FabSwingers.com forum: Distance searching

By *mckeo OP Man
10 weeks ago

Southampton

What is the best way to find people who are genuinely up for travelling decent distances for meets? I've probably messaged every account within a 10 mile radius who is looking for someone like me and that's about as far as I can travel. Should I just do the same thing at greater distances or post regularly in the forums or something else? What would your advice be?

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
10 weeks ago

Leeds

Personally I block most locals.

If your messaging everyone that maybe into you are you even attracted to all these people? Mass messaging will probably lead to disappointment.

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By *mckeo OP Man
10 weeks ago

Southampton

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By *mckeo OP Man
10 weeks ago

Southampton

"Personally I block most locals.

If your messaging everyone that maybe into you are you even attracted to all these people? Mass messaging will probably lead to disappointment.

Oh no I only message people I'm actually attracted to and want to meet, no point messaging people I'm not because then I wouldn't want to meet them if they did reply ahah

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By *ucka39Man
10 weeks ago

Newcastle

Hiya op

You could always try use the meet section as it does get used by others looking

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By *issmorganWoman
10 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

You could maybe pop on your profile that you can only travel up to 10 miles.

Then put if they're further away and interested in a meet, that they'd need to be willing to travel.

I think its one where you'd have to speak to someone for a while before they could decide if they'd travel a fair way for a meet.

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By *andydan69Man
10 weeks ago

south west nr you mmm

Travel for the right connection

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By *oxy jWoman
9 weeks ago

somerset

i use a vpn when on fab for just this reason i find guys creepy who message and say things like oh im only half a mile away ..no hi im such n such just creepy stalky im near you

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By *erkshirebeef!Man
7 weeks ago

Berkshire bound

Oh so the vnp would say I’m in Bristol , both on moblie,but really I’m at home in Southampton?

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
7 weeks ago

Coventry

I think we're all aware that not being able to travel limits your options a little bit (especially as a male I think there's sometime more expectations to do the travel). However anything distance related someone at least has to travel so you may as well throw your hat in the ring when you see someone/s a distance away that you fancy. You have a good profile and some verifications that paint you in an attractive and reliable light so this really helps. Of course the nearer you are to them the more convenient a travel is and more likely.

As to if there's a specific thing/place to look for someone who will travel apart from if they've selected 'will travel' in there stats I don't think there is. Providing it says that I'd say contact who you fancy. I don't think many would travel without building a good raport first, maybe also a phone or video call. Obviously before you go too deep in your raport building you need to explain your limitations and see if they're happy to tavel. Is there a hotel local to you? The reason I say is although you can accommodate not everyone is happy to go to people's personal homes. So if you have a hotel you can use that will give you more options.

Good luck.

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By *inceIlkestonMan
7 weeks ago

Ilkeston

"i use a vpn when on fab for just this reason i find guys creepy who message and say things like oh im only half a mile away ..no hi im such n such just creepy stalky im near you"

I had a nice chat on the bus with the lady in front of me who wasn't hiding checking her messages. I was out of her age range though.

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