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"Marie never wears a bra. Men in the supermarket follow her round lol " I can see why | |||
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"Marie never wears a bra. Men in the supermarket follow her round lol " Don't blame them 1 bit | |||
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"I always check with hubby before I go out with bra (nipple covers) if he’s happy then I go out and we both accept that I will get looks… but then I do have rather large (coat hanging) nipples 👀😂" *without | |||
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"If you ( a lady) or your Mrs is outwith no bra on and her nipples are sticking out, do you ( or does she) like men looking, has I have seen lots of ladies like this and feel embarrassed to look and often wondered if they like being looked at?" Jesus Christ at your age I would assume you had the social skills to work this out. Some will. Some won't. Don't be creepy when yer peepin | |||
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"I have seen lots of ladies like this and feel embarrassed to look and often wondered if they like being looked at?" You should not be embarrassed about looking. However, society has sexualised the female breasts, and that's where the problem lies. So oogiling at bra less breasts is creepy.... So, eyes front. Eyes up. Listen, engage and only look if she let's you or wants you to!!! | |||
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"If you ( a lady) or your Mrs is outwith no bra on and her nipples are sticking out, do you ( or does she) like men looking, has I have seen lots of ladies like this and feel embarrassed to look and often wondered if they like being looked at?" I've never got on with bras. now I know it's probably because I'm autistic. Caught a manager at work looking at my nipples which was embarrassing but now I'm like to hell with it. if he wants to embarrass me I'll embarrass him back!!! If men refuse to train themselves, I have zero problems, letting them know where exactly they can to put their leg over ...and it usually isn't me or another woman! Nothing wrong with looking discreetly. Pulling a face, sticking out your tongue making lewd comments, "advice" and opinions, staring, pointing, gesturing...are ill-advised. Also I'm a naturist/nudist and I don't go around staring or commenting or gesticulating on men's floppy disks or hard..drives....lol! Allow me my Millenial jokes. | |||
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"I love it All part of the fun seeing who is having a sneaky peek. Especially if their with their partner " I am a peek ninja. I have never been caught. | |||
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"I love it All part of the fun seeing who is having a sneaky peek. Especially if their with their partner " You’d definitely catch me looking | |||
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"I love it All part of the fun seeing who is having a sneaky peek. Especially if their with their partner You’d definitely catch me looking " now that i like, maybe unbutton top | |||
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"Love Bra less breasts of all sizes espec really big ones love looking x " only a 38dd | |||
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"Love men looking d " And I expect that many do. As a guy, we do have to look discretely as there are many ladies that are not as exhibitionist as you. However, it is fun when you come across a lady that obviously enjoys the attention | |||
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"If you ( a lady) or your Mrs is outwith no bra on and her nipples are sticking out, do you ( or does she) like men looking, has I have seen lots of ladies like this and feel embarrassed to look and often wondered if they like being looked at?" I rarely wear a bra and I hate people staring. I usually stare back, let's both feel uncomfortable | |||
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"If you ( a lady) or your Mrs is outwith no bra on and her nipples are sticking out, do you ( or does she) like men looking, has I have seen lots of ladies like this and feel embarrassed to look and often wondered if they like being looked at? I rarely wear a bra and I hate people staring. I usually stare back, let's both feel uncomfortable " I think that is exactly my point. It is freedom of choice, for you, and thus it would be impolite to stare. Guys notice, but you will realise that our eyes are pretty well tuned in to this kind of thing, but I would be horrified if I thought that a lady was feeling awkward or offended. Far better to look her in the eye, say a polite hello, and if she is out there to get attention then she will make it obvious. | |||
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"If you ( a lady) or your Mrs is outwith no bra on and her nipples are sticking out, do you ( or does she) like men looking, has I have seen lots of ladies like this and feel embarrassed to look and often wondered if they like being looked at? I rarely wear a bra and I hate people staring. I usually stare back, let's both feel uncomfortable I think that is exactly my point. It is freedom of choice, for you, and thus it would be impolite to stare. Guys notice, but you will realise that our eyes are pretty well tuned in to this kind of thing, but I would be horrified if I thought that a lady was feeling awkward or offended. Far better to look her in the eye, say a polite hello, and if she is out there to get attention then she will make it obvious." I'm bisexual and more attracted to women than I am men, equally breasts are my favorite part of a woman's body, however I'm an adult so I know how to control myself when in public and not stare at women just because they don't have a bra on | |||
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"If you ( a lady) or your Mrs is outwith no bra on and her nipples are sticking out, do you ( or does she) like men looking, has I have seen lots of ladies like this and feel embarrassed to look and often wondered if they like being looked at? I rarely wear a bra and I hate people staring. I usually stare back, let's both feel uncomfortable I think that is exactly my point. It is freedom of choice, for you, and thus it would be impolite to stare. Guys notice, but you will realise that our eyes are pretty well tuned in to this kind of thing, but I would be horrified if I thought that a lady was feeling awkward or offended. Far better to look her in the eye, say a polite hello, and if she is out there to get attention then she will make it obvious. I'm bisexual and more attracted to women than I am men, equally breasts are my favorite part of a woman's body, however I'm an adult so I know how to control myself when in public and not stare at women just because they don't have a bra on " My point too. It should never be the starting point. | |||
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"We are asian when mrs wears no bra only her traditional wear very thin material and her dark brown nipples show through her dress " I am sure that this is a very sexy look, and does she do it to get noticed? | |||
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"Have you seen our shopping photo " I have now, and it is an amazing one. I once had a mate, obviously not me, that would follow such ladies into the frozen food section and check the effect of the cold air on them. | |||
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"Very rarely wear a bra. I enjoy the attention as long as it doesn’t go into the realms of creepy. Having a little glance and giving a smile is fine. Following me around the supermarket is not!" My real turn on | |||
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"I have A/B cups and haven't worn a bra in years. I sometimes wear binders but not often so I'm always with them free. I honestly never notice anyone staring st my nipples because I'm in a world of my own hah" Best place to be. | |||
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"My wife has small tits, very rarely wears a bra and enjoys attention " I hope that she often gets what she wants, small ones have a special aura about them. | |||
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"I am guessing many of the answers you receive here may not be representative of the vast majority of women that aren’t swingers, most of whom would find men staring at their breasts in public creepy. The idea that a woman wearing anything less modest than a burka is doing so to attract male attention is how we ended up with insecure men creating such garments in the first place. Most women dress for themselves and other women (in a non sexual way), not men as male attention really isn’t difficult to get. " This | |||
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"I wear a bra to work but thats literally it anymore, so much better being braless " However you are most comfy, but I am sure that the guys appreciate it | |||
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"If the wife goes Braless I like it that guy look, I alway encourage her not to wear one, love to catch guys looking " With such a greatblooking lady, then guys would be crazy not to look | |||
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"It’s possible that the women who go out without a bra on are more likely to be the exhibitionist types and enjoy the attention. The shyer ladies will likely wear a bra to avoid the staring. Still no excuse for guys to be creeps though. I hope the bra less trend cobtinues - it’s absolutely brilliant." You point is well made, especially that guys should be discrete and not make a lady feel uncomfortable. However, like all things, an observant guy is going to clock the nipples. Thus the lady is either completely innocent and has not considered the nipple effect, is proving the point (pun intended) that it is her right to go out without a bra, or she has dressed that way to show them off. When looked at in that way, a guy only has a 1 in 3 chance that more than a casual glance will be reciprocated by the lady, and should look for a few more positive signals before jumping to conclusions | |||
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"Used to say to her are you cold of excited she would look down lol but I would make a pub stop so people could see and I found it a turn on and so did she in the end." “In the end…?” | |||
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"Used to say to her are you cold of excited she would look down lol but I would make a pub stop so people could see and I found it a turn on and so did she in the end. “In the end…?”" Exactly my thought. Sounds like there ckuld have been an embarassing silence and a bit of smoothing over needed | |||
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"I love being looked at when my nipples are on show. Havent worn a bra since wfh through covid" I am sure that you make a lot of guys happy | |||
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"We're in Cap d'Agde. Very few women wearing bras here." Indeed, or knickers too, I imagine | |||
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"My wife loves having no bra on. She was at work the other day and I popped in to see her and her boobs were looking awesome in the top she was wearing. She was serving a customer and I could notice him looking at her boobs. Her nipples were sticking out and he was literally glued to them. I told her after he had gone and she said that he was one of about 50 people she had caught staring at her boobs " You lucky guy, having a wife that sets out to please the customers. Great business initiative too | |||
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"If mine were pert then I would go bra less and it wouldn’t bother me if people looked. " Yours are awesome, and pert is not the issue. Pokey nipples works on all shapes and sizes! | |||
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"If I had the tits for it (I really don't, so no need to message otherwise) I wouldn't wear a bra, for the sole purpose of men looking, I used to when I was 20 " I expect you get lots looking if may say so, nice | |||
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"On one hand it's a great turn on to have guys gawp at my nipples. But sad that their eyes turn downward to knee level. " Haha, very funny, also not correct! Very attractive viewing.... | |||
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"Have you seen our shopping photo " Well just cancelled online delivery and now only shopping in sommerset supermarkets..... | |||
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"Mrs wet loves naughty no bra days. " What a great wife you have, I hope that there are a lot of no bra days in the calendar | |||
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"My wife loves having no bra on. She was at work the other day and I popped in to see her and her boobs were looking awesome in the top she was wearing. She was serving a customer and I could notice him looking at her boobs. Her nipples were sticking out and he was literally glued to them. I told her after he had gone and she said that he was one of about 50 people she had caught staring at her boobs " Could do with buying some of that literal glue. Was that what she was serving the customer with? | |||
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"Used to say to her are you cold of excited she would look down lol but I would make a pub stop so people could see and I found it a turn on and so did she in the end." Who paid for the drinks on such occasions? I bet the pub did well, whoever was spending. | |||
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"I like to be looked at in general, I’m quite aware of my surroundings and if I catch someone staring I will smile! Depending on how much I want to be looked at, I will leave home braless or wear a bra that my breasts will spill out of or my nipples will poke out over the top of! If a gentleman then chooses to go home and think about how looking at me made him feel and wants to wank over me! I’m also quite happy with that to not that I’ll ever know hahaha …. Mrs C " Lovely to hear from a confident and naughty lady that understands how we think and likes to indulge us as well as feeling empowered that she can cause guys to wank at her memory | |||
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"I cant do it. Id have someones eye out " Don't worry, I will wear some kind of eye protection, and am happy to take that risk | |||
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"Makes me feel really awkward, and I always notice and then can't stop looking Its the female equivalent to grey joggers" I can imagine that. Is it a little bit like mansplaning? Like the braless lady is trying to outdo all the other ladies an become the centre of attention | |||
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"I love going out without a bra on and men looking, especially when they are with their partners. I like to wear light tops that show off the shape of my FFs" I can see why you get noticed, what an awesome view for those lucky guys | |||
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"I have very small boobs so dont really need a bra, do like the attention my nips get wen braless thou " Small are special, and we all hope to get a little downblouse peek too | |||
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"Wish I could get away with out a bra but time has sadly ravaged my girls lol " Nonsense, you can definitely go out without a bra | |||
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"Marie never wears a bra. Men in the supermarket follow her round lol " Which supermarket... asking for a friend obviously | |||
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"So is it fair to say that no bra and obvious nips are there to be noticed?" I would say so | |||
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"I love going out with no bra on and my big girls hanging loose" And all of the guys support you, lol, in a figurative way | |||
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"I wear a padded bra. If you can't avoid looking be discreet.🙈" It didn't look very padded on 23 July 2023! I just took a discreet look at your profile. Believe it or not, I just realised, for the first time ever. | |||
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"I never leave home without my girls in a bra, it would be way too unruly. I actually find it embarrassing when my nips go hard and stand out so I tend to cover them up." Don’t be embarrassed x | |||
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"I never leave home without my girls in a bra, it would be way too unruly. I actually find it embarrassing when my nips go hard and stand out so I tend to cover them up." That is such a shame, hard nips are a real pleasure and should be encouraged | |||
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"Love big busty no bra . You just have to look . especially if older woman 60+ wow " Now that would be hot! | |||
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"My ex had 32a tits and enjoyed not wearing a bra from time to time. We both enjoyed the reactions. " I would never claim to be an expert, but a girl at work had tiny tits and felt that a bra was not always required. However, even in a relatively well fitting top, if she leant forwards then she gave nipples flashes in a downblouse kinda way. I think that she was aware of this as she sometimes put an arm across her chest, but we all had a few good views over the years. | |||
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"Marie never wears a bra. Men in the supermarket follow her round lol " Well that's just gross creepy behaviour... Why do men think this is okay? | |||
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"I love going out without a bra on and men looking, especially when they are with their partners. I like to wear light tops that show off the shape of my FFs" That's so hot on your body | |||
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"Well my mrs has dark big nipples " I hope that she wears clothing to show them off | |||
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"No bra is a lovely view Ex gfs daughter was 34b never wore 1 " Ha, not that you ever looked, of course | |||
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"if they look they look , no problems at all" Lucky guys, and I hope that you give them plenty of opportunities to look | |||
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"Certain dresses or tops I may wear no bra xx" We need to go clothes shopping, max out your braless wardrobe | |||
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"Try to go out as much as possible without x " Remind me to visit Farnborough more.... | |||
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"sometimes done on purpose " Glad to hear it, more fun when you are making a point (or 2) | |||
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"Think you can usually tell whether a woman is comfortable with it or not x" Totally agree, some just own the look and ooze confidence | |||
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"A lot more younger women are doing this now - I love it!" It goes in and out of fashion. But I do love it when it becomes acceptable again | |||
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"I can't say I notice tbh. I'm sure my husband clocks the looks though" I am sure that you get plenty of looks | |||
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