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By *aughty forty. OP   Couple
13 weeks ago

east grinstead

I really get excited at the thought of my asian wife being fucked bareback by a dominant bull as i sit and watch....i know she fantasisies about it as well.....does this make me a bad person?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Central

No. With full respect for what your partner wants, it's fine to still have fantasies that may differ. It seems that you both have matching desires and you both can decide whether or not you actually pursue them. Stay open and you will both be able to navigate together

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I went to a party years ago, met a lovely couple. He loved telling me what to do to his wife, who was clearly out of his league. He had money, she was sexy.

But he loved dominating me more, as I was bigger and more masculine.

Then, he had her after me.

We had a great time, but I just didn’t get his part. Can someone else explain?

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By *estiswestMan
13 weeks ago

glasgow

It’s a mix of motivations, deep rooted

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By *neeyedwillieMan
13 weeks ago

Darlington


"I really get excited at the thought of my asian wife being fucked bareback by a dominant bull as i sit and watch....i know she fantasisies about it as well.....does this make me a bad person? "

No. It's your kink.

My wifes into me fucking other women (and yes, we have a couples account on here). She gets off on other women wanting me (which I obviously enjoy) and thats our thing.

As long as everyones happy with it..whats the problem?

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By *pen to offers!Man
13 weeks ago

Carlisle

Nothing up with it. I did it with my wife and we both got pleasure from it. Unfortunately she isn’t interested in sex anymore though. So I’m on here looking to be someone else’s cuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

No it’s a lot of guy fantasy, I love to watch just like a porn with staring your wife, I also love to be watched

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By *otfunx1Man
13 weeks ago

Edinburgh

No I happy for it to happen. Hope she does it soon

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

No, not at all.

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By *umagain58Man
13 weeks ago

London

The important thing is you both want to do this and both enjoy. If that is the case nothing wrong having fun

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By *m3232Man
13 weeks ago

maidenhead


"I really get excited at the thought of my asian wife being fucked bareback by a dominant bull as i sit and watch....i know she fantasisies about it as well.....does this make me a bad person? "

You all love different things so no. Myself I would find another guy having sex with my Mrs a big turn on also.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago


"I went to a party years ago, met a lovely couple. He loved telling me what to do to his wife, who was clearly out of his league. He had money, she was sexy.

But he loved dominating me more, as I was bigger and more masculine.

Then, he had her after me.

We had a great time, but I just didn’t get his part. Can someone else explain?

"

It's dominance. He dominated you both, you were under his control, got off on it as you were bigger than him, etc

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By *elrose57Couple
13 weeks ago

reading

if that is what you and your wife want , then no its up to you both, you cant help the way you feel and your fantasies, i'm sure you have many a wank thinking about some hung guy entering your wife , her legs wide open and she is holding her pussy open for him to fuck her,,

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago


"I went to a party years ago, met a lovely couple. He loved telling me what to do to his wife, who was clearly out of his league. He had money, she was sexy.

But he loved dominating me more, as I was bigger and more masculine.

Then, he had her after me.

We had a great time, but I just didn’t get his part. Can someone else explain?

It's dominance. He dominated you both, you were under his control, got off on it as you were bigger than him, etc"

Makes sense I suppose.

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By *sxboy69Man
13 weeks ago

Rayleigh

No as long as you're all consenting adults.

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By *wguy100Man
13 weeks ago

Exeter

Not at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I long to feel the pang of jealousy

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By *aughtystaffs60Couple
13 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We are what we are. If you are cuckold and the mrs likes the idea then go for it. I wish mrs N was more into it but at 61 I think our days of cuckolding me are more or less over

Good luck OP. hope you find nirvana.

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By *loydyboyMan
13 weeks ago

Cleckheaton

You lucky thing you

Like you I get off on knowing my wife is with other men and the fact that they can make her moan so incredibly well it’s just that.

But I’m not allowed to be there as that would take the attention away from her in her mind plus there’s also the worry that I might get carried away after all not all of us are bi curious.

So in a nutshell get your freak on and enjoy those that don’t like it it’s okay they don’t have to like it but they should respect others likes and fantasies

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
13 weeks ago

bedford

We started on this site for full swap with couples , but then I got horny seeing my wife getting chatted up by guys at the club , The inevitable happened and loved watching her getting fucked by another guy , she loved me watching too , which has led to me watching her on several occasions , we even have a friend who fucks her outside the swinging scene , and has fucked her many times over the last 14 years ,she also likes watching me fuck other women when there no husband around , and actual found her bi side too with one very horny lady , that’s one reason we do some solo meets as I can’t concentrate on another wife , while watching mine , have spoken to a few husbands who agree and have same problem

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By *aveJones76Man
13 weeks ago

Rotherham

Not in the slightest. I feel for my wife as I can satisfy her with my cock and it must be so frustrating for her. I'd happily become a cuck if she ever fancied trying elsewhere.

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
13 weeks ago

Rotherham

I've been in two cuckold relationship the first whilst still at uni. It doesn't make you a bad person and asking as there is good communication , honestly and any rules created agreed to it can be amazing. We used a cuckold contract to document the terms of our relationship but it really isn't necessary. We found our relationship was stronger and more affection and intermacy ( albeit with no penetrative sex) after we were cuckold

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By *yeSureMan
13 weeks ago

Glasgow

It’s not wrong. Lots of guys are or wannabe

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By *he Silver FuxMan
13 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"I went to a party years ago, met a lovely couple. He loved telling me what to do to his wife, who was clearly out of his league. He had money, she was sexy.

But he loved dominating me more, as I was bigger and more masculine.

Then, he had her after me.

We had a great time, but I just didn’t get his part. Can someone else explain?

It's dominance. He dominated you both, you were under his control, got off on it as you were bigger than him, etc"

⬆️ Absolutely. You were just a cock, a freebie male esc0rt, brought in to do a job as directed… that wasn’t a Cuckold situation.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
13 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

If it feels good, exciting, interesting, naughty and nobody gets hurt who cares what label we put on it.

You two enjoy 😉

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By *heonixrising500Man
13 weeks ago

Barnsley

If it feels good do it

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By *avid and juneCouple
13 weeks ago

Tamworth

I think some people overthink cuckolding.

It's only a bit of fun. Don't take it too seriously.

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By *otandDashCouple
13 weeks ago

Farnham


"I think some people overthink cuckolding.

It's only a bit of fun. Don't take it too seriously.

"

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By *tanlee1512Man
13 weeks ago

Epsom

Sounds like a good idea to me

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By *illDoXXXMan
13 weeks ago

Preston

Absolutely not, if everyone is happy no problem, happy wife means happy cuck

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By *ibsonVicMan
13 weeks ago

Minworth

No - it makes you a person who knows what intense please being a cuckold can bring to you.

The thought of holding another man's penis and guiding it into your wife...

Holding his balls as he pumps his cum into her...

Tasting her cum filled cunt for the first time...

There really is nothing more erotically charged!!!

But - find a man that you can trust...

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By *ccasional_LoversCouple
13 weeks ago

Peterborough


"I think some people overthink cuckolding.

It's only a bit of fun. Don't take it too seriously.

"

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Personally, as the male of this relationship I hate the word 'Cuckold' as I hate the thought of strong men being reduced to being abused & neglected to get off.

That's just me though and although I have thoroughly enjoyed watching Ruby getting male attention, it has never been derogatory & we have always took it in turns

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By *ayd100Man
13 weeks ago

clitheroe

Nothing wrong with it,if you are happy with it who cares

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By *quarius535Man
13 weeks ago

ilfracombe

I really loved watching my wife being fucked by a friend of ours, and felt for both of them enjoying the moment. It made us all very happy and I had seconds after he came in her. We often recalled those times afterwards and it turned us both on. It was always in a highly charged, romantic setting - not just a wham, bam, and very erotic.

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By *aughty2yorksCouple
13 weeks ago

Leeds

Nothing wrong with it if you both want it

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By *ohn8210tCouple
13 weeks ago

Warwick

I love sharing my wife , but I don’t want to be

be-littled or put down. I just love seeing her used and I join in too, at the end or half way through . It’s all fun .

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By *abba44Man
13 weeks ago

Broadstairs

I have had 2 wives and now a Gf,the first wife started off with a family member and after we married it carried on for a couple of years,l found out this when l divorced her,my second wife fantasised about a bbc but it was only a fanatasy `cos l arranged a meet,told her but she refused.

My present Gf is okay with a bit of swinging which ticks all mine and her boxes,.Something that has been in the back of my mind for years,now l have witnessed it l find,, yer its okay but the thrill has diminished a bit for me,but we still will do it at least once more,as we are getting older the urges are not as often as they once were.

l still fantisize her with a bull bbc but they are thin on the ground near where we live.

So the answer is l like being a cuckold occasionally.

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By *ita7Man
13 weeks ago

Kettering


"I love sharing my wife , but I don’t want to be

be-littled or put down. I just love seeing her used and I join in too, at the end or half way through . It’s all fun ."

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By *nexpectedExplorerMan
13 weeks ago

SA3

Everyone’s different and everyone has their fantasies. Situations vary too. But nothing wrong with enjoying this thought or that life. No judgement as long as legal.

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By *bcplCouple
13 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire


"I love sharing my wife , but I don’t want to be

be-littled or put down. I just love seeing her used and I join in too, at the end or half way through . It’s all fun ."

Same here, not into being humiliated but do love to see the Mrs getting fucked good n proper.

Whilst she was doggy playing MMMF I was holding her ass cheeks apart whist a guy fuxked her, amazing!

Mr

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By *rankie bricksMan
13 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I like the thought of wife having another guy, my knowledge, encourage, support, watching.

Not full cuck but some details.

I'm looking to chat with others, or similar contacts

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By *otuseater11Man
13 weeks ago

IRVINE

If that's your thing go for it nothing wrong with enjoying life to the full

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By *luttTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Duns


"I really get excited at the thought of my asian wife being fucked bareback by a dominant bull as i sit and watch....i know she fantasisies about it as well.....does this make me a bad person? "

No. No kink makes you a bad person, although there are a few where actually acting them out would make you one.

But that is perfectly fine to fantasise about, and perfectly fine to enact so long as everyone involved is fully on-board. It sounds like your wife might be, although do remember that for many people there is a big gulf between what they’ll fantasise about and what they are actually prepared to do.

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By *he kidMan
13 weeks ago

monaghan

I don't think I'm a cuck but the thoughts of another man pleasuring my wife drives me wild. Sadly I can only dream about it ever happening

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By *6travellerMan
13 weeks ago

Tayside, Midlands and Chester

No. Natural and with the right people great fun for all.

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By *estiswestMan
12 weeks ago

glasgow

I find it natural and arousing

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By *ayPrimeMan
12 weeks ago

Leeds


"I really get excited at the thought of my asian wife being fucked bareback by a dominant bull as i sit and watch....i know she fantasisies about it as well.....does this make me a bad person? "

You’ve been verified by someone who’s done it, have got it listed in your bio as something you both enjoy and are on a website for which cuckolding isn’t even halfway toward the extreme.

Did you really creat this post to answer that question?

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By *yeSureMan
12 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *lecom1Couple
12 weeks ago

Stornoway

We find it natural and a lot of fun

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By *armandwet50Couple
12 weeks ago

Far far away

We enjoy it

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By *elboy1978Man
12 weeks ago

Fellgate

Cuck is something I would like to try

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By *ueens of the SceneWoman
12 weeks ago

Leicestershire


"I really get excited at the thought of my asian wife being fucked bareback by a dominant bull as i sit and watch....i know she fantasisies about it as well.....does this make me a bad person? "

Of course not , safe fantasy play put into reality is awesome !

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By *randmrs 1st timeCouple
12 weeks ago

bolton

I love it so much

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Sometimes I’d love to see my lovely wife cumming on a bigger man’s cock. Look into her eyes as she is penetrated for the first time by another.

Other times I’m just yearning to fuck another man’s wife. Sometimes somewhere in between the two!

Just go with how you feel and be careful…

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By *assionatepoetsCouple
12 weeks ago

Highbridge


"Sometimes I’d love to see my lovely wife cumming on a bigger man’s cock. Look into her eyes as she is penetrated for the first time by another.

Other times I’m just yearning to fuck another man’s wife. Sometimes somewhere in between the two!

Just go with how you feel and be careful…"

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By *assionatepoetsCouple
12 weeks ago

Highbridge


"I love sharing my wife , but I don’t want to be

be-littled or put down. I just love seeing her used and I join in too, at the end or half way through . It’s all fun .

Same here, not into being humiliated but do love to see the Mrs getting fucked good n proper.

Whilst she was doggy playing MMMF I was holding her ass cheeks apart whist a guy fuxked her, amazing!

Mr "

Truly beautiful

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By *yeSureMan
12 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
12 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I go through phases of feeling weird and then times of embracing being a cuck but definitely wouldnt tell my friends lol

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By *alketanMan
12 weeks ago

Edinburgh

For me it was all around the adoration of and obsession with the woman I loved.

Sounds strange I know but I worshipped her and genuinely got a huge kick out of another man wanting her.

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By *irdman21Man
12 weeks ago

dublin

Recently in bed when having sex we talk dirty about here fucking another guy while I watch, and we both find it a huge turn on, my question is how do you cross over to reality??

As in the worry she might be more into him ect??

We have a great sex life and I know I satisfy her, but can making a fantasy a reality change things?

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By *assionatepoetsCouple
12 weeks ago

Highbridge

As long as you are secure in your love for each other, set boundaries, perhaps no kissing on the mouth, whatever you can be comfortable with and baby steps, maybe visit a club to spectate,other couples will understand.

Best of luck on your journey

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By *oxy jWoman
12 weeks ago

taunton somerset

most over used word on fab most get cuckold mixed up with hot wife or even basic swinging and how single men think they can be cuck even tho they are single ... add in for some its real life and for most its fantasy ...

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By *ash0000Man
12 weeks ago

Southwest

For some it may not be a choice. Embrace it

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By *DW1983Man
11 weeks ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield


"I really get excited at the thought of my asian wife being fucked bareback by a dominant bull as i sit and watch....i know she fantasisies about it as well.....does this make me a bad person? "

Not really, everyone has different likes and desires. Each to their own. So long as it's consensual and everyone's on the same page, it's all good.

What I find more odd is that you felt the need to specify that she's your 'Asian wife' rather than just your wife, I'm not sure what the relevance of her ethnicity is.

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By *t112Man
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

Wife chat ??

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By *rankie bricksMan
11 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Hub here looking for contact/ chat about ideas thoughts (wife)

Happy to chat with couples, fellow hubs , experience or just ideas

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By *wguy100Man
11 weeks ago

Exeter


"most over used word on fab most get cuckold mixed up with hot wife or even basic swinging and how single men think they can be cuck even tho they are single ... add in for some its real life and for most its fantasy ... "

Well said

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