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"Many people read profiles before the message. Do you feel yours gives an accurate picture of what someone could expect if they met you or what you expect from them? " In all honesty, I'm baffled by what to put. I've done the long wordy profile and tried to narrow it down over the past year, neither appears to help and if any interest is show, it's fro males and I clearly state that I'm straight so can't figure out where I'm going wrong.   | |||
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"Ah ok, I'll look into the settings and sort that out, thanks. I'd feel creepy turning up to an event on my own, just feels wrong to go to the clubs as a single man, pub's are a different thing, but swingers club's seem alien to me unfortunately " Have you been to a club? If not then you don't know so worth trying. | |||
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"Unless I’m totally missing something the first line of your profile makes no sense to me 🤷♀️" I think he changed his username, used to be something Dom related. Just forgot to update bio  | |||
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"As a single straight guy on here, any advice on how to get interest from the ladies? Seems my efforts go unread or ignored. "Personally I would like to see more in your profile… what exactly are you looking for? What do you have to offer… what makes you special compared to every other bloke? I like more photos of full body… ideally standing! Blur/block of face and intimate area if desired but I want to see what’s on offer! Good luck | |||
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"As a single straight guy on here, any advice on how to get interest from the ladies? Seems my efforts go unread or ignored. "Your profile is frankly terrible. Work out what draws you to other profiles and then put some of that in your own. It's more important to say what you do like rather than what you don't and what you are looking for. Lx | |||
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"Unless I’m totally missing something the first line of your profile makes no sense to me 🤷♀️ I think he changed his username, used to be something Dom related. Just forgot to update bio "Now it makes sense. Thank you. I thought must be a euphemism for something 😁 | |||
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"Ah ok, I'll look into the settings and sort that out, thanks. I'd feel creepy turning up to an event on my own, just feels wrong to go to the clubs as a single man, pub's are a different thing, but swingers club's seem alien to me unfortunately " Why, I go alone to events and others with my husband, yes it's nerve-wracking but just go for it. | |||
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"As a single straight guy on here, any advice on how to get interest from the ladies? Seems my efforts go unread or ignored. "You say you’re single, but your profile says attached (and can’t accommodate) so my money’s on you’ve got a wife at home who doesn’t realise what’s going on. HTH  | |||
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"As a single straight guy on here, any advice on how to get interest from the ladies? Seems my efforts go unread or ignored.
You say you’re single, but your profile says attached (and can’t accommodate) so my money’s on you’ve got a wife at home who doesn’t realise what’s going on. HTH "Good catch! Hadn’t spotted that! | |||
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"The pictures are all totally pointless. Why bother with all that effort at covering up?" Purely for discretion.... I hold a public service job and want to avoid that awkward conversation if spotted or recognised by towns folk etc | |||
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"The pictures are all totally pointless. Why bother with all that effort at covering up? Purely for discretion.... I hold a public service job and want to avoid that awkward conversation if spotted or recognised by towns folk etc" Cropping looks better than the dumb emojis. | |||
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"Delete the dick pics Dick pics in a bathroom just scream that you’re attached and taking a pic whilst the unknowing partner is watching tv " Agreed. The pictures are low quality, and the bio is uninformative. | |||
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"Delete the dick pics Dick pics in a bathroom just scream that you’re attached and taking a pic whilst the unknowing partner is watching tv " • I agree. The cock photos will mostly close any potential doors of opportunity on here than open them. | |||
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"The pictures are all totally pointless. Why bother with all that effort at covering up? Purely for discretion.... I hold a public service job and want to avoid that awkward conversation if spotted or recognised by towns folk etc" People told you 25 weeks ago that cropped pictures look better than emojis. | |||
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"The pictures are all totally pointless. Why bother with all that effort at covering up? Purely for discretion.... I hold a public service job and want to avoid that awkward conversation if spotted or recognised by towns folk etc People told you 25 weeks ago that cropped pictures look better than emojis. " Yes. No sign of improvement in such a long time is not a good sign. | |||
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"Your profile header text seems to be cut short" Opps, had too much written for the word count. | |||
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"Any better?" No. | |||
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"As a single straight guy on here, any advice on how to get interest from the ladies? Seems my efforts go unread or ignored. "Try going to local socials or a club and meet people in real life | |||
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"Any better? No." 😔 right in the feels....lol | |||
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"As a single straight guy on here, any advice on how to get interest from the ladies? Seems my efforts go unread or ignored.
Try going to local socials or a club and meet people in real life "This something I do intend on doing, just feels a little odd to me is all | |||
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"Several people have said that cropped photos are way better than pixelated nonsense, and you’ve just added a new one…. It would be a no from me. " I did attempt cropped but felt they looked worse, almost all my pictures are selfie style as photos of me on on the people who take them devices 🙃 | |||
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"As your name is _iker-bang I would expect to see a pic of you on your bike or in biker gear" Will do x | |||
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"Any better? No. 😔 right in the feels....lol" We said cropped. We said better profile text. You did neither. | |||
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"Any better? No. 😔 right in the feels....lol We said cropped. We said better profile text. You did neither." In my defence, I've had way more people say the opposite, I just don't seem to get the right balance is all x | |||
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" I did attempt cropped but felt they looked worse " I think they would look better ! " almost all my pictures are selfie style as photos of me on on the people who take them devices 🙃" I'm afraid I don't understand this | |||
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" I did attempt cropped but felt they looked worse I think they would look better ! almost all my pictures are selfie style as photos of me on on the people who take them devices 🙃 I'm afraid I don't understand this" I have quite a distinctive face, and I work in the public service sector, discretion is paramount x | |||
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"Any better? No. 😔 right in the feels....lol We said cropped. We said better profile text. You did neither. In my defence, I've had way more people say the opposite, I just don't seem to get the right balance is all x" Your profile screams to me "just another dude, not that interesting, says he's interested in everything, which probably means he's inexperienced or lying". It'd be an instant delete. It's only my perspective, but it's all anyone is offering here. | |||
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" I did attempt cropped but felt they looked worse I think they would look better ! almost all my pictures are selfie style as photos of me on on the people who take them devices 🙃 I'm afraid I don't understand this I have quite a distinctive face, and I work in the public service sector, discretion is paramount x" Nobody is suggesting you show your face. | |||
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