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By *ark Noir OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I'm sorry in advance for being another single guy making another thread about needing help on their profile, I'm actually quite embarrassed for this but I'm getting bored on this site.

I've been here a month now and I'm getting ZERO luck, I'm not one of these people who will come on here looking for sex straight off the bat but it would be great to get to chat to more people on here.

I know patience is the game on this site but it's a bit disheartening when you're polite to people and you're constantly getting knockbacks.

I will welcome any advice, thanks in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've made some friends on here, maybe consider meeting them? Get on the chat and the forums too, go to socials and clubs.

What I did find odd however was that you like the older woman so I thought you meant like the 40's age group and older but your limit is 35. Maybe take that line out or increase your upper limit?

Welcome to Fab though

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By *ark Noir OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Ah yes! Thank you Kinky. In regards to the friends I've made, a few are far away so I only chat to them on the directing room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah yes! Thank you Kinky. In regards to the friends I've made, a few are far away so I only chat to them on the directing room."

Get them to verify you then if they can see you on cam as that is still allowed as one fairs better once verified

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By *ark Noir OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Thanks Kinky. Have to ask though, what do you think of my profile overall?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks Kinky. Have to ask though, what do you think of my profile overall?"

Its actually okay, some spaces and capital letters needed but yea overall its a

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been here a month just what is your sense of expectation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Says three months on your profile.

Ok - feedback!

You state you like MFF (as a single male - good luck with that one!) and helping 'cuckys' - very limited target audience.

Your profile text comes across as slightly arrogant, stating how you will leave your meets feeling, but sadly with no evidence (veri's) to back it up - combined with the statement that you're 'new to swinging' many will prefer to seek those with good, recent feedback and experience.

You have to stand out from others looking for similar things. Many profiles have far more detailed self-descriptions, info regarding what they enjoy, are seeking and what they can offer. And a variety of decent and imaginative pics always goes a long way to making you stand out.

If you think you can't do a better job with your profile then it's just a question of patience. If you think it can be improved - try, and see if your 'results' improve.

Good luck!

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