FabSwingers.com forum: Profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
7 weeks ago

Help required to improve my profile as getting zero offers of a meet, please be nice though lol

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
7 weeks ago

Chester

8 weeks is nothing, particularly as a large chunk of compatible people may rule themselves out owing to an (I assume) unknowing spouse.

Maybe get rid of some of the similar photos, and add a bit more about what you can offer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
7 weeks ago

Ok thanks every bit helps

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By *hirleyMan
7 weeks ago

somewhere

"8 weeks is nothing, particularly as a large chunk of compatible people may rule themselves out owing to an (I assume) unknowing spouse.

Maybe get rid of some of the similar photos, and add a bit more about what you can offer."

I second that.

IMO, if you're cheating then you will most likely be bemoaning your luck like many others have before you. In that instance you're probably only likely to meet in clubs or socials, messages will just not do.

Your profile is ok, but I can't stress how much people with poor grammar is a shot in the foot, there are instances of that in yours.

Good luck

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
7 weeks ago

Leeds

Your a cheat op that'll put many off, swinging and cheating are opposites.

Your photos are very repetitive maybe delete some of the similar ones as above.

You state your into "kink" but not what kind of kink, one person's kink is another person's vanilla & some kinks aren't for everyone so again that'll put people off.

Your profile is your shop window to make you stand out.

Your another bloke in a sea of 163930 blokes why pick you?

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By *urreyphotographerMan
7 weeks ago

kt16

Mate, you’re CHEATING on your partner .

How the fuck would you feel if she did that to you Z

This is a red flag to the majority of people.

Sort out your personal life.

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By *j2015Couple
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

I will say. Even though playing outside of a relationship is an instant no for us (ok with open relationships but must meet both parties first!!) I will thank you for your honesty on here. It wont help you find people but respect your telling the truth (your personal life is exactly that)

Reg. your profile:

Pictures are too repetitive, 2 bathroom selfies are enough!! Show some dressed, that will give an insight into your personality. The bio needs a re-write sorry

you say you have a good sense of humour… let it show.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
7 weeks ago

Cheshire

Agree with the last comment with the honesty over being in a relationship. Not defending it, but agree that others should know in advance as it’s a definite no for some on here.

Plenty of great advice especially about the pictures. The text is what I call a five minute effort, very similar to the majority of guys, no thought or imagination but most of all lacking information. Kinks are individual things so be more upfront about what you’re talking about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
7 weeks ago

Thank you all so much for your honesty and help I’ve taken note of some of the recommendations, and will try and improve with them, thanks

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By * F 2018Couple
7 weeks ago

shropshire

"Mate, you’re CHEATING on your partner .

How the fuck would you feel if she did that to you Z

This is a red flag to the majority of people.

Sort out your personal life."

definitely this

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By *iker JackMan
7 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

You’re cheating. For many swinging isn’t about cheating. For some they’d rather meet married as they are less likely to want more than just the sex as they have a partner. So that’s hugely divisive

Your bio is hard to read. One paragraph which jumps all over

You’ve been here a short period of time.

What were your expectations of being here?

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By *inceIlkestonMan
6 weeks ago

Ilkeston

"Help required to improve my profile as getting zero offers of a meet, please be nice though lol"
Space it out and use Capitals say the start of each sentence. See mine. I'm a web developer

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By *allySlinkyWoman
6 weeks ago

Leeds

Three of your four photos are in the same spot in the bathroom. More variety would be nice although I like your bathroom tiles.

I don't know what "hung like a yag" is.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
6 weeks ago

Stoke

"Help required to improve my profile as getting zero offers of a meet, please be nice though lol"

Show it your partner and ask for their advice

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