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By *ndymorecambe OP   Man
3 weeks ago

morecambe

Hello everybody I don’t want to be at a pity me post or looking for sympathy just a general question. I’ve been on the site since it started and used to get quite a few regular meets before my ms got worse and I started using the wheelchair on a permanent basis even then I used to get meets mainly with regard to spanking women and giving and receiving oral all I even had a few threesomes but in the last few years I sex lives seems have dried up. I do admit I am very limited what I can do sexually which makes me unhappy because I’ve always been turned on by making women turned on. I’ve joined a spanking site so hopefully might get some success from there but I was just wondering if anybody can suggest to get more meets i’m always honest and tell people about the wheelchair. Maybe that’s where I’m going wrong. I know a lot of people have preconceived ideas about wheelchair users and what their abilities are. I also live in a nice big flat so I’ve been trying to get some sort of group thing organised where I’m just happy to sit there in the corner watching and wanking, but I had no success with that. I know I’m going to get some weird comments and abuse for this post but I’m used to stuff like that by now. Just thought I’d wide open everybody if anybody’s got any advice thank you and happy fabbing 😀👨‍🦽

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

East Sussex

Do you know if there are any wheelchair accessible clubs in your area?

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By *londebiguyMan
3 weeks ago

Southport


"Hello everybody I don’t want to be at a pity me post or looking for sympathy just a general question. I’ve been on the site since it started and used to get quite a few regular meets before my ms got worse and I started using the wheelchair on a permanent basis even then I used to get meets mainly with regard to spanking women and giving and receiving oral all I even had a few threesomes but in the last few years I sex lives seems have dried up. I do admit I am very limited what I can do sexually which makes me unhappy because I’ve always been turned on by making women turned on. I’ve joined a spanking site so hopefully might get some success from there but I was just wondering if anybody can suggest to get more meets i’m always honest and tell people about the wheelchair. Maybe that’s where I’m going wrong. I know a lot of people have preconceived ideas about wheelchair users and what their abilities are. I also live in a nice big flat so I’ve been trying to get some sort of group thing organised where I’m just happy to sit there in the corner watching and wanking, but I had no success with that. I know I’m going to get some weird comments and abuse for this post but I’m used to stuff like that by now. Just thought I’d wide open everybody if anybody’s got any advice thank you and happy fabbing 😀👨‍🦽"

For the group events and parties i think its a case of building a circle of friends and contacts up.

Lots of people im sure would be glad of a lovely place to host.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Central

Many users have disabilities and are rightly proud of their swinging and sexual interests.

Honesty about everything relevant and mportant is always the best policy.

I'd encourage you to get to socials and clubs, to meet mom people. Specialist interests often have alternative options to pursue too, as you're starting to explore

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By *ndymorecambe OP   Man
3 weeks ago

morecambe

Thanks for your reply. I’ve sussed out most of the local clubs, especially in Blackpool and none of them are accessible but I’ll keep checking things might change. X

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By *ndymorecambe OP   Man
3 weeks ago

morecambe

Thanks for your input. I’ll keep trying to get the group together.

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By *issyerMan
3 weeks ago

Hitchin

Anybody who gives you any abuse for being so open and honest is just pure sad themselves so I’d definitely ignore them.

That’s a shame that they aren’t accessible! Keep trying pretty sure there will be a place out there that is accessible!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
3 weeks ago

Leeds

If you could make it to Leeds, Quest is fully wheelchair accessible.

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By *ustamanMan
3 weeks ago

weymouth

I suppose it'll depend on whether the club is a private members club or a business, if the latter I thought they had to make provision under the disability and equality act? 🤔

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By *MFC PartiesWoman
3 weeks ago

Here, There & Everywhere


"Hello everybody I don’t want to be at a pity me post or looking for sympathy just a general question. I’ve been on the site since it started and used to get quite a few regular meets before my ms got worse and I started using the wheelchair on a permanent basis even then I used to get meets mainly with regard to spanking women and giving and receiving oral all I even had a few threesomes but in the last few years I sex lives seems have dried up. I do admit I am very limited what I can do sexually which makes me unhappy because I’ve always been turned on by making women turned on. I’ve joined a spanking site so hopefully might get some success from there but I was just wondering if anybody can suggest to get more meets i’m always honest and tell people about the wheelchair. Maybe that’s where I’m going wrong. I know a lot of people have preconceived ideas about wheelchair users and what their abilities are. I also live in a nice big flat so I’ve been trying to get some sort of group thing organised where I’m just happy to sit there in the corner watching and wanking, but I had no success with that. I know I’m going to get some weird comments and abuse for this post but I’m used to stuff like that by now. Just thought I’d wide open everybody if anybody’s got any advice thank you and happy fabbing 😀👨‍🦽"

Totally agree with SlinkySally

Quest is a fantastic venue - fully wheelchair accessible

It's well worth a trip if you can get there

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By *ndymorecambe OP   Man
3 weeks ago

morecambe

Cheers for the info I did go to quest in Leeds years ago before I use the wheelchair, but I struggled to walk but I remember there was lots of steps which I called up so that must’ve changed I will definitely sus it out x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
3 weeks ago

Leeds


"Cheers for the info I did go to quest in Leeds years ago before I use the wheelchair, but I struggled to walk but I remember there was lots of steps which I called up so that must’ve changed I will definitely sus it out x"

You are thinking of the old Quest called Isis. It is in a new location now, all on one level. The owner's wife uses a wheelchair so it has been designed to be accessible.

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By *ndymorecambe OP   Man
2 weeks ago

morecambe

Yes thanks a lot for the information and I definitely wasn’t accessible but this new place sounds a lot better

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