FabSwingers.com forum: Venting

By *endalshaggers OP Couple
13 weeks ago

Kendal

Whist we joined this site with open eyes and knowing to a degree it would happen, as a woman I'm actually somewhat shocked at how many (*certain sex*) seem to go about their ways and treat women on here as cheap, easy, sl*ppers who'll drop their knickers for all and sundry.

I've been called all of the above, and worse, because I don't meet men alone - not that we're looking for them anyway. Some of the insults you get are quite nasty - just because you say no and reject advances you're suddenly X Y Z.

I'm well aware that some of our photos include quite provocative ones of me in various outfits/nude and you can see me naked in our videos. I'm happy within myself, I'm happy with what we post. At the end of the day your're not looking to have sex with a blank profile with no info or pictures. We come as we are, take it or leave it.

We do get lovely messages as well, I just wish people would think with their brains instead of their genitalia.

Reminds me of two sayings:

sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me

Look but don't touch.

Thank you for letting me vent

C xoxo

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By *aomilatteCouple
13 weeks ago

Midlands

You have a filter on to block a certain sex?

Touch wood we've never had a bad message when our filter has (briefly) been off.

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By *vaRose43Woman
13 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

The abuse on return is one of reasons (with a few exceptions) I no longer send replies if it’s a no. Just delete and if necessary block

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Just block men then, it’s not difficult

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By *eird_With_a_BeardMan
13 weeks ago

Falkirk

Sometimes it seems a pity to have to block certain sex's, but due to people's ignorance, or lack of respect, it's necessary I suppose.

I've had female friends who are members of Fab and they've told me about all manners of messages from male site members. To me it seems like a lot of guys think that because a woman is on here, they are quite literally fair game and will do anything with anyone (not my opinion by any means). I know someone personally who has had a conversation go from polite and flirty to absolute dogs abuse simply because they said no thank you or you're not my type. Not cool.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
13 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Sadly that does happen....just report and block.

We've had it from couples as well.

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By *WANDTGCouple
13 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

I love giving a response back , we've had "your wife is a xxxxxxx why would a man want to see his partner get xxxxxx by other men etc".

Responded with , she ain't my wife and she's not even looking for a bloke , so jog on !!!

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