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By *Student OP   Man
23 weeks ago

Halesowen

Meeting a guy for sex tomorrow and it's my first time doing anal (I'm top to be clear). I have tight foreskin so I'm a bit worried about doing things properly. Anyone got any advice for making it go smoothly, and pleasurably? Thanks.

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By *heshireguy99Man
23 weeks ago

Northwich

Plenty of lube is the main thing and the receiver needs to be relaxed, then just take your time

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By *mw65Man
23 weeks ago

Wells

Lube. More lube. Then more lube!

A lot of gentle play first helps the bottom relax. Generally they are the one who has the most to think about…

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Central

There are many position options, so you could potentially ask your partner how they'd like to get fucked. If they have more experience with it, they could guide you along, when the timing's right for them, etc. Likewise, the intensity etc.

Both parties can use lube - as others state, you can use lots as well as reapply it. Take your own supplies, in case they don't have everything. Supermarkets sell a lot of stuff.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Lube and take it steady. Don't take a run up

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
22 weeks ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

Mention has been made of their level of experience. If they are used to being fucked anally but if it's a situation ot two total beginners you really need to get them nicely opened up first.

I hope that they realise the need to be well cleaned out (I suggest Loperamide from the day before and a good douche prior).

Then as mentioned, lots of lube. I find silicone lube is better than water based. It doesn't dry out into a sticky mess and though pricy a little goes a long way.

Open them up nicely with your fingers, don't rush things, it's all part of the fun and then in you go.

Pause, let your excitement die down and their rectum relax, then when you are both ready off you go.

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By *iberius61Man
22 weeks ago

Pontefract

Lube...did anyone mention lube

Right, now forget the pornos you watched ok. An ass is not a vagina. Take it slow and steady.

Having said that, some people do enjoy it. Sorry I can only speak for women, but I'd say most will try it at least once, maybe a quarter actively seek it/enjoy it...some of the time.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
22 weeks ago

caledonian

Patiently have Patience for the lady

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By *hades Of GreyMan
22 weeks ago

Leeds


"Lube, lube, lube, lube! Did I say lube?"

Put the tip of your penis at the opening, apply very gentle pressure, and it will eventually slide all the way in. Do not jab at it as though you were already in, this causes the sphyncter to contract and makes it painful for the recipient. Enjoy!

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