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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

when u list saying your a couple and only play together that couples arrange a meeting because there only interested in the fem gutted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when u list saying your a couple and only play together that couples arrange a meeting because there only interested in the fem gutted "

Pardon ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when u list saying your a couple and only play together that couples arrange a meeting because there only interested in the fem gutted

Pardon ?"

I think the M is gutted cos other couples are only interested in his partner...

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"when u list saying your a couple and only play together that couples arrange a meeting because there only interested in the fem gutted "
stick with it im sure there are compatable couples out there ...good luck xxxxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

this happened to us once, not nice.If a couple is only interested in the female they should be up front about it, our evening ended with no one having any fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah it sucks..who knows what they expect and they wouldnt like it likewise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this happened to us once, not nice.If a couple is only interested in the female they should be up front about it, our evening ended with no one having any fun. "

It's happened to us once and as you say thoroughly unpleasent. To add insult to injury they were genuinely surprised we weren't keen on the idea of me watching a 3sum and it was implied that I was being unreasonable as I've watched other men fuck crystal...

Thankfully we were in a club so the night wasn;t a right off.

OP, it happens but not that often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this happened to us once, not nice.If a couple is only interested in the female they should be up front about it, our evening ended with no one having any fun.

It's happened to us once and as you say thoroughly unpleasent. To add insult to injury they were genuinely surprised we weren't keen on the idea of me watching a 3sum and it was implied that I was being unreasonable as I've watched other men fuck crystal...

Thankfully we were in a club so the night wasn;t a right off.

OP, it happens but not that often"

when ur up for that cuckhold meet wheels mail me...crystal and I plan some utter filth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this happened to us once, not nice.If a couple is only interested in the female they should be up front about it, our evening ended with no one having any fun.

It's happened to us once and as you say thoroughly unpleasent. To add insult to injury they were genuinely surprised we weren't keen on the idea of me watching a 3sum and it was implied that I was being unreasonable as I've watched other men fuck crystal...

Thankfully we were in a club so the night wasn;t a right off.

OP, it happens but not that often

when ur up for that cuckhold meet wheels mail me...crystal and I plan some utter filth! "

I don't think you could handle me

crystal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this happened to us once, not nice.If a couple is only interested in the female they should be up front about it, our evening ended with no one having any fun.

It's happened to us once and as you say thoroughly unpleasent. To add insult to injury they were genuinely surprised we weren't keen on the idea of me watching a 3sum and it was implied that I was being unreasonable as I've watched other men fuck crystal...

Thankfully we were in a club so the night wasn;t a right off.

OP, it happens but not that often

when ur up for that cuckhold meet wheels mail me...crystal and I plan some utter filth!

I don't think you could handle me

crystal"

came in my pants at the thought..maybe i couldnt then lol

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Just tell them to sod off

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We get it all the time, quite often the male half of the couple becomes an irrelevant after thought, a lot of people come to swinging with an incredibly selfish attitude and a very uncompromising and frankly quite bizarre attitude.

We were at a club once, and a couple started talking to us about how this was something they wanted to do for ages and they came to find a "girl" we had a laugh and I pointed out that its pretty rare to find single females to which the response was would I let Mrs Cherry play with them on her own...

Its just rude and disrespectful, smacks of people who are selfish and just out for their own pleasure.

Not to mention how many times a week it happens on here or the numbers of couples where it has "ONLY THE FEMALE WILL BE PLAYED WITH" or "The MALE HALF CAN WATCH", I do wonder what the deal is with these couples/people though is it insecurity ? or just the desire to get what YOU want at all costs and fuck everyone else and their feelings and wants ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See we are the other way round we are not full swap only mrs is allowed full sex with others at the moment till she's comfortable to let it happen. But does do others thing with the ladies.

But Mr can't be leave the amount of offers he has had to turn down for sex with other females when a full swap couple is interested.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Just tell them to sod off "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get it all the time, quite often the male half of the couple becomes an irrelevant after thought, a lot of people come to swinging with an incredibly selfish attitude and a very uncompromising and frankly quite bizarre attitude.

We were at a club once, and a couple started talking to us about how this was something they wanted to do for ages and they came to find a "girl" we had a laugh and I pointed out that its pretty rare to find single females to which the response was would I let Mrs Cherry play with them on her own...

Its just rude and disrespectful, smacks of people who are selfish and just out for their own pleasure.

Not to mention how many times a week it happens on here or the numbers of couples where it has "ONLY THE FEMALE WILL BE PLAYED WITH" or "The MALE HALF CAN WATCH", I do wonder what the deal is with these couples/people though is it insecurity ? or just the desire to get what YOU want at all costs and fuck everyone else and their feelings and wants ?

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You really can't say that everyone is on here for different things. We personally male our intentions clear straight away and it's up to others if they want to play

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


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You really can't say that everyone is on here for different things. We personally male our intentions clear straight away and it's up to others if they want to play"

Im on about those that can quite clearly read our profile or get to know us and take the piss anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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You really can't say that everyone is on here for different things. We personally male our intentions clear straight away and it's up to others if they want to play

Im on about those that can quite clearly read our profile or get to know us and take the piss anyway"

its often a clear sign they have no idea what it means to share

no probs if they have it as an outset on their profile aka FF fun only..thats fair enough

but not changing the goal posts when it comes to getting the meet..or worse..during!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

You really can't say that everyone is on here for different things. We personally male our intentions clear straight away and it's up to others if they want to play

Im on about those that can quite clearly read our profile or get to know us and take the piss anyway

its often a clear sign they have no idea what it means to share

no probs if they have it as an outset on their profile aka FF fun only..thats fair enough

but not changing the goal posts when it comes to getting the meet..or worse..during!"

Yep! If its on their profile the problem would never have arisen because we simply wouldn't have met.

With the benefit of hindsight we could see a lot of signs. However we learned a few things that night and will not be repeating our mistake.

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By *ethany10Couple
over a year ago

falkirk


"this happened to us once, not nice.If a couple is only interested in the female they should be up front about it, our evening ended with no one having any fun. "

This happened to us but only after we had met and were getting ready to play. Would have been fine if they had been upfront about it before the meet ( they also didn't mention it in the social meet we had had a few weeks before.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"this happened to us once, not nice.If a couple is only interested in the female they should be up front about it, our evening ended with no one having any fun.

This happened to us but only after we had met and were getting ready to play. Would have been fine if they had been upfront about it before the meet ( they also didn't mention it in the social meet we had had a few weeks before. "

We'd met socially, exchanged a few e-mails and genuinely thought we had all agreed on everything. Just shows how wrong you can be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I experienced this the other way round. We met with a couple in a club and had a good night. They invited us to their house a week or so later. It became obvious they only wanted him really. I was a bit put out, I'm not that bad! The M just sat round and watched while the F sat on my guy's face half the night.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I experienced this the other way round. We met with a couple in a club and had a good night. They invited us to their house a week or so later. It became obvious they only wanted him really. I was a bit put out, I'm not that bad! The M just sat round and watched while the F sat on my guy's face half the night."

I think some people fail to say that one half of the couple is either a voyeur only or really doesn't want to swing.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Sadly its one of the downsides, not everyone has the same idea.

I did get a couple ask me if I would go "eat out the wife" as she wanted a lady's touch - but neither of them wanted to do anything with me! Needless to say, we never met!

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By *harliesteveCouple
over a year ago

selly oak


"I experienced this the other way round. We met with a couple in a club and had a good night. They invited us to their house a week or so later. It became obvious they only wanted him really. I was a bit put out, I'm not that bad! The M just sat round and watched while the F sat on my guy's face half the night."

i know that feeling,

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