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Here's a thought before you complain about lack of replies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After you read their profile

You match all their criteria and you're available and they're available. You then send them a concise well written note with the special code they request.

After all that you get no response and they block you.

What to do? What to think? Perhaps they're time wasters, perhaps they're fake? Perhaps they've received a thousand other messages?

Or, just perhaps, they don't find me attractive?

No that can't be it! Or can it?

Sometimes I wonder if people have a realistic concept of what others find attractive? Just because you think your gorgeous (as indeed you should) doesn't mean everyone else does!

However as my mum always says

"Every pot has it's lid!"

Someone somewhere will bite. If you look like George Clooney it will clearly take less time, but if you look like Jabba the Hut it Will take slightly longer

Love Jabba xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a bit of a tough one especially when the guy has stuck his neck out to send you a face shot yet you just aren't attracted to it. It's all so subjective as I believe that, in real life, some of the people would be much more fanciable once you spoke to them. The joys of this site!

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Say what you like about jabba, but i bet his tongue was rather satisfying

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Oi James I thought I had been given the part of Jabba on Fab, does that mean I have been sacked now ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say what you like about jabba, but i bet his tongue was rather satisfying "

And he's well lubed!

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Isn't looking like Jabba the Hut in itself subjective?

Perhaps the messager doesn't think they do..

Pot and lid again...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't looking like Jabba the Hut in itself subjective?

Perhaps the messager doesn't think they do..

Pot and lid again..."

I'd worry if anyone thought hey looked like Jabba, but, sometimes people really do look like they're trying to look line Jabba! Presentation is incredibly important as long as it's truthful. Clothes that fit, angles of photography that show you well not just a pic of your cock, tidy the bathroom in the photo etc

Etc

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Isn't looking like Jabba the Hut in itself subjective?

Perhaps the messager doesn't think they do..

Pot and lid again...

I'd worry if anyone thought hey looked like Jabba, but, sometimes people really do look like they're trying to look line Jabba! Presentation is incredibly important as long as it's truthful. Clothes that fit, angles of photography that show you well not just a pic of your cock, tidy the bathroom in the photo etc

Etc "

I see..I do think sometimes people don't look beyond the cock shot or pussy shot. There have been loads of threads on here about backgrounds

I think a select few think if there is a cock in the picture that's all that counts..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are always going to be annoyed about not getting a response just as not everyone is going to reply.

It isn't exclusive to this site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People are always going to be annoyed about not getting a response just as not everyone is going to reply.

It isn't exclusive to this site."

Totally agree, it's not exclusive to this site, however sometimes I think people shoot themselves in the foot when they complain about how unfair it all is when they should probably just try a more positive different approach

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"People are always going to be annoyed about not getting a response just as not everyone is going to reply.

It isn't exclusive to this site.

Totally agree, it's not exclusive to this site, however sometimes I think people shoot themselves in the foot when they complain about how unfair it all is when they should probably just try a more positive different approach"

If im blocked receive no reply, I rationalise it by telling myself

' I m out of their league,*,'

.

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*these are strictly my thoughts and in no way represent real life,,!! *

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People are always going to be annoyed about not getting a response just as not everyone is going to reply.

It isn't exclusive to this site.

Totally agree, it's not exclusive to this site, however sometimes I think people shoot themselves in the foot when they complain about how unfair it all is when they should probably just try a more positive different approach

If im blocked receive no reply, I rationalise it by telling myself

' I m out of their league,*,'

.

.

*these are strictly my thoughts and in no way represent real life,,!! *

"

Lol! The important thing is you tell "yourself" and don't post it on your profile as a rant

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