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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A few people now have messaged me saying you have met people we no and trying to get info it's not about that it's about verifying you have had a meet and you are a genuine member to much politics on here at the min rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pisses me off when people do that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I no I get it all time I had a meet sorted then got a mail saying no longer meeting you met someone we no its like so???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They should of noticed that before arranging the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few people now have messaged me saying you have met people we no and trying to get info it's not about that it's about verifying you have had a meet and you are a genuine member to much politics on here at the min rant over "

Actually had the a few weeks ago lady message me and said we've had the same man

I messaged back and said so???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's weird if you ask me I only look at verifications to see if they are genuine not to judge people winds me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I use verifications to see if they are genuine, but I also look at who they have met, 1 because i'm a nosy bint but mostly because if they are constantly meeting people who are shall we say, not very desirable, it tends to mean they will have sex with anything, If i'm meeting someone I want them to want to meet me, not just be a hole. Judgemental I know but we are allowed to use fab in whatever way works for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been getting messages of young folk asking how i manage to get meets with couples etc as i am old it makes me chuckle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I've had meet with fantastic people and prob some of the most disireble lady's and couples in my area but to ask about my meets is out of order messege them direct simple

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been getting messages of young folk asking how i manage to get meets with couples etc as i am old it makes me chuckle."
cos a lot of you're meets or just verifications of men lol for attending a party lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't discuss the people I meet with others I just tell the nosey bugger to message them directly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have turned down meets because they'd met a girl I knew, although, I knew she never used protection and had at least three sti's whilst I knew her and I didn't wanna take the risk. fair enough I think!

people have their reasons....no one is entitled to meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met people before and thought ' youre nothing like what your verifications said'

I think there is a current thread running on what verification messages really mean

I've not experienced it but I don't think I would mind if someone I was arranging to meet asked my previous meets about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been getting messages of young folk asking how i manage to get meets with couples etc as i am old it makes me chuckle.cos a lot of you're meets or just verifications of men lol for attending a party lol "

They are just the public ones as not all want them published

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I look at the veris to check there is more than one and its nore recent than 'over a year agi' and thats it. I choose who i meet and why and if people judge me because of that it tells me plenty about them. Like how they wont br my type at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hide the veris, if one is interested in meeting, just unhide them long enough for the other to check them out, then hide them again.

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By *azmissy67Woman
over a year ago

welshpool area

on several occasions I've had guys I've met tell me that a woman wouldnt meet him cos he has met me ! Very shallow and tbh would be her loss - like being in the school playground again !

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

All my veris are on show. People can take them or leave them - I care not. At least people can see that, not only do I meet, I do so regularly so am unlikely to waste their time. If anyone mentioned someone I had met as a reason not to meet then it would be their problem - not mine.

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By *harliesteveCouple
over a year ago

selly oak


"I have been getting messages of young folk asking how i manage to get meets with couples etc as i am old it makes me chuckle."

i am sure ur picture helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hide the veris, if one is interested in meeting, just unhide them long enough for the other to check them out, then hide them again.

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We only add people as friend long enough to get a yes or no for a meet then offer veris after they have see face pics

We keep our friends and veris listings hidden as we know these people meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See I use verifications to see if they are genuine, but I also look at who they have met, 1 because i'm a nosy bint but mostly because if they are constantly meeting people who are shall we say, not very desirable, it tends to mean they will have sex with anything, If i'm meeting someone I want them to want to meet me, not just be a hole. Judgemental I know but we are allowed to use fab in whatever way works for us. "

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I've had meet with fantastic people and prob some of the most disireble lady's and couples in my area but to ask about my meets is out of order messege them direct simple "

Can't agree more... I got/get loads of guys checking my profile simply to see who will /have meet single guys. It is really annoying when they have even in some cases messaged me directly asking me to arrange a meet for them . As stated on my profile I am not a pimp!

At least 2 lovely ladies have left site directly as a result of such crass behaviour. Often seems to be (a) younger guys perhaps lacking the confidence of maturity or (b) guys who have been on over a year with no verifications and often cannit accomodate. (Married?). Get OFF the site and stop wasting our time.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't say it's too much of a problem, surely you take as you find. I have been to many places recommended by people I know well, my opinions of their choices are vastly different to theirs.

Devil's advocate speaking

Supposing you are married or with someone long term, if you decide to play on your own, what should you label yourself with ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By which I intended to say, you both had agreed to play privately.

Perhaps you cannot accomodate if your a single parent, male or female.

It's what is called linear logic as in Elephants are grey, therefore everything that is grey is an elephant !

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Its certainly not uncommon for people to cancel a meet or not arrange a meet if u have met someone they dont like , its the crazy world of fab .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It shows hiding variegations has a lot of merit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't please everybody, just do what is most comfortable with verification's for you, prejudice is rife everywhere, always going to be somebody who is put off by them or avoids you because you have met someone they don't like etc.. childish in some cases, not in others, whatever someone's reason for not meeting, we just try and respect that, no point worrying about it, life's to short for that.

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By *ischiefmanagedWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk border


"Hide the veris, if one is interested in meeting, just unhide them long enough for the other to check them out, then hide them again.

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Agreed.

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