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"Users should supply a reason why they are blocking someone, even if it is only “no longer interests me” . It is very frustrating to be blocked and not know what you have done……." Assume it's because they don't want to engage with you. That seems a fairly safe bet 💜 | |||
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"Users should supply a reason why they are blocking someone, even if it is only “no longer interests me” . It is very frustrating to be blocked and not know what you have done……." ------------------------------ How does "no longer interests me" help you though? You already know that by being blocked. They're unlikely to block someone who does interest them! | |||
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"Users should supply a reason why they are blocking someone, even if it is only “no longer interests me” . It is very frustrating to be blocked and not know what you have done……." Agree its frustrating not to know. However disagree that the reason should be known. People block people for various reasons but most of the time keeping a distance and keeping anonymous is a big factor. So naturally they want to keep the reason ambiguous to either prevent antagonising futher trouble or to give away any clues of who they are or what they want due to the reason given. | |||
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"Users should supply a reason why they are blocking someone, even if it is only “no longer interests me” . It is very frustrating to be blocked and not know what you have done……." It's just the nature of the game. Try not to let it faze you, and move on. | |||
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"Oh man. Imagine if you had to notify anyone you blocked with a reason. Blocking a profile you've never interacted with before, please enter your reasoning for the sake of their closure : That's my mother!" You win the internet today | |||
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"Users should supply a reason why they are blocking someone, even if it is only “no longer interests me” . It is very frustrating to be blocked and not know what you have done……." Why should they?..just because someone's ego is bruised?.. People are entitled to choose who they wish to interact with & if they wish to block them, that's their choice. It's a simple way of saying no/no longer interested... And if they did say why the ego would take more of a hit.. Just move on... | |||
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"Why can't people just reply, even if it's no thanks? Why can't people just delete my message if they're not interested? Why can't people just block me if I'm not what they're looking for? Why can't people give a reason for blocking me? On and on and on it goes when the net result is exactly the same -if a person isn't engaging with you, in whatever way that manifests itself, they're not interested. It's that simple. " Well said | |||
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"Users should supply a reason why they are blocking someone, even if it is only “no longer interests me” . It is very frustrating to be blocked and not know what you have done……." Why should they ? Just accept that for whatever reason they ain't interested then move on without the drama of the whys and wherefores. | |||
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"We Block if a person is a Fraud, Time waster, Pest or blatantly not read our profile. Feel nothing towards these people so why give a reason. Perhaps a middle finger emoji would be good" That's sort of what the [deleted] is | |||
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"Users should supply a reason why they are blocking someone, even if it is only “no longer interests me” . It is very frustrating to be blocked and not know what you have done……." I suspect that would probably make most peoples experiences on here much worse. Not knowing why is probably less hurtful and ego deflating. Best to simply accept they're not interested. | |||
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"It's just part and parcel of being on the site. And no one owes anyone anything on here. Best just accept it and move on" Agree completely don’t own anyone an explanation | |||
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"Yep absolutely agree, literally just been blocked, chatting nicely for last couple of days then block with no reason. " There was a reason... they're no longer interested* *See above | |||
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"I feel the vast vast majority of reasons would be: "Wouldn't take no for an answer" Or "Couldn't handle rejection"" Likely both, to be fair. Some people just can't handle it. No means no, whatever form that comes in. A block is a no. Get over it and move on. 🤔 | |||
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"Users should supply a reason why they are blocking someone, even if it is only “no longer interests me” . It is very frustrating to be blocked and not know what you have done……." Sorry, but no one owes you an explanation! | |||
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