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"Surely the point of sexual freedom within a marriage/relationship is that there are no rules, or at least none set by the other. K." That might be the point for you, but how can you state that must be the point for everyone? For us, the freedom to have sex with other women is a 'gift' I give him. Therefore I get to set parameters and he willingly abides by them. If he did anything that made me unhappy it would make him unhappy too and ruin the whole experience. If I ever have sex with anyone else on my own he absolutely has rules for me, but that's partly about our D/s dynamic. | |||
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"If meeting alone...no rules. Because how do you know they are being followed anyway? " Trust! | |||
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"What rules do you set each other when playing separately? And is it different for each of you. " I'm on here with my wife. Yes we have rules and yes, they are different....but that's our dynamic and its been that way for 27 years now. If we play as a couple then we have playing as a couple rules. But outside.of thay we errr more towards a cuckqean / hot husband dynamic and my wife really only wants to play with other women anyway. So she's free to meet and play with other women which usually is at our club anyway. I'm basically free to do whatever I want, when I want. Can talk, flirt or get into bed with any lady I like. Due to my own ethics, I always tell her before I meet anyone and she could, if she so wished, veto it (and I wouldn't argue with it) but she never has in 27 years. She actively gets a big kick out it. She'd love me to go out one night, without her knowledge, pull someone, have my wicked way with them and then come home and tell her about it. Never actually done that though. She always knows when im going to our local swingers club or on a meet (because she gets invited to join more often than not) and because I don't feel like fishing in pubs or bars or leading someone on. Maybe one day I'll.meet a random fellow swinger randomly.in the supermarket and ill have a sexy surprise for her but to date, she's always known when I'm out playing away before hand. | |||
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"You may have trust.. but you won't ever know for sure." I don't think you are quite grasping the concept of trust! | |||
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"You may have trust.. but you won't ever know for sure." trust needs to be 100% in this.... To be fair we have decided that we won't be playing separately. Mr would be fine with me doing so... but I don't like it at all... The rules we did have were different for playing separately... | |||
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