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By *incolnshire gentleman OP   Man
8 weeks ago

louth

Hi can I ask your opinion as to why people look at my profile and don't message. Is my profile lacking in anything?

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By *acavityMan
8 weeks ago

Redditch

Better than most, but it's bland.

Photo is good.

But literally the only info about you is 'chilled'

Almost everybody on the site is looking, but there is no obvious reason to choose you.

You have made it inoffensive, but equally there is no reason to choose you, unless every other local man is just no pictures & "will fill in later"

Sell yourself. I'm fat and in my fifties but my profile has got people to message me and even meet up.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

It lacks any information about the human it represents. Which conveys a message about the level on which said human wants to interact. Then it lacks a range of "alluring" images for the purely physical transactional options.

But having said that most people are only compatible with a small number of other people. I can look at three hundred (the number that show in the searches on here) and not necessarily message any. Doesn't mean there's anything wrong with those profiles. Just means it's not obvious there's a potential for compatibility

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By *aomilatteCouple
8 weeks ago

Midlands


"Hi can I ask your opinion as to why people look at my profile and don't message. Is my profile lacking in anything?"

You've had several meets so seem to be doing OK? You could do with some more varied photos and more description about yourself. We also get loads look at our profile but don't message, but that's how we like it 😊

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By *lik and PaulCouple
8 weeks ago

Flagrante


"Hi can I ask your opinion as to why people look at my profile and don't message. Is my profile lacking in anything?

You've had several meets so seem to be doing OK? You could do with some more varied photos and more description about yourself. We also get loads look at our profile but don't message, but that's how we like it 😊"

Yes...I would say 7 meets in a year is good going.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
8 weeks ago

Leeds

For someone who basically has no profile you seem to be doing ok.

There's nothing in your bio about you, what your into, what you can offer... nothing.

One photo of your chest and nothing more.

More pics and more bio.

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By *aomilatteCouple
8 weeks ago

Midlands


"Hi can I ask your opinion as to why people look at my profile and don't message. Is my profile lacking in anything?

You've had several meets so seem to be doing OK? You could do with some more varied photos and more description about yourself. We also get loads look at our profile but don't message, but that's how we like it 😊

Yes...I would say 7 meets in a year is good going."

We've had less play meets in that time, he's doing well

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago


"Hi can I ask your opinion as to why people look at my profile and don't message. Is my profile lacking in anything?"

Do you message EVERY profile you look at OP?

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By *incolnshire gentleman OP   Man
8 weeks ago

louth

Thank you, I've added some text x

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By *he Silver FuxMan
8 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"Thank you, I've added some text x "

You’ve spelt knickers wrong FFS - take some more care over what you write, I’ve lady friends who will delete / block for text speak and spelling mistakes. It’s like a CV.. glaring errors are not sexy.

Also don’t actually write about things you want to do in detail, it’s crass and that’s not what women want to see. Tantalising, suggestive language - tease, let them fill in the gaps with their own fantasies based around your personality.

Nice pictures - white dress shirt, suit, look handsome, well dressed and clean. Bit of B and W arty shots suggesting how you look naked maybe.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
8 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"Thank you, I've added some text x

You’ve spelt knickers wrong FFS - take some more care over what you write, I’ve lady friends who will delete / block for text speak and spelling mistakes. It’s like a CV.. glaring errors are not sexy.

Also don’t actually write about things you want to do in detail, it’s crass and that’s not what women want to see. Tantalising, suggestive language - tease, let them fill in the gaps with their own fantasies based around your personality.

Nice pictures - white dress shirt, suit, look handsome, well dressed and clean. Bit of B and W arty shots suggesting how you look naked maybe. "

Also cumforme as a profile name is just shit. Instant delete

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
8 weeks ago

Stoke

If they don't fancy you, they ain't gonna message.

Mr F.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Central

Most people will never be mutually compatible with most other people. Dozens of looks may confirm to them that you aren't mutually compatible, if you do things perfectly. Your profile suggests potentially limited interests and what you want, more than what you are bringing to the deal. More photos could help people to know if they find you attractive.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Central

Remove text speech too

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