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By *heGateHouseBolton OP   Woman
over a year ago

Salford

What are people thought on age restrictions in Clubs.?

Should you have to be 21 or should over 18s be allowed in ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As your classed as an adult at 18 then suppose you should be treat as every other adult so why not be allowed into clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 IMO

The percentage of people that age wanting to go isnt that high anyway and the ones that do normally know what theyre doing-hope I did anyway!

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I dont see a problem with 18 in clubs, you can drink you can vote, you can buy cigs.

You have been legally able to have sex for 2 years so why not.

I wish there had been clubs when i was 18 (or maybe there were and i didnt know about them).

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By *otwifeHunter808Man
over a year ago

Bury

I was 17 when I first met a couple he watched ...-i knew wha I wanted to do and loved it. So 18 is fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

General admittance it should be the legal age for which you can buy alcohol, vote etc. That is 18.

However like other clubs, like night clubs etc, should you wish for a specific (minimum) age, then you should choose on your minimum age of admittance.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I agree it should be 18 like others said. Although at 41 anyone under 25 looks 16 to me anyway but do agree 18 is an ok age as ling as they provide a passport or photocard drivers licence to prove identification x

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By *otwifeHunter808Man
over a year ago

Bury


"I agree it should be 18 like others said. Although at 41 anyone under 25 looks 16 to me anyway but do agree 18 is an ok age as ling as they provide a passport or photocard drivers licence to prove identification x"
yes I agree as long as u bring I'd makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should be 18. And the ID requirements at every club we've been to are far stricter than normal pubs.

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By *iamp86Man
over a year ago

preston

18 I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as I understand, the minimum legal age for any licensed private club is 18 regardless of what that club is for - even Swingers Clubs - although any club can impose a higher minimum age: It's a private club and they set their own rules. A great many vanilla night clubs won't allow under 21's in, usually due to the increase in trouble that goes with it, but it can be due to additional restrictions imposed by the licensing authority, usually the local council.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say 18 my first 3some was with a young guy at 17 and I was 23 and boy he certainly knew what he was doing lol x

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By *s_4_uCouple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Some clubs are 25 wot an earth is that about ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The club nearest to me has a minimum age of 25. Guess i've got a couple of years to wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is strange that it's 21 although I guess clubs are trying to protect themselves, a bit like supermarkets and their challenge 25 policies!

We've seen young couples on Fab that we've liked the look of and thought about inviting to a club and then realised they wouldn't get in, such a shame.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Some clubs are 25 wot an earth is that about ?"

maybe it is something about mature of age as well as attitude...

not saying it is right.. but i have been in clubs with a lower age limit and some people were like kids running around in a candy store......

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By *EXY50ishWoman
over a year ago

Anywhere and nowhere

I think it should be older than 18. Maybe 25. I think at that age, you should still be learning about your sexuality with people your own age. Maybe I'm just an old fashioned kinda gal x

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By *s_4_uCouple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

That's like saying when you get to a certain age you should be giving it up.

We have been swinging 6 years been together 11 why shouldn't we have been aloud into some clubs a year ago then the wife was 24 ?

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By *EXY50ishWoman
over a year ago

Anywhere and nowhere


"That's like saying when you get to a certain age you should be giving it up.

We have been swinging 6 years been together 11 why shouldn't we have been aloud into some clubs a year ago then the wife was 24 ? "

Sorry my comment wasn't there to offend/upset anyone. Maybe its just because I was a late starter and I've only ever been to clubs where there's "older" people, or maybe its just cos I'm a mum and I don't like the idea of young people being in clubs. Have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it should be older than 18. Maybe 25. I think at that age, you should still be learning about your sexuality with people your own age. Maybe I'm just an old fashioned kinda gal x

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Your not the only one and personally I don't want to go to a club where there is a high number of young people as there has been at a couple of clubs I have been to recently plus I don't really like the idea of being naked in front of 18 yr olds. That said though, I don't mind what age a club has so long as there are lots my own age to play with totally pointless going otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's like saying when you get to a certain age you should be giving it up.

We have been swinging 6 years been together 11 why shouldn't we have been aloud into some clubs a year ago then the wife was 24 ? "

Except some have 21 as the limit so there was nothing stopping you going other than the distance

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By *EXY50ishWoman
over a year ago

Anywhere and nowhere


"I think it should be older than 18. Maybe 25. I think at that age, you should still be learning about your sexuality with people your own age. Maybe I'm just an old fashioned kinda gal x

Your not the only one and personally I don't want to go to a club where there is a high number of young people as there has been at a couple of clubs I have been to recently plus I don't really like the idea of being naked in front of 18 yr olds. That said though, I don't mind what age a club has so long as there are lots my own age to play with totally pointless going otherwise"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree it should be 18 like others said. Although at 41 anyone under 25 looks 16 to me anyway but do agree 18 is an ok age as ling as they provide a passport or photocard drivers licence to prove identification x"

Ha you wait until you get to 52! I work in a pub and I have ID someone who looked 12 but was 25!!

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I go so rarely to clubs anyway that people who do go often have a much more informed opinion i suppose.

But for me i have no problem being naked around people of any age; as for playing at clubs, I am 53 and a single guy, so offers for me to join in are limited (hence my infrequent attendance) and so how old the other guests are is immaterial.

I can sit and chat just as easily in a bar with an 18 yr old as i can a 50 yr old.

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By *risboy69Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Think 21 or even 25 is about right,

Just the nature of the experience.

Besides if it was 18 the chances of people under getting through the net are higher!

Thought of sleeping with a 18 year old at my age makes me feel a little sick and pervy!

Some may dis agree!

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By *EXY50ishWoman
over a year ago

Anywhere and nowhere

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By *EXY50ishWoman
over a year ago

Anywhere and nowhere


"Think 21 or even 25 is about right,

Just the nature of the experience.

Besides if it was 18 the chances of people under getting through the net are higher!

Thought of sleeping with a 18 year old at my age makes me feel a little sick and pervy!

Some may dis agree!"
Me too, I have a rule of never sleeping with anyone young enough to be my son !

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By *heGateHouseBolton OP   Woman
over a year ago

Salford

Thank you for all your amazing replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree it should be 18 like others said. Although at 41 anyone under 25 looks 16 to me anyway but do agree 18 is an ok age as ling as they provide a passport or photocard drivers licence to prove identification x

Ha you wait until you get to 52! I work in a pub and I have ID someone who looked 12 but was 25!! "

Sounds like what happens to us..

Expect the Staff at The Lodge in Gloucester will be checking ours on Saturday..lol

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