FabSwingers.com forum: Newbie.....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As quite a newbie to the scene and especially clubs I am unsure of play etiquette. I am a bi woman we were in a mixed room last night playing by ourselves. If you know of another woman in the same room who is also bi, and you are interested in what do you do? Every day is a school day to learn something new.

By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Body language is sometimes hard to gauge but try catching her eye, smile with that 'come hither' look, beckon her over ... if she's not interested she'll subtly let you know. No need for any drama

By *olfcartweaselCouple
over a year ago

Melrose

Typically, the way people indicate interest in a club is with a back-of-the-hand stroke. If they pull away, that's a "no". If they don't resist, that's a "keep going"

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not bi-sexual, but I imagine the etiquette is very similar. As others have said, eye contact and chatting earlier, is a good indication.

But if you're still not sure, try to do some 'heavy petting' in the same playroom .... if interested in playing, I would generally let my lower leg (calf, ankle, foot) make contact with the other lady's calf/ankle/foot.

If she pulled away from my touch, I would roll my guy away, immediately, and probably take him to a different room - none of us want to make peeps feel uncomfortable!

But if she let my leg linger against her leg, then that's a nice signal that they are willing to consider 'more intimate' relations. And that's the time when you can talk about hopes and boundaries, and see how it goes