nuneaton

that sums it all no more replys from white ppl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

White couple here! Not necessarily to do with your (perceived) attitudes, may just be sexual tastes. I personally don't fancy black girls, Da doesn't fancy Indian/Pakistani guys.

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By *oftfocusMan
over a year ago

EDINBURGH


"To me we english refer to asians as the indian/pakistani people

Chinese/thailand are refered to as orientals.

Americans are the ones who call orientals asian"

Might i suggest a few geography lessons?

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By *icky1Man
over a year ago

Nuneaton

thank you for that u are right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I have a question:

In some profiles I read "no Asians", does it only applies to Indian/Pakistani ethnic group or all countries in Asia?

"

This question does not have one answer its individual to the owner of the profile. You could question them but why bother.

They will find you if they need a meet or advice on the local take away menu.

But seriously its a clear indication they are not intersted better concentrating your energies elsewhere I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm half iranian but was adopted at a young age and have an english name. and i've lived with english family and cultural values for almost my whole life. i suspect many people would not see me as 'asian' so i could probably 'get away with it' but i generally choose not to approach anyone with the depressingly common no asians line on their profile. i'm not prejudiced but just don't really fancy people with that attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand exactly what you all mean. but you know Asia is a big continent and I m not from India, Pakistan or south east Asia. so that s why I get confused when I see "no Asian" on the profile and I ask myself should I approach them or not. "
My profile states I dont want to meet other cultures and im not racist, I know different races of people through my jobs and know one asian family who are really westernised and lovely people but wouldnt meet the guy if he was single and asked if that makes sense. He is a goodlooking guy though. Anyway, digressed a bit there. Not just asians I wouldnt meet but others too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'm half iranian but was adopted at a young age and have an english name. and i've lived with english family and cultural values for almost my whole life. i suspect many people would not see me as 'asian' so i could probably 'get away with it' but i generally choose not to approach anyone with the depressingly common no asians line on their profile. i'm not prejudiced but just don't really fancy people with that attitude."

Out of interest, would you approach them if they said no black but asian/white welcome?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'm half iranian but was adopted at a young age and have an english name. and i've lived with english family and cultural values for almost my whole life. i suspect many people would not see me as 'asian' so i could probably 'get away with it' but i generally choose not to approach anyone with the depressingly common no asians line on their profile. i'm not prejudiced but just don't really fancy people with that attitude."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of interest, would you approach them if they said no black but asian/white welcome? [/quote

well firstly i've never seen that... but to be honest probably not as i doubt i'd get along with them

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By *icky1Man
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"i'm half iranian but was adopted at a young age and have an english name. and i've lived with english family and cultural values for almost my whole life. i suspect many people would not see me as 'asian' so i could probably 'get away with it' but i generally choose not to approach anyone with the depressingly common no asians line on their profile. i'm not prejudiced but just don't really fancy people with that attitude."

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By *icky1Man
over a year ago

Nuneaton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My issue with asians by this i mean pakistani guys is and i generalise here and if i offend folk so be it is outlook on women in general.

As said its a generalising folk but thats how i see it.

Crikey!!! I never realised that was the impression my ethnicity gave. I may change my profile to say i'm tanned see if that works any better

That is a very sweeping and generalised statement, i'd love to know what's given you that

impression"

Life experiences sadly my dau was treated like shite cos she white. As said its a generalisation and i accept not everyone is same no matter whether white black etc but when my daughter was told if she got married i would be sat on different side to my other daughter purely on gender then that is why i have an issue. Hope it not offended u directly but it angers me while women treated differntly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My issue with asians by this i mean pakistani guys is and i generalise here and if i offend folk so be it is outlook on women in general.

As said its a generalising folk but thats how i see it.

Crikey!!! I never realised that was the impression my ethnicity gave. I may change my profile to say i'm tanned see if that works any better

That is a very sweeping and generalised statement, i'd love to know what's given you that

impression

Life experiences sadly my dau was treated like shite cos she white. As said its a generalisation and i accept not everyone is same no matter whether white black etc but when my daughter was told if she got married i would be sat on different side to my other daughter purely on gender then that is why i have an issue. Hope it not offended u directly but it angers me while women treated differntly. "

Thats just a wedding tradition. Men sit on one side women sit on other. You really got offended by that?

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Its about attraction for me, whether asian, black, white or whatever if I find the person attractive thats fine, if not I will pass.

If someone knows that don't fancy and get turned on by black guys, or asian girls, or white couples or any combination of colour and gender then surely its okay to say so.

If its based on some predudice that is based on stereotypes of behavoir to me that is a different matter.

Then again I am male, white and old... who cares what i think anyway...

Ageism rules on fab even more than racism (rant over)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My issue with asians by this i mean pakistani guys is and i generalise here and if i offend folk so be it is outlook on women in general.

As said its a generalising folk but thats how i see it.

Crikey!!! I never realised that was the impression my ethnicity gave. I may change my profile to say i'm tanned see if that works any better

That is a very sweeping and generalised statement, i'd love to know what's given you that

impression

Life experiences sadly my dau was treated like shite cos she white. As said its a generalisation and i accept not everyone is same no matter whether white black etc but when my daughter was told if she got married i would be sat on different side to my other daughter purely on gender then that is why i have an issue. Hope it not offended u directly but it angers me while women treated differntly.

Thats just a wedding tradition. Men sit on one side women sit on other. You really got offended by that? "

This could go on for a while so will make this my last comment on it. When my daughter goes to his families house she is not allowed to be in same room with men thankfully she ignores it as brought up that everyone is equal in life and when his family albeit rare visit at their hous there is rightly no segregation now that may not be your outlook but it is fact. They try to get her to convert but she will not as no need and no benefit to her by doing so. They have kids tigether whom are best thing in my life as well as daughters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My issue with asians by this i mean pakistani guys is and i generalise here and if i offend folk so be it is outlook on women in general.

As said its a generalising folk but thats how i see it.

Crikey!!! I never realised that was the impression my ethnicity gave. I may change my profile to say i'm tanned see if that works any better

That is a very sweeping and generalised statement, i'd love to know what's given you that

impression

Life experiences sadly my dau was treated like shite cos she white. As said its a generalisation and i accept not everyone is same no matter whether white black etc but when my daughter was told if she got married i would be sat on different side to my other daughter purely on gender then that is why i have an issue. Hope it not offended u directly but it angers me while women treated differntly.

Thats just a wedding tradition. Men sit on one side women sit on other. You really got offended by that?

This could go on for a while so will make this my last comment on it. When my daughter goes to his families house she is not allowed to be in same room with men thankfully she ignores it as brought up that everyone is equal in life and when his family albeit rare visit at their hous there is rightly no segregation now that may not be your outlook but it is fact. They try to get her to convert but she will not as no need and no benefit to her by doing so. They have kids tigether whom are best thing in my life as well as daughters."

Yh fair enough she involved with a strict pakistani family but I can honestly say my family are not like that and I dont know of any other asian families who are that strict. There are some very old fashioned traditions within asian culture which even other asians dont agree with, but cant put us all in same box. There is a generation gap too. My children will have a very different upbringing to me as my views are very different to my parents. I was born and brought up in uk.

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By *impleme667 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"If I was Indian or a Pakistani I would refer to myself as such . I am English not British or European ,If people are racist thats their problem not yours , have some pride in your country. Having lived in Spain for 8 years I have Argentinain , Morrocan , Dutch ,Russian and Columbian friends we all refer to ourselves as being from our country not continant because we are all proud people.

PS I also have Scotch and Welsh friends too "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its religion when alls said and done islamic people have a problem with us so why should i tolerate their beliefs and by the way i happily meet indians and all other cultures

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"its religion when alls said and done islamic people have a problem with us so why should i tolerate their beliefs and by the way i happily meet indians and all other cultures "

Wouldn't it be lovely if we could have a post about Asians that didn't devolve into a rant about Muslims, forced marriage, the way Pakistanis treat their women and so on. The OP is East Asian not South Asian so I have no idea why all the Muslim bashing started.

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By *unitaCouple
over a year ago

sunny midlands

Interesting thread ! I get couples and single women messaging and winking at me but when I look at some of the profiles it says will not meet Asian guys lol !!!

Some of the views by some of the posters on this thread are soooo 1970's lol.

Quite a few ignorant and narrow minded people in this world which is sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"dont worry u asian or indian guys im one to i get blocked if i tell them im a indian guy lol how sad are they to block u they just have to say no thanks not into indian guys "

We had a black guy and an Indian message us, we politely told them we are only intrested in whites, they proceeded to call us racist. It probally makes it easier to block then deal with that bullshit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its religion when alls said and done islamic people have a problem with us so why should i tolerate their beliefs and by the way i happily meet indians and all other cultures "

Would you have seriously said this before sep 11th? Actions of handful of people is enough for you to think badly of an entire religion lol. Thats ridiculous.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"We had a black guy and an Indian message us, we politely told them we are only intrested in whites, they proceeded to call us racist. It probably makes it easier to block then deal with that bullshit."

That's what we do. People can say whatever they like but YOU know your sexual tastes.

If someone outside our preferences sends a message (when our profile clearly states what we want) and then can't handle a simple "Thank you, but you're not for us", that's their problem, not your's. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These threads always turn into the racism debate

Sexual preference is something different altogether.

If you see a profile, and identify with something they are not looking for, next profile simples.

Should I state a preference on my profile and someone emailed me anyway I would delete as my profile is there for a reason.

Live and let live,

shag and let others shag,

Control your own life and allow the others the same

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"These threads always turn into the racism debate

Sexual preference is something different altogether.

If you see a profile, and identify with something they are not looking for, next profile simples.

Should I state a preference on my profile and someone emailed me anyway I would delete as my profile is there for a reason.

Live and let live,

shag and let others shag,

Control your own life and allow the others the same "

Exactly. To me, racism is hatred, discrimination, a sense of supremacy, ect.

Simply not being sexually attracted is neither something you can control or force. x

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By *impleme667 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

you are right about the taste and no argue about that, but it may worth to mention something here.I believe no Muslim can be on this site. As it is completely against Islamic rules. So if anyone is the member of the site and claiming that they are Muslim they just kidding themselves and I agree the discussion should not be converted to a religious one as I think strictly speaking, being active on this site is against most of the religions anyway.

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"...I believe no Muslim can be on this site. As it is completely against Islamic rules..."

And how exactly does coveting your neighbour's wife's ass comply with Judaeic/Christian doctrine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm half 'asian', but born and bred here, don't follow any religion, and have been raised in the culture of my Irish side of my family. I don't speak any other language apart from some gcse french, spicy food doesn't really agree with me.

But like others have said, when I see that no Asians, I don't message.

I don't prejudge by ethnicity. You get good looking people in every race. It saddens me that all Asians get lumped together and people don't talk to individuals to find out their views on women, or the west, and just generalize and predict what they are going to be like and think.

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By *impleme667 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

As I mentioned at the end of my comment it is against most of religions anyway so theoretically no religious people should be here.

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By *impleme667 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

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By *impleme667 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I'm half 'asian', but born and bred here, don't follow any religion, and have been raised in the culture of my Irish side of my family. I don't speak any other language apart from some gcse french, spicy food doesn't really agree with me.

But like others have said, when I see that no Asians, I don't message.

I don't prejudge by ethnicity. You get good looking people in every race. It saddens me that all Asians get lumped together and people don't talk to individuals to find out their views on women, or the west, and just generalize and predict what they are going to be like and think. "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm half 'asian', but born and bred here, don't follow any religion, and have been raised in the culture of my Irish side of my family. I don't speak any other language apart from some gcse french, spicy food doesn't really agree with me.

But like others have said, when I see that no Asians, I don't message.

I don't prejudge by ethnicity. You get good looking people in every race. It saddens me that all Asians get lumped together and people don't talk to individuals to find out their views on women, or the west, and just generalize and predict what they are going to be like and think. "

Do you think it's unique to Asian guys? I've read comments along the line they won't meet black guys because they're arrogant or NO single men at all because of ONE bad experience.

Instead of concentrating on people NOT interested in you and expecting them to justify THEIR choice in who they take to bed, look at those that do!

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I'm half 'asian', but born and bred here, don't follow any religion, and have been raised in the culture of my Irish side of my family. I don't speak any other language apart from some gcse french, spicy food doesn't really agree with me.

But like others have said, when I see that no Asians, I don't message.

I don't prejudge by ethnicity. You get good looking people in every race. It saddens me that all Asians get lumped together and people don't talk to individuals to find out their views on women, or the west, and just generalize and predict what they are going to be like and think. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm half 'asian', but born and bred here, don't follow any religion, and have been raised in the culture of my Irish side of my family. I don't speak any other language apart from some gcse french, spicy food doesn't really agree with me.

But like others have said, when I see that no Asians, I don't message.

I don't prejudge by ethnicity. You get good looking people in every race. It saddens me that all Asians get lumped together and people don't talk to individuals to find out their views on women, or the west, and just generalize and predict what they are going to be like and think.

Do you think it's unique to Asian guys? I've read comments along the line they won't meet black guys because they're arrogant or NO single men at all because of ONE bad experience.

Instead of concentrating on people NOT interested in you and expecting them to justify THEIR choice in who they take to bed, look at those that do! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm half 'asian', but born and bred here, don't follow any religion, and have been raised in the culture of my Irish side of my family. I don't speak any other language apart from some gcse french, spicy food doesn't really agree with me.

But like others have said, when I see that no Asians, I don't message.

I don't prejudge by ethnicity. You get good looking people in every race. It saddens me that all Asians get lumped together and people don't talk to individuals to find out their views on women, or the west, and just generalize and predict what they are going to be like and think. "

That's not always the case though. My partner just does not find them attractive, she also isn't attracted to blacks or Chinese and probally a few other races. Nothing to do with their cultures, just does not fancy them. Of course their is the odd exception like Will Smith.

I personally wouldn't go with a black woman, I would love to go with a mixed race woman and I think some Asian women look amazingly gorgeous. It's just preference.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"My issue with asians by this i mean pakistani guys is and i generalise here and if i offend folk so be it is outlook on women in general.

As said its a generalising folk but thats how i see it.

Yeah yeah we all see women as second class, cooks, baby makers blah blah blah lol "

No not all but sadly quite a few do.. so its the same as everything a few spoiling it for the rest. but meeting for nsa sexual fun its a bit late to find out that the one you are meeting is one with that attitude when you then find yourself in a vulnerable position.

Sadly that is the attitude a number have to women. so its easier not to put yourself in a position of finding out too late. but its the same as young guys attitudes alot have a horrid attitude but not all sadly its easier to rule them all out than risk finding yourself with one of the ones with stinking attitudes.

Thats life no point stressing about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gues its east of the suerz all asians ..i know my geography

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

I wish that there was a thread that was for Asian women / couples to express their feelings towards white and black men...

That would make interesting reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish that there was a thread that was for Asian women / couples to express their feelings towards white and black men...

That would make interesting reading."

What would they be?

Out of sheer intrest I googled Asian swinging, not much but a Facebook group but found loads of sites for Asian dating.

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By *icky1Man
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"its religion when alls said and done islamic people have a problem with us so why should i tolerate their beliefs and by the way i happily meet indians and all other cultures "
u never reply to indians or asian lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day everyone is entitled to their own opinion and as long as their opinion doesn't affect or harm another individual all is well and good !

Live and let live we are all here to have some fun aren't we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hardly think september 11th was a watershed do you there have been several indications of how we ve perceived my view has been formulated over several years and all i ever hear is its the other guy in defence !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i hardly think september 11th was a watershed do you there have been several indications of how we ve perceived my view has been formulated over several years and all i ever hear is its the other guy in defence !"

Err thats because it is another guy. Its not me is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are any number of reasons why people don't want to meet and unfortunately sometimes there is no easy way to say it.

Conversely we would love to meet a Bi Indian or Asian couple that would like to play with us but they are sadly all too rare on Fab. We've briefly spoken to a lovely couple up at Chams but haven't seen them often enough to play.

As for those we don't want to meet, don't get us started on six-fingered, one-legged, hairy backed Mongolians who married their mother.....

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By *r OreoMan
over a year ago

Croydon

I'm Asian ... But from African heritage but born and brought up in England attending catholic schools ... But yes I am Asian

I've never had a problem on here with it and if a profile says 'no Asians' thats their choice and they are entitled to it and its utterly wrong to then label them as a racist.

I've met my partner on here 20 months ago and she had that she didn't meet Asian guys either as she just didn't fancy them. We charted a while, arranged a social coffee - and that was it!

Funny thing is she still looks at Asian guys when she out and tells me 'nope I looked

.. Its just you I fancy' which suits me fine.

So in summary ... There is someone for everyone!

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By *impleme667 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I'm Asian ... But from African heritage but born and brought up in England attending catholic schools ... But yes I am Asian

I've never had a problem on here with it and if a profile says 'no Asians' thats their choice and they are entitled to it and its utterly wrong to then label them as a racist.

I've met my partner on here 20 months ago and she had that she didn't meet Asian guys either as she just didn't fancy them. We charted a while, arranged a social coffee - and that was it!

Funny thing is she still looks at Asian guys when she out and tells me 'nope I looked

.. Its just you I fancy' which suits me fine.

So in summary ... There is someone for everyone!"

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By *impleme667 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"At the end of the day everyone is entitled to their own opinion and as long as their opinion doesn't affect or harm another individual all is well and good !

Live and let live we are all here to have some fun aren't we"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing Racist in personal preference.

But if you discriminate then you potentially fall fowl of committing a racial offence.

Sadly we live in a Country were the perception of Racism has been warped and attached to an ethnic group or religion, this is wrong because racism is a multi directional offence meaning Jayne or I could be victims of a racial attack or slur from someone or a group of people from a different culture or country.

It is not a racial offence to decline someone on grounds of personal preference or from previous exprience with persons from that country.

What is racially aggravating is to generalise to the extreme of suggesting all the worlds ill's such as terrorism originate from there etc.

Certain cultures and religions do very little to make them easy to tolerate and can be seen as rather invasive and alien.... furthermore in the city we live in it would seem that various ethnic groups have chosen to live together and not reinvest in the infrastructure of there community or take civic pride. These area's are classed as no go area's by some in the city.

Whilst both Jayne and I were brought up to be tolerant and open minded.... I most certainly do not want Islam shoved down my neck and rubbed in my face but some of the followers of that religion seem hell bent on pushing people away.

We have Sikh friends and they are anglicised but even if they were not we would be curious to learn more about there heritage and faith choice.

We also do not tolerate Mormon's but most of the followers of that faith tend to be a certain stereo type.

WHO you have in your home and in your BED is your choice its swinging not mandatory breeding ffs!

If you dont like someone based on personal preference then that's cool!

To decline someone on based on your personal preferences is fine... Your not committing an offence, If you want to know the true meaning of Offended go and open a popular search engine tool and look for Offended - Steve Hughes and Australian comedian who talks sense.

Mark and Jayne

Ps, Oh and nothing happens when your offended!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty of profiles that say 'no blacks', 'no coloured men', 'no white guys', 'no Asians', 'no bi men' ...I actually think it makes things much easier for the reader and avoids a lot of time wasting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow all the op did was ask what people meant meant by the word asian..

And it turns to this!

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By *unitaCouple
over a year ago

sunny midlands


"Wow all the op did was ask what people meant meant by the word asian..

And it turns to this!"

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"There are plenty of profiles that say 'no blacks', 'no coloured men', 'no white guys', 'no Asians', 'no bi men' ...I actually think it makes things much easier for the reader and avoids a lot of time wasting.

"

So true !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow all the op did was ask what people meant meant by the word asian..

And it turns to this!"

Race is such an emotive topic I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow all the op did was ask what people meant meant by the word asian..

And it turns to this!"

Race is such an emotive topic I suppose

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"I wish that there was a thread that was for Asian women / couples to express their feelings towards white and black men...

That would make interesting reading.

What would they be?

Out of sheer intrest I googled Asian swinging, not much but a Facebook group...."

And that can be a cause for resentment. I've spoken to a few people who don't like the fact that Asian (Indian / Pakistanki especially) men want a "slice of the action" whilst their wives are kept at home for none other than themselves. Granted that this is little different to white married men "playing away" but hey, look how many people specify that they don't want married men (of any colour)?

I think that if the ratio of Indian / Pakistani couples to singles was to increase to that of the general swinging community, and if they integrated more, then ALL Asians would be accepted more. But for as long as there is a perception that "Asian men want and White women/couples are there to give" then there will be a reaction to it.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Wow all the op did was ask what people meant meant by the word asian..

And it turns to this!"

Are you surprised? That's like par for the course on these forums.

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By *impleme667 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Wow all the op did was ask what people meant meant by the word asian..

And it turns to this!"

to be honest I enjoy it. it seems to be a meaningful discussion, I am not English but I am British (+ another nationality) and I am proud of that, because of this diverse multicultural society where people like all of you express their ideas and because of being part of a nation who are their own biggest critics. just love that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am an Asian but not an Indian/Pakistani...

Lived in 4 conutries in the past 10 years for my studies and work. Be honest with you guys British people are really polite and helpful. Specially I met really nice people here. Hope to meet new people soon before I move to Canada.....!....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody has their own preferences

If a profile reads no Asian men I look else where plenty fish in the sea!!

However lol some folk on here seem to be making comments about faith religion and sept 11th etc

A wee reminder this is a site for SHAGGING why should colour be mentioned??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was a fair question.

But my advice would be to move on. Chances are they have their preferences or they've made a sweeping generalisation. Either way, they're not meeting you.

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By *ntelligent Gent.Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

It is getting on with.

The sheer amount of profiles that say will not meet Asians is scary (Massive amount).

Although what people are fed on TV screens is what they are fed.

Times they are a changing though.

NB: OP is a good q.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everybody has their own preferences

If a profile reads no Asian men I look else where plenty fish in the sea!!

However lol some folk on here seem to be making comments about faith religion and sept 11th etc

A wee reminder this is a site for SHAGGING why should colour be mentioned?? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everybody has their own preferences

A wee reminder this is a site for SHAGGING why should colour be mentioned?? "

One of the shortest yet most contradicting posts I've ever read on here.

I've read many profiles that state they won't meet Asians.

I've read many profiles that state they won't meet blacks.

Some even say they won't meet whites.....

People just need to accept it and move on, unless they feel the need to brand someone a racist just to try and shame them into shagging them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow all the op did was ask what people meant meant by the word asian..

And it turns to this!

Race is such an emotive topic I suppose "

it wasnt a question on asian people and why people dont want to meet them.. so odd..

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

I don't find that many guys of Indian/Pakistani/Bangladeshi descent that attractive to be honest. Conversely i find lots of ladies of similar descent very attractive indeed.

Also Arab ladies are very attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My issue with asians by this i mean pakistani guys is and i generalise here and if i offend folk so be it is outlook on women in general.

As said its a generalising folk but thats how i see it."

Not offended. As im not from any of those countries. But all we have to do is go in to chat rooms and see how the women are treated on there..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's being racist at all, you state you're preference i.e. what turns you on ect.

I mean there are some Asian's who don't fancy or get turned on by Caucasians it's all about personal preference.

I have known women who genuinely like black/Asian men for who they are but just do not fancy them.

And remember it works the other way around where Black/Asian women don't want to fuck white me

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By *awk_eyeMan
over a year ago

east london

I echo the many sentiments about personal preference. I am an Asian guy, I have met some caucasian women , some have said they do not find Asian men attractive, all perfectly fine. What I think would be good for all parties would be to have an ethnicity filter on here which I'm sure has been mentioned numerous times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I echo the many sentiments about personal preference. I am an Asian guy, I have met some caucasian women , some have said they do not find Asian men attractive, all perfectly fine. What I think would be good for all parties would be to have an ethnicity filter on here which I'm sure has been mentioned numerous times. "

I think everything works just fine , we are all big boys and girls and can make the decisions who we choose or not choose to meet ourselves.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

CRICKEY MOSES!!!!

This thread started off asking what the definition of asian was (south aian, far eastern etc etc) and has turned to religion, pakistani men, to forced marriage next i expect a comment about ET being asian cause he was brown!!

Dear OP,

My thoughts (and they are mine alone) is that if someone has "No Asians" on thier profile then it could be due to:

a) preference

b) bad experiences

c) good old fashion racist views

d) stereotyping all people of one ethnicity the same

e) some other reason i can't think of because it's late and i really ned to sleep

What ever thier reasons may be they have specifically put that statement in their profile, so why bother pursuing it further? Regrdless of what thier reasons are all i'd advise you (and it is advice take it or leave it choice is yours) is don't message them or even block them perhaps as that prevents them messaging you and you messaging them.

That sounds a bit harsh and OTT and it limits who can see you and who you can message but at least you'll have some satisfaction in knowing that someone yu do meet actually wants to meet you regardless of your ethnic origin.

Good luck on here and hopefully you will find someone to play with who wants to play with you.

As for some of the comments on here i'd have to ask, are any of you story tellers? you have such vivid imagination and come up with all sorts of crap that has no substantiation behind it at all unless you believe everything you're soon fed via the media

HEre's m tinking this was full of free thinking and open minded people

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By *awk_eyeMan
over a year ago

east london


"I echo the many sentiments about personal preference. I am an Asian guy, I have met some caucasian women , some have said they do not find Asian men attractive, all perfectly fine. What I think would be good for all parties would be to have an ethnicity filter on here which I'm sure has been mentioned numerous times.

I think everything works just fine , we are all big boys and girls and can make the decisions who we choose or not choose to meet ourselves."

It would save a lot of hassle don't you agree? I.e. if a guy chooses to use the filter he will only see women who have not indicated they do not want to meet guys of his ethnicity. Would cut down on the number of unwanted messages they receive potentially..just my 2 cents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Asian sometimes get confused for a black male due to my dp, always funny to see how fast folks on here will delete and block me after realising lol,

My first.preference would be an Asian black or oriental woman over a white woman thats not being racist is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm asian and i'm having a great time!

Lifes too short...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me we english refer to asians as the indian/pakistani people

Chinese/thailand are refered to as orientals.

Americans are the ones who call orientals asian"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no point stressing about people's preferences really, everyone is entitled to them.

I just move on, there are plenty of other swingers on here who do appreciate Asians, so its perfectly fine by me.

I'm glad people are able to state 'no asians' as its not wasting my time then, I know.

It's all about fun, and how can you have fun with people who aren't attracted to you. Just be yourself, and hopefully your personality will shine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are folk asking for filters like ethnicity etc it takes seconds to look at profile to see preferences.

My preferences are anyone with a pulse

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