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"would be easier with someone who knows how it is in there lol, as i got no idea, just get in and get naked, or what lol. prob afraid of doing something and getting kicked out lol" The main thing to remember not to get kicked out (hardly ever happens anyway) is remember not to touch without asking/being invited to. And keep drinking to minimum so you can keep a clear head. | |||
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"would be easier with someone who knows how it is in there lol, as i got no idea, just get in and get naked, or what lol. prob afraid of doing something and getting kicked out lol" Just bite the bullet and do it ! Just relax - mingle and talk | |||
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"would be easier with someone who knows how it is in there lol, as i got no idea, just get in and get naked, or what lol. prob afraid of doing something and getting kicked out lol" We went as a couple of newbies - it turned out being with someone equally inexperienced actually made it a better shared experience than going with someone who knew it all. We did a lot of reading, made a lot of assumptions and then got there and was very pleasantly surprised by the vibe of being with our tribe of like minded, sexually liberated people. I think like others have said - just do it and work it out as you go. Be yourself and don't be a dick and you're not getting thrown out. | |||
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"Its just a building which happens to be where like minded people can get together. Go for it." Perfect explaintion | |||
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"hey everyone, i've never been in the club, and since im recently single, would love to get into one, but somehow getting nervous about going there alone. any advice how to push myself to it or maybe someone can come with me lol" You have the Attic in Derby, and Purple Mamba in Nottingham close to you. Purple Mamba consistently has positive reviews from single guys, about how they feel welcomed inside, I would pay them a visit if I were closer myself. The Attic also seems to welcome single guys, and has recently been refurbished/extended I believe, and is also a place I would like to visit at some point. Try to pick a venue with positive reviews from other single guys (you can read up in the clubs section in here), as every club will take your money, but few will pay you any attention (unless you're misbehaving) once you've left the reception desk.... | |||
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"hey everyone, i've never been in the club, and since im recently single, would love to get into one, but somehow getting nervous about going there alone. any advice how to push myself to it or maybe someone can come with me lol" Did you get to go ? | |||
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"hey everyone, i've never been in the club, and since im recently single, would love to get into one, but somehow getting nervous about going there alone. any advice how to push myself to it or maybe someone can come with me lol" Just treat it as a normal night out at the pub nothing is promised so you could just go and socialise first to get a feel of the environment. Then if you like it you can go back and explore more (MR) | |||
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