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"Asking someone to do something they don't want to (or maybe can't if the couple have since left the site) in public is a bit rude imo. Especially as not all yours are on show. Unless that's everyone's kink I wouldn't ask someone else to modify their public internet presence for me. And if someone asked me I'd assume they were time wasters to be honest. Phone call, some pics, meeting in public... These things are useful with or without veris. " We are more than happy to shoe the all our verifications. They are from people that have already left us verifications that are visible. How do we know he doesn't want do something he's not happy with unless we ask? | |||
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"You know he doesn't want, or isn't able to put, that verification public because if he did and was able to it would be. It's like me saying I need you to post a public pic of the soles of your left feet. Might seem harmless, but it's odd and intrusive and not something you necessarily want on the internet. " Or the verification says "not very pleasant at all, ignored boundaries and was obviously high, not a nice experience, wouldn't meet again" Reasonable due diligence? | |||
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"No you weren't wrong to ask and he's not wrong if he doesn't want to show it. " This, somewhere of ours are hidden some not, we don't share sexual verifications I find them off-putting & it's no one else's business who we fuck so I wouldn't show them if requested either. Mrs | |||
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"No you weren't wrong to ask and he's not wrong if he doesn't want to show it. This, somewhere of ours are hidden some not, we don't share sexual verifications I find them off-putting & it's no one else's business who we fuck so I wouldn't show them if requested either. Mrs " Thought this was on my couples profile - same applies to this one. | |||
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"You know he doesn't want, or isn't able to put, that verification public because if he did and was able to it would be. It's like me saying I need you to post a public pic of the soles of your left feet. Might seem harmless, but it's odd and intrusive and not something you necessarily want on the internet. " I disagree. It's not wrong or rude to ask. Just as it is not wrong to decline. However, for me someone declining to show me a veri that they were able to share would be a red flag. Moot point as the guy went AWOL but I don't think the OP did anything wrong in asking the question. | |||
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"There might be an innocent reason, I've hidden one of my recent verifications as it mentioned my real name, which doesn't begin with S, there is no way I want that displayed. " Same for me Tarquin | |||
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"You know he doesn't want, or isn't able to put, that verification public because if he did and was able to it would be. It's like me saying I need you to post a public pic of the soles of your left feet. Might seem harmless, but it's odd and intrusive and not something you necessarily want on the internet. Or the verification says "not very pleasant at all, ignored boundaries and was obviously high, not a nice experience, wouldn't meet again" Reasonable due diligence?" __ If that's the case, it's unlikely the offended/victim party would treat him with a verification that, to some single men here are like gold. Most likely it would be something explicit detailing sexual activity that this single man prefers not to display and he's in his right to keep it that way. | |||
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"We were arranging to meet a single male. Early stages, was going well. We were very clear on desires etc. Seemed nice. Was replying within minutes. He had one verification from a couple 2 years ago and wasn't displayed, so we asked him to display it for a couple of minutes so we could read it. He read the message immediately, then we haven't heard anything for 2 days. Were we wrong to ask?" A time waster in probability with a faux veri | |||
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