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By *man87 OP Man
10 weeks ago
sittingbourne |
"As far as I'm aware, there isn't any specific chat site for what you're looking for, OP. But a lot of clubs and events have their own Telegram or WhatsApp groups for people planning to attend events. This could be a good start.
Regarding going to a club with a lady, yes, it is easier, in a way, as you can then attend events designed for couples, you are not limited in numbers, you don't have to book ahead and couple's entry fee is normally at least the same price as single man's entrance, sometimes cheaper (on rare occasions it can be a bit more expensive). However, swingers clubs are not for everyone, and it requires a lot of trust between partners, as well as good communication, which is not easy to achieve between 2 people who barely know each other. Also, the understanding is that, if you're going as a couple, you're playing as a couple and leaving together, as a couple.
My advice: bite the bullet, attend a club as a single man to get the feel of the place and see if swingers clubs are for you. Then, after a few visits, try to find a "partner in crime", once you got some experience and know you can handle yourself there. However, do a good research before you attend, to see which club and, even more specific, which event appeals to you the most.
Good luck, OP. "
Good morning and thanks for the reply yes what your saying makes complete sense, .I'm going to bite the bullet and attend as a single male, im highly sociable so im sure ill be fine and be able to get the swing of what they are about.... excuse the pun
Have half an idea what kind of clubs and events of like to attend and dabble in
Just needed a little kick in the arse
Once again thanks for such a detailed reply, between yourself and another lovely individual who messaged me regarding this post have give me the little kick I needed thank you ill let yous know how it goes 😊 x |
Rather than fabricate a couple, it's probably much better to have it happen naturally. You gel with some people and you want to spend more time together and have shared interests. Things can happen at the right time and with the right people. As a single man here, you're 1 amongst many, so getting out and about will get you into contact with more people, some of them will gel with you. Good luck! 