FabSwingers.com forum: Body confidence after gaining weight!

By *urious_Miss_Anal OP Woman
23 weeks ago

Somewhere

Hey you sexy lot! Just after some advice.

I'm new to the scene. Used to be a size 6/8 and athletic then became chronically ill. So, naturally my body has changed somewhat over the last 8-10 years.

I've completely lost my confidence in myself. I feel ugly and just not sexy at all. So that then makes swinging very difficult!

What can I do to get that oomph back in my step? I need to start to love my curves as I'll never be back to that size 6/8.

I have a partner who is amazing and supportive (who is also on here) and tells me often that I'm sexy but I just can't believe it myself. Help!

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By *onnybluckyMan
23 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

A size 6/ 8

To be fair is not what guys like

Certainly not me

May I ask ur size now

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By *urious_Miss_Anal OP Woman
23 weeks ago

Somewhere

"A size 6/ 8

To be fair is not what guys like

Certainly not me

May I ask ur size now "

12/14 now. Pretty much all in proportion bar my stomach which is the bit I hate.

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By *more226Man
23 weeks ago

somewhere wiltshire

You look very hot to me love to see more

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By *onnybluckyMan
23 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Look absolutely gorgeous

I'm outside ur age range do can't message in private

Butisten to ur partner he is right

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By *urious_Miss_Anal OP Woman
23 weeks ago

Somewhere

"You look very hot to me love to see more"
Thank you

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By *urious_Miss_Anal OP Woman
23 weeks ago

Somewhere

"Look absolutely gorgeous

I'm outside ur age range do can't message in private

Butisten to ur partner he is right "

Thank you 😊

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By *angtidy42Couple
23 weeks ago

Redditch

Just be yourself and enjoy. 12 / 14 is the ideal for most men.

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By *onnybluckyMan
23 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"Just be yourself and enjoy. 12 / 14 is the ideal for most men.

I so Agree

Your partner is very Lucky to have you

As any guy would

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By *ickylouCouple
23 weeks ago

b71

"Look absolutely gorgeous

I'm outside ur age range do can't message in private

Butisten to ur partner he is right

Thank you 😊"

You look stunning. Your figure looks perfect.

The sexiest thing in a woman is her mind and her confidence x

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By *ady LickWoman
23 weeks ago

Northampton Somewhere

What I would say is listen to your partner, I think he's right. You look gorgeous from your photos.

Accept that you'll never be a size 6 again and love what you've got

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Central

Yes will be what a huge number of people really want. Perhaps consider letting yourself be around those who will like you, so that the experience of them finding you attractive becomes normalised and integrated within your expectations. Yes won't have to be having sex with any of them, merely becoming accustomed to people appreciating how you are today, in the flesh. You'll probably find it has a much deeper and stronger effect and meaning, than just hearing it. Fab socials or clubs, could be safe places where you could experience this real-time, without any optional physical contact. Reach into your heart, because you'll likely know instinctively what you need and what could uplift your spirits.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Central

"Yes will be what a huge number of people really want. Perhaps consider letting yourself be around those who will like you, so that the experience of them finding you attractive becomes normalised and integrated within your expectations. Yes won't have to be having sex with any of them, merely becoming accustomed to people appreciating how you are today, in the flesh. You'll probably find it has a much deeper and stronger effect and meaning, than just hearing it. Fab socials or clubs, could be safe places where you could experience this real-time, without any optional physical contact. Reach into your heart, because you'll likely know instinctively what you need and what could uplift your spirits. "

Sorry for the typo

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By *urious_Miss_Anal OP Woman
23 weeks ago

Somewhere

Sorry for the typo

🖤🖤🖤🖤

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By *urious_Miss_Anal OP Woman
23 weeks ago

Somewhere

"What I would say is listen to your partner, I think he's right. You look gorgeous from your photos.

Accept that you'll never be a size 6 again and love what you've got

Thank you 😙

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By *urious_Miss_Anal OP Woman
23 weeks ago

Somewhere

"Look absolutely gorgeous

I'm outside ur age range do can't message in private

Butisten to ur partner he is right

Thank you 😊

You look stunning. Your figure looks perfect.

The sexiest thing in a woman is her mind and her confidence x"

Thank you! I need to build that confidence some how.

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By *urious_Miss_Anal OP Woman
23 weeks ago

Somewhere

"Just be yourself and enjoy. 12 / 14 is the ideal for most men.

Thank you

I'm beginning to see this now!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Central

One other thing that struck me, is for you to ensure that you take all pressure off yourself, to get to how you want to be. You don't deserve any undue stresses or strains, when your central spirit is hurting and feeling loss, from how you used to be. It's wonderful that you have your partner now and maybe you can let him be the sweetness and nourishment for your soul, whilst you relax more and soak up the goodness reflected from who you are.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
23 weeks ago

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Please try to be kind to yourself. Whatever you have overcome, you look absolutely stunning! Listen to the compliments, accept them and soon you will start to believe them. For a bit of extra self love, if you can, maybes treat yourself to a massage or a nice body cream - it will help you get back in tune with your body. Get some new underwear (check you’re still in the right bra size if you’ve changed dress size/shape) and a perfume that makes you feel sexy. Men love all shapes and sizes but from your pics, I’d say you look pretty damn perfect ☺️

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By *ee642024Woman
23 weeks ago

Crook

am a size 12 to 14.i was a 12 but after i was knocked down and fractured my ankle i put on over a stone not been able to get around.its no problem though as i was a lot bigger in my twenties.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"Hey you sexy lot! Just after some advice.

I'm new to the scene. Used to be a size 6/8 and athletic then became chronically ill. So, naturally my body has changed somewhat over the last 8-10 years.

I've completely lost my confidence in myself. I feel ugly and just not sexy at all. So that then makes swinging very difficult!

What can I do to get that oomph back in my step? I need to start to love my curves as I'll never be back to that size 6/8.

I have a partner who is amazing and supportive (who is also on here) and tells me often that I'm sexy but I just can't believe it myself. Help!

Sorry you’re going through this.

Just do more exercise. Walking, running or yoga and reduce your calories.

Stay smiling and strong 💪🏼💪🏼

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By *arc and KamaCouple
23 weeks ago

Birmingham

And…. Most women would kill to get down with the size around 14.

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By *andPextraCouple
23 weeks ago

North West

Ex professional dancer here. Size 6 for years. I went through a long period of bemoaning my physical changes after curtailing dancing and a few health issues that meant i lost a huge amount of my strength and muscle tone.

I was very hard on myself and fixated on what I had lost, didnt like or would change, despite a very supportive hubby.

I had to shift my focus (granted easier said than done) to what I DO LIKE and admire and appreciate about myself and then focus on those. Hence I’ll now buy things that emphasize what I like and hides what I don’t.

Most people will tell you thr sexiest thing about a lady is confidence. How you smile, act, carry yourself and use your femininity (my hubby describes it as the “power of the pussy”) can be the most alluring thing.

A confident 12/14 as opposed to a shrinking violet size 6 would win every time

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By *m3232Man
23 weeks ago

maidenhead

I would say that you will still have the same amount of people thinking you look stunning. As there will be a variation as someone may not be in to size 6 but absolutely loves size 8 then the next person loves size 10 and so on.

So it’s more how you see yourself than people not liking your current size. There are so many people out there you will always find plenty that love your look and that includes myself

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By *urious_Miss_Anal OP Woman
23 weeks ago

Somewhere

You guys are the best. Thank you for your lovely comments. 🥰

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By *rafter69Man
23 weeks ago

upminster

Simply stunning as you are 😍

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By *andomly FriendlyCouple
23 weeks ago

Hull

You look amazing! 🤤

I used to be really self-conscious about my body, but I'm feeling a lot better about it now. We started going to clubs, and I would just hide in a corner wrapped in a towel.

But now I'm like 'meh,' and I walk around in my underwear, sometimes with my boobies out, lol. Going to the clubs actually really helped—seeing all the different shapes and sizes and realising nobody is really judging.

Curls x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
23 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm exactly the same our earlier fab pics I was a size 8 which I had been all my life, I'm now a 14/16 and totally struggle with the alien in the mirror that doesn't look like me anymore.

I'm slowly learning to like my body again but it is still alien however I love my new found boobs!!

Our fab pics have strangely helped me, when the Mr does the pics and I see them after I'm surprised that's me in a good way, but the negative thoughts are still there in day to day life.

I hope you find the love for your new curves, you look great - we are our own worst critics.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

12/14 isn't even fat, I'm fat, you're not

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By *anttoswingMan
23 weeks ago

Eddlesborough

This is such an interesting subject, I'm sorry you're feeling that way but thank you for speaking up as I'm sure so many other people will benefit from the conversation too!

This is something I've always wondered about with the lifestyle, how does it make women feel? As a man, my assumption is that you would feel like an absolute goddess, desired by thousands of men as we all clamber at the hope of being noticed!

Sexiness is such a mindset, and confidence is hot! I'll try not to get too bogged down in how stunning you look in your pictures because I get this is a how you feel thing, but I would hope that getting dressed up (or not) and spending a little time in the cam rooms, or building up to a club, and just looking at the admiration and attention you get, well I hope it makes you feel as good as you deserve to feel about yourself x X X

(P.s. seriously though, you are hot as fuck!!!

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By *ikeC81Man
23 weeks ago

harrow

As someone who in early 30s was slim and now I am not I know what you mean.

I hate getting in to pools and taking all my clothes off don’t mind removing my trousers but hate my belly.

I think you just have to live with it

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By *ickylouCouple
23 weeks ago

b71

"Look absolutely gorgeous

I'm outside ur age range do can't message in private

Butisten to ur partner he is right

Thank you 😊

You look stunning. Your figure looks perfect.

The sexiest thing in a woman is her mind and her confidence x

Thank you! I need to build that confidence some how."

Come to the next UP THE BRUM socail. They are a wonderful safe place to get to know people.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
23 weeks ago

Stoke

You look amazing, don't get hung up on dress sizes.

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By *ove and DuckCouple
23 weeks ago

between Sheffield & Chesterfield

You look fantastic . Don't bring yourself down

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By *itygamesMan
23 weeks ago

google "the fast 800 diet"

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By *urious_Miss_Anal OP Woman
23 weeks ago

Somewhere

"I'm exactly the same our earlier fab pics I was a size 8 which I had been all my life, I'm now a 14/16 and totally struggle with the alien in the mirror that doesn't look like me anymore.

I'm slowly learning to like my body again but it is still alien however I love my new found boobs!!

Our fab pics have strangely helped me, when the Mr does the pics and I see them after I'm surprised that's me in a good way, but the negative thoughts are still there in day to day life.

I hope you find the love for your new curves, you look great - we are our own worst critics.

Mrs "

OMG THE BOOBS! I've gone from a B cup to a D! That I am pretty chuffed with.

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By *avexxMan
23 weeks ago

cheshire

i think you have a lovely figure tbh,,

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By *ularliWoman
23 weeks ago

Worcester

I think you have a gorgeous body and I also have major boob envy!

Honestly i can’t see anything wrong with your figure at all.

Embrace yourself because you look lovely x

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By *abby N IanCouple
3 weeks ago

Willenhall

This forum definately hit home with me. As I'm getting older and with my lumps, bumps, anxiety and mental health issues I am struggling more with my confidence and hence struggling to approach new ppl, especially in the clubs. I miss all signals if anyone is interested or not 😂

Actually I'm wondering if this new event Xtasia have asked me and my husband to host stating 'we are a perfect fit' would help anyone. It's going to be aimed at building ppls confidence and helping ppl meet and interact with new ppl that believe they have imperfections. I believe nobody is perfect and we should all embrace all the positives things we have to offer others and ourselves xx

The event happening at Xtasia on Saturday 8th March called Perfect Imperfections.

Feel free to have a look:

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/events/1678402

Hopefully see some of you there.

Tabby x

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

You look stunning OP according to your photos

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By *anonfire96Man
3 weeks ago

Mansfield

Well OP if your pics are anything to go by you certainly have nothing to be conscious about. From my point of view just gorgeous.

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By *heelerMan
3 weeks ago

Northants

"Hey you sexy lot! Just after some advice.

I'm new to the scene. Used to be a size 6/8 and athletic then became chronically ill. So, naturally my body has changed somewhat over the last 8-10 years.

I've completely lost my confidence in myself. I feel ugly and just not sexy at all. So that then makes swinging very difficult!

What can I do to get that oomph back in my step? I need to start to love my curves as I'll never be back to that size 6/8.

I have a partner who is amazing and supportive (who is also on here) and tells me often that I'm sexy but I just can't believe it myself. Help!

Well you look stunning by your photos and men would love to get to know you

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By *urious_Miss_Anal OP Woman
3 weeks ago

Somewhere

You guys are the best. 🥰 I've been counting calories since new year and lost half a stone already. So definitely feeling the benefits.

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By *urFantasy21Couple
3 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

You look amazing.

I often go through stages of feeling similarly self conscious especially after Christmas. As fate would have it the only evening we could go to a club lately was Thursday evening which is naked night, I was a nervous wreck before going but having bit the bullet and chatting away I realised it was in my own head and not what others were seeing.

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By *unseek26Man
3 weeks ago

Petersfield

I have to say I find your physicality extremely appealing. Like me there are a great number of us men and women who appreciate what you suggest you dislike about yourself. Personally the more curvaceous a woman the more sensual and desirable I find them. Believing your partner and me is a psychological hurdle you need to get over.

Why don’t you try posting your pics on Zoig.com, it gives any admirer of the fuller figure the opportunity to express their appreciation of your physique. I would hope specific comments and communication would give you more confidence the more you receive and respond to.

The more artistic the pose and subsequent photo the more positive the comments you will receive. It seems you have a lovely partner with a good eye for just that.

I wish I could wave a magic wand and gift you the realisation of how beautiful you actually are.

Go forth with confidence. 🪄

Simon 💋💋

PS. I can’t wait to see more of you. 💋

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By *riendly BiMan
3 weeks ago

"Hey you sexy lot! Just after some advice.

I'm new to the scene. Used to be a size 6/8 and athletic then became chronically ill. So, naturally my body has changed somewhat over the last 8-10 years.

I've completely lost my confidence in myself. I feel ugly and just not sexy at all. So that then makes swinging very difficult!

What can I do to get that oomph back in my step? I need to start to love my curves as I'll never be back to that size 6/8.

I have a partner who is amazing and supportive (who is also on here) and tells me often that I'm sexy but I just can't believe it myself. Help!

You look absolutely amazing and I wouldn't worry. I was 13st then suffered a back injury which led me to have an option it which didn't work so I cannot exercise due to being in chronic pain most of the time. My weight piled on and now I'm 18st, diabetic and and more drugs than Escobar got his hands on!

You should be extremely proud of the way you look. There are thousands of women who would kill for a body like yours

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By *ittleJohn5Man
3 weeks ago

Wickham Market

My wife has the same problem

But when from a size 12 to 20

She completely redrawn for any sexual activity.

But..

You look stunning and most men like curves

Size 14 a nice size if you lost weight great.

But any man would be so proud to have you.

Embrace the new sexy you and have a great time.

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By *andPextraCouple
3 weeks ago

North West

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By *andPextraCouple
3 weeks ago

North West

Some lovely comments on here from people. Fab can be a power of good on occasion.

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By *llGoodFun76Couple
3 weeks ago

Angus

I've always been bigger, just the way I am. Take it or leave it, easy as that x

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Curves are the way to go x

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By *ikeC81Man
3 weeks ago

harrow

Tbh I had the oh shit we can’t really operate till you loose weight conversation with my doctor.

That upset me massively. So need to get back to gym and reduce chips

And fried food

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By *exymarvelMan
3 weeks ago

cardiff

"Hey you sexy lot! Just after some advice.

I'm new to the scene. Used to be a size 6/8 and athletic then became chronically ill. So, naturally my body has changed somewhat over the last 8-10 years.

I've completely lost my confidence in myself. I feel ugly and just not sexy at all. So that then makes swinging very difficult!

What can I do to get that oomph back in my step? I need to start to love my curves as I'll never be back to that size 6/8.

I have a partner who is amazing and supportive (who is also on here) and tells me often that I'm sexy but I just can't believe it myself. Help!

You look amazing, no more words needed x

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By *exymarvelMan
3 weeks ago

cardiff

I have lost 4 stones in the last year and go 2 the gym 5 days a week, tbf im not 100% happy with how i look. I look better than i did but the gym bod is loading so to speak x

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By *anilla_SundaeCouple
3 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Very sexy lady, 12/14 isn't big, men love curves and you look fantastic. Embrace them

Mrs

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By *ichellehantsTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Fareham

My wife has a great cuddly body good tits

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By *bitofaslutWoman
3 weeks ago

Cannock

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By *bitofaslutWoman
3 weeks ago

Cannock

I'm a 16/18 depending on shop lol

Been going to swinging clubs for about six months and been full-time femme for 2 or 3 years.

What I've picked up from the clubs and dealing with a middle aged body that is far too masculine is that there is room for every body shape and size out there and whoever you are and whatever you look like, it's a thing of beauty and something to be celebrated.

We're all our own worst critics. I know it's a long process but you need to listen to your partner and the people around you. They see you with outside eyes and they don't have that little negative voice we all have inside that says "ugh" when we look in the mirror. They're right, you know? You're gorgeous. Just try to take their word for it.

You're doing so well. This random internet stranger is proud of you for the progress you've made. You've got this

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By *cooby5555Man
3 weeks ago

galway

Your recent pics look fab most men don't like women too skinny you rock hun good luck bu sure you don't need it x

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By *an8iMan
3 weeks ago

Bilston

You look incredible in the pics on you're profile

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Absolutely lovely nothing to worry about

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By *neeyedwillieMan
3 weeks ago

Darlington

"A size 6/ 8

To be fair is not what guys like

Certainly not me

May I ask ur size now

12/14 now. Pretty much all in proportion bar my stomach which is the bit I hate. "

Perfect size with curves in the right place.

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By *arleycplCouple
2 weeks ago

Leyburn

You look absolutely fabulous, I would love to meet you, listen to your hubby

Marie x

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By *ischiefmanaged90Man
2 weeks ago

Blackpool

I'd believe your partner you look amazing, gorgeous figure 😍

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By *ddie7XXXMan
2 weeks ago

wigan

"Hey you sexy lot! Just after some advice.

I'm new to the scene. Used to be a size 6/8 and athletic then became chronically ill. So, naturally my body has changed somewhat over the last 8-10 years.

I've completely lost my confidence in myself. I feel ugly and just not sexy at all. So that then makes swinging very difficult!

What can I do to get that oomph back in my step? I need to start to love my curves as I'll never be back to that size 6/8.

I have a partner who is amazing and supportive (who is also on here) and tells me often that I'm sexy but I just can't believe it myself. Help!

"
you look stunning very sexy all women x

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By *orgetmeKnotCouple
2 weeks ago

Gillingham

Find an outfit that flatters your beautiful curves, makes you feels sexy and is comfortable too.

I have my go to skirt and top for this exact occasion. When I'm feeling shit and low in self esteem.. it gives me such a confidence boost...I feel sexy in it.

No matter how curvy a woman (or man) I'd...confidence is the sexiest thing! Love yourself 😘

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By *oughmanMan
2 weeks ago

Sunderland

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By *oughmanMan
2 weeks ago

Sunderland

You look fantastic to me. And you have really good photos, in a style I absolutely love. Very artistic. Especially the silhouette.

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By *oobieTrapWoman
2 weeks ago

london

"Hey you sexy lot! Just after some advice.

I'm new to the scene. Used to be a size 6/8 and athletic then became chronically ill. So, naturally my body has changed somewhat over the last 8-10 years.

I've completely lost my confidence in myself. I feel ugly and just not sexy at all. So that then makes swinging very difficult!

What can I do to get that oomph back in my step? I need to start to love my curves as I'll never be back to that size 6/8.

I have a partner who is amazing and supportive (who is also on here) and tells me often that I'm sexy but I just can't believe it myself. Help!

I call myself imperfectly perfect.

The world is a vacuous place. Porn culture tries to create a fantasy where all women have perfect bodies and digitally altered photos perpetuate the myth. The reality is that bodies change - MEN included - over time. Many man seem to expect the perfect body whilst their own is far from perfect.

The answer is to love yourself and f*ck the haters.

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By *londebiguyMan
2 weeks ago

Southport

From what I know and experience, curves are very sexy and attractive.

Many ,many people prefer that body shape for women.

We all change with time and I think we all have to go with it and try embrace the changes.

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By *eb51Man
2 weeks ago

kings lynn

You look fantastic, you should celebrate your shape, very sexy.

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By *awpleasureMan
2 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

I bet there's 100s of women who'd love to have your figure OP

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By *ove2LurveCouple
2 weeks ago

Dartford

"I've always been bigger, just the way I am. Take it or leave it, easy as that x"

There's plenty of men looking out for a curvier woman, so they (and I) would definitely be taking it if offered

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By *aramelChocolatecoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Surrey

Just looked at your pics and you are smokin hot. Perfect!

Mrs x

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By *urious_Miss_Anal OP Woman
4 days ago

Somewhere

Sorry all only just checked back. Thank you for all the new comments. Such a great bunch on here 🥰

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By *oodtimebiboyMan
3 days ago

Bristol

You look wonderful

We never accept our partner’s opinion, I tell my wife how beautiful she is, how sexy, but she doesn’t believe or see it for herself.

We’ve just started using the paired app and I’m hoping it will help rekindle things between us.

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By *pontaneous_coupleCouple
3 days ago

Hoddesdon

You look stunning, but I get you, I’ve gained weight after a baby and it’s hard to adjust to love yourself the same way xx

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By *herryEatersCouple
3 days ago

East Cheshire

We're both certainly bigger than we'd like but madly dieting. Both Cherry and I cringe at the thought of attending clubs but still push ourselves to go. We're usually so glad we did too !, once there we find plenty who are larger than us and we walk round as if we own the place lol. Maybe take the plunge and try a good club, we doubt you'd regret it

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By *ryingMyLuckMan
2 days ago

Ayrshire

"Hey you sexy lot! Just after some advice.

I'm new to the scene. Used to be a size 6/8 and athletic then became chronically ill. So, naturally my body has changed somewhat over the last 8-10 years.

I've completely lost my confidence in myself. I feel ugly and just not sexy at all. So that then makes swinging very difficult!

What can I do to get that oomph back in my step? I need to start to love my curves as I'll never be back to that size 6/8.

I have a partner who is amazing and supportive (who is also on here) and tells me often that I'm sexy but I just can't believe it myself. Help!

From what I can see from your pictures, you look very attractive and have a fantastic body. It's great your partner is there to give you a confidence boost as well x.

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By *eleusMan
5 hours ago

North Hertfordshire

I’ve just viewed your profile and wanted let you know how hot you look in your photos! I’m everyone was once smaller than they are now but I can assure you that you have the sexy wow factor for sure!

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
4 hours ago

Staffordshire

"Hey you sexy lot! Just after some advice.

I'm new to the scene. Used to be a size 6/8 and athletic then became chronically ill. So, naturally my body has changed somewhat over the last 8-10 years.

I've completely lost my confidence in myself. I feel ugly and just not sexy at all. So that then makes swinging very difficult!

What can I do to get that oomph back in my step? I need to start to love my curves as I'll never be back to that size 6/8.

I have a partner who is amazing and supportive (who is also on here) and tells me often that I'm sexy but I just can't believe it myself. Help!

You're hot, many above have said it, I'm saying it, more importantly your partner says it. The challenge you have is convincing yourself of it.

I used to be a size 6/8, now I'm a 12 too (was 14) although mine is from having children and not illness. I've tried fad diets, different clothes, working out more and the thing I found that helped me most was last year I did a boudoir shoot that my husband got for me. I had my makeup and hair done professionally, and got to dress up and be photographed. I was terrified as I'd never done anything like it before, but the confidence it gave me afterwards was crazy. Since then I've been calorie counting and sticking to 1400 most days. I'm down in weight and feel like it was only possible because of the feeling I got from seeing myself how others were.

I know that isn't for everyone and it may not be for you (I didn't think it was for me) but at the very least it should be considered. All women should experience it.

I really hope you find that confidence that you deserve to have. 😘

Freyja x

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