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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't seem to be getting any attention at all whats goin on

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Your attitude, lack of decent pics and can't accomodate...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile reads "expectancy" and comes across as you believing this is insta-shag!

4 weeks and little attention? What did you seriously expect? A daily full inbox? A queue at the door? Women and couples cancelling plans to accomodate you?

Your profile appears demanding and arrogant, contains little to differentiate you from the hundreds of other single guys looking for the same, and tells people nothing more than that you're 'cocky', 'straight to the point' and not willing to go through the motions of exchanging messages and dialogue to get to know those you're seeking to play with.

You asked!!

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Trust Obi...he knows........lol.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust Obi...he knows........lol.x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust Obi...he knows........lol.x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple we would have read your profile and moved on to the next, arrogance isn't normally a trait people find attractive and weather it was intentional or not yours does come across that way, as obi said this isn't a instashag site and just because its a swingers site doesn't mean us swingers shag anything that moves or winks. We like to have some connection with the people we invite and the only way to do that on here is to chat.

Hope that helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow thanks for the replies folks I honestly thought it came across as I was fun and confident but obviously not lol well back to the drawing board then cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YES

The devil is in the detail

So many folk make no effort with their profile n it comes over a 'well, here I am n no doubt u r gagging for me - paunch,comb over and all'

I've constantly tweaked n refreshed my profile n as a virtual geriatric it seems to have attracted enough attention to result in quite a few meets for a poor old sod!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A decent profile is a very hard thing to accomplish and always needs updating, and it's never going to please everyone either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow thanks for the replies folks I honestly thought it came across as I was fun and confident but obviously not lol well back to the drawing board then cheers"

Actually so did I, unless you have changed it since posting ... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow thanks for the replies folks I honestly thought it came across as I was fun and confident but obviously not lol well back to the drawing board then cheers

Actually so did I, unless you have changed it since posting ... lol"

It's changed!

Feedback taken on board - which is always a refreshing sight!

Not trying to write it for you as it's a definate improvement but i'd lose the 'timewasting' reference - no one will ever admit to being out to waste time - and if someone was they'd certainly not mention it on their profile!

Now just some work on the pics maybe?

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust Obi...he knows........lol.x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers obi thanks for the advise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks


"Cheers obi thanks for the advise"
well done for taking obi,s advice onboard and goodluck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cheers obi thanks for the advise well done for taking obi,s advice onboard and goodluck"

Why thank you

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Yeah hats off to you for accepting constructive criticism and utilising it.

Obi us next !

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By *risboy69Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Wow

So brutally honest!

Hope it helps you thou,

Anybody feel free to view mine and list advice.

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By *ark NoirMan
over a year ago

London

Obi I've changed mine as you said, what are you(or anyone else) thinking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very good club in your town, maybe go there and get verified?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when the listen to us

Great re jig of your profile well done OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Holy crap not another one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah hats off to you for accepting constructive criticism and utilising it.

Obi us next !"

Terrible!

Tell you what - I'll pop round and we can discuss it over wine, donuts and ice cream while I take some new pics for me ......er...... I mean you, obviously!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another one that thinks all you have to do is create a profile and the woman and cpls come running

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile reads "expectancy" and comes across as you believing this is insta-shag!

4 weeks and little attention? What did you seriously expect? A daily full inbox? A queue at the door? Women and couples cancelling plans to accomodate you?

Your profile appears demanding and arrogant, contains little to differentiate you from the hundreds of other single guys looking for the same, and tells people nothing more than that you're 'cocky', 'straight to the point' and not willing to go through the motions of exchanging messages and dialogue to get to know those you're seeking to play with.

You asked!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile reads "expectancy" and comes across as you believing this is insta-shag!

4 weeks and little attention? What did you seriously expect? A daily full inbox? A queue at the door? Women and couples cancelling plans to accomodate you?

Your profile appears demanding and arrogant, contains little to differentiate you from the hundreds of other single guys looking for the same, and tells people nothing more than that you're 'cocky', 'straight to the point' and not willing to go through the motions of exchanging messages and dialogue to get to know those you're seeking to play with.

You asked!!"

absolutely correct in what you say x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"YES

The devil is in the detail

So many folk make no effort with their profile n it comes over a 'well, here I am n no doubt u r gagging for me - paunch,comb over and all'

I've constantly tweaked n refreshed my profile n as a virtual geriatric it seems to have attracted enough attention to result in quite a few meets for a poor old sod!! "
well I guess any sort of profile details has gotta b better than those arid wastelands where folks just answer the moot points n sign off wiv sumthing like 'looking for horny filthy fun - I'm a slut......'

Which in my book wouldn't make me wanna make contact

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