FabSwingers.com forum: Blocking

By *ac4122 OP Man
8 weeks ago

Lytham

Users should supply a reason why they are blocking someone, even if it is only “no longer interests me” . It is very frustrating to be blocked and not know what you have done…….

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

It's just part and parcel of being on the site. And no one owes anyone anything on here. Best just accept it and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

"Users should supply a reason why they are blocking someone, even if it is only “no longer interests me” . It is very frustrating to be blocked and not know what you have done……."

Nope, can’t agree. We block people who are of no interest to us. We don’t need to give a reason to a stranger.

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By *andPextraCouple
8 weeks ago

North West

We block people for many reasons.

A friend request without chatting- our pet hate

Someone sending us multiple messages or a nasty one

A profile that views us that makes our teeth itch (some one who’s opening line was I’m a “pussy smasher” was the last one

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people we have conversed with and discounted- narrows down the search engine

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
8 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Users should supply a reason why they are blocking someone, even if it is only “no longer interests me” . It is very frustrating to be blocked and not know what you have done……."

Assume it's because they don't want to engage with you.

That seems a fairly safe bet 💜

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By *oan of DArcCouple
8 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Users should supply a reason why they are blocking someone, even if it is only “no longer interests me” . It is very frustrating to be blocked and not know what you have done……."

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How does "no longer interests me" help you though? You already know that by being blocked. They're unlikely to block someone who does interest them!

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By *adyKarmennTVTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Dublin

Meant in the nicest way but its none of your business!

All of us have been blocked for something, i got blocked for what i can only assume i took to long to reply ... an hour cause i was working!

Just move on

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By *oberto7Man
8 weeks ago

Greenock

You seriuos 😐 If I send a message and don't get reply, I just block saves them showing up again

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By *enk15Man
8 weeks ago

Evesham

I very much would not want to know why I've been blocked.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
8 weeks ago

Coventry

"Users should supply a reason why they are blocking someone, even if it is only “no longer interests me” . It is very frustrating to be blocked and not know what you have done……."

Agree its frustrating not to know.

However disagree that the reason should be known. People block people for various reasons but most of the time keeping a distance and keeping anonymous is a big factor. So naturally they want to keep the reason ambiguous to either prevent antagonising futher trouble or to give away any clues of who they are or what they want due to the reason given.

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By *ubbie300Couple
8 weeks ago

visiting north shore

We block people who have not read our profile.

No we won’t change our preferences for you.

Why message someone if you are everything they don’t want?

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

"Users should supply a reason why they are blocking someone, even if it is only “no longer interests me” . It is very frustrating to be blocked and not know what you have done……."

It's just the nature of the game. Try not to let it faze you, and move on.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
8 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Oh man. Imagine if you had to notify anyone you blocked with a reason.

Blocking a profile you've never interacted with before, please enter your reasoning for the sake of their closure : That's my mother!

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

"Oh man. Imagine if you had to notify anyone you blocked with a reason.

Blocking a profile you've never interacted with before, please enter your reasoning for the sake of their closure : That's my mother!"

You win the internet today

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By *hilmeup85Man
8 weeks ago

Glasgow

Do Facebook, snap, insta etc give you a reason for someone blocking you? I don't think any of them even notify you so why should fab be any different.

Knowing "not interested" or whatever as the reason you've been blocked is not going to change anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

You can't enforce that. Even so, the desire to know why someone doesn't want a person to contact them isn't exactly going to fill them with confidence.

That's up to them if they block. I've been blocked and have blocked, for various reasons. It's part of pretty much all online interaction. Justifying it seems like it would cause more trouble than it's worth. 🤨

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By *neeyedwillieMan
8 weeks ago

Darlington

Oh the entitlement!

A random stranger on the Internet has blocked you. So what? Why should anyone be forced to explain their reasoning to you for not wanting to interact with you?

I get that sometimes you want to know why someone cut you off but the reality is, the world does not revolve around you anymore than it revolves around me.

If a woman says no to me, block's me, says she can't see me anymore or whatever I just walk away. I wish other men would wise up to this as well.

Seriously...they've said everything they need to say. They're not interested so why waste anymore time.or energy on it? Pointless getting hung up on it and I'd rather go where I'm wanted rather than try to extend my stay somewhere I'm not wanted.

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By *weetkitten65Woman
8 weeks ago

Halifax

"Users should supply a reason why they are blocking someone, even if it is only “no longer interests me” . It is very frustrating to be blocked and not know what you have done……."

Why should they?..just because someone's ego is bruised?..

People are entitled to choose who they wish to interact with & if they wish to block them, that's their choice.

It's a simple way of saying no/no longer interested...

And if they did say why the ego would take more of a hit..

Just move on...

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
8 weeks ago

South Down

Why can't people just reply, even if it's no thanks?

Why can't people just delete my message if they're not interested?

Why can't people just block me if I'm not what they're looking for?

Why can't people give a reason for blocking me?

On and on and on it goes when the net result is exactly the same -if a person isn't engaging with you, in whatever way that manifests itself, they're not interested. It's that simple.

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By *hilmeup85Man
8 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Why can't people just reply, even if it's no thanks?

Why can't people just delete my message if they're not interested?

Why can't people just block me if I'm not what they're looking for?

Why can't people give a reason for blocking me?

On and on and on it goes when the net result is exactly the same -if a person isn't engaging with you, in whatever way that manifests itself, they're not interested. It's that simple. "

Well said

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By *riel13Woman
8 weeks ago

Northampton

You're blocked because they aren't interested in you... It's fairly simple really!

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

There aren’t enough hours in the day.

If someone blocked me I wouldn’t dream of thinking I had the right to know why.

I’m not for them. It really is as uncomplicated as that.

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By *weetHotwifeCouple
8 weeks ago

Northampton

We Block if a person is a Fraud, Time waster, Pest or blatantly not read our profile. Feel nothing towards these people so why give a reason. Perhaps a middle finger emoji would be good

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By *r PantyMan
8 weeks ago

Morpeth

"Users should supply a reason why they are blocking someone, even if it is only “no longer interests me” . It is very frustrating to be blocked and not know what you have done……."

Why should they ? Just accept that for whatever reason they ain't interested then move on without the drama of the whys and wherefores.

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By *angtidy42Couple
8 weeks ago

Redditch

Don't worry and move on. If you feel bad then return the block.

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By *hilmeup85Man
8 weeks ago

Glasgow

"We Block if a person is a Fraud, Time waster, Pest or blatantly not read our profile. Feel nothing towards these people so why give a reason. Perhaps a middle finger emoji would be good"

That's sort of what the [deleted] is

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By *uenevereWoman
8 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"Users should supply a reason why they are blocking someone, even if it is only “no longer interests me” . It is very frustrating to be blocked and not know what you have done……."

I suspect that would probably make most peoples experiences on here much worse. Not knowing why is probably less hurtful and ego deflating.

Best to simply accept they're not interested.

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By *ucka39Man
8 weeks ago

Newcastle

Blocking becomes an addiction and wisely used without any reason to explain why because it's not bodies business 😂🤣

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By *ayleigh1111Woman
8 weeks ago

Liverpool

Why on earth would you need a reason?

Blocking pretty much tells you that person is no longer interested,if you came up to me on the street and I didn't want to talk to you would you demand a reason why?

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By *CFantasyWoman
8 weeks ago

newport isle of wight

"It's just part and parcel of being on the site. And no one owes anyone anything on here. Best just accept it and move on"

Agree completely don’t own anyone an explanation

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
8 weeks ago

Wolvo

Comes down to attention and acknowledgement. Blocking just dismisses someone as if they mean nothing so i can see where the OP is coming from. On the other side though, providing a reason can leave one open to abuse, whinging and pestering so folk just block. Ive noticed deleting messages means people will just keep messaging a block stops all that.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
8 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Blocking is giving you a reason why......they aren't interested in you.

This isn't ebay.

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By *bxanfCouple
8 weeks ago

Shadow Moses, Stourbridge

I feel the vast vast majority of reasons would be:

"Wouldn't take no for an answer"

"Couldn't handle rejection"

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By *anonfire96Man
8 weeks ago

Rainworth

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
8 weeks ago

South Down

"Yep absolutely agree, literally just been blocked, chatting nicely for last couple of days then block with no reason. "

There was a reason... they're no longer interested*

*See above

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

"I feel the vast vast majority of reasons would be:

"Wouldn't take no for an answer"

"Couldn't handle rejection""

Likely both, to be fair. Some people just can't handle it. No means no, whatever form that comes in. A block is a no. Get over it and move on. 🤔

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By *ellhungvweMan
8 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I block if I get bored with a conversation or have any doubts about who they say they are. If it has got to the stage I am blocking you then I am not going to spend anymore time telling you why.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Central

We all owe respect and to be reasonable to others.

But when it's only ever going to be a tiny minority who are mutually compatible, that's where the energy should be invested. Investing any time on the majority of others is dead, wasted time. We all have to assume that most contact will go nowhere. The onus is on us to expect it and to deal with it. No reply and blocks will be the norm. It's totally unreasonable to expect people to waste energy on dead end roads. You're not compatible and that's all you need to know

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By *wosmilersCouple
7 weeks ago

Heathrowish

We block people that we don't want to speak with. We also block people if there's a good chance that we may come across them in the vanilla world.

If we find that we are blocked, we just move on.

Why do people need a reason? They don't. Just move on!!!

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
7 weeks ago

Stoke

"Users should supply a reason why they are blocking someone, even if it is only “no longer interests me” . It is very frustrating to be blocked and not know what you have done……."

Sorry, but no one owes you an explanation!

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By *adyBugsWoman
7 weeks ago

cognito

I’m sure it’s been said but if someone messaged to say they are blocking you, you wouldn’t see it because you are blocked so there’s no point sending you a warning.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
7 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

Fragile ego alert 🚨

Someone get the Waaahmbulance 🚑

Just leave it. There’s endless reasons someone might block you, many of those aren’t personal. Nobody owes you an explanation though

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