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By *aughtyYoungCouple98 OP   Couple
14 weeks ago

Central Belt

We were threatened by someone from this platform, we added them on snapchat as they seemed nice, then they had threatened us, saved a picture we sent and said they would break my (mr) legs and stuff.

I have reported the profile on here and blocked

Is there anything else we should do?

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By *neeyedwillieMan
14 weeks ago

Darlington

You're in a he said, she said situation. The threat happened off platform so its your word against their's.

You've done all you can beyond reporting it to the police.

If ive learnt anything over the last 30 years of internet use, 99.9999999999% of the time blocking is all you need to do. People who issue threats over the Internet don't have much going on.

Wanna see what I mean...spend any amount of.time.in a COD lobby.

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By *affle84Couple
14 weeks ago

Norwich

So sorry to hear that and such a shame some people ruin it for others. We’ve got quite a block list as some seem so nice to start with but then off messaging on here they quickly turn unpleasant.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Report to the police. As the threat didn’t happen on this platform then I doubt there’s anything FAB can do.

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By *itygamesMan
14 weeks ago

UK

Have you proof they threatened you?

Why not just block there number?

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By *punk n gushCouple
14 weeks ago

walmer

Feel sorry for you we had a similar issue thay didnt threaten us but we're stalking us on here and on another platform every time we blocked them they just started new profiles and new numbers so in the end we had to involve the police and since then we have not heard a thing and not been back on fab since

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By *reedyHMan
14 weeks ago

bellingham

Does he know you and your address? If not fuck the divvy and not in the fabswinger way! Or if u know where he live we can arrange a men only group sex cnc party but don't tell him. All that said in this post is for entertainment purposes.

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By *heer Indulgence PartiesWoman
14 weeks ago

Leicestershire


"We were threatened by someone from this platform, we added them on snapchat as they seemed nice, then they had threatened us, saved a picture we sent and said they would break my (mr) legs and stuff.

I have reported the profile on here and blocked

Is there anything else we should do?"

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By *unnerbenMan
14 weeks ago

Dublin / Cork

Report on here . Block here and on snap . If you genuinely think there is something to the threat then report to the police . They can put a freeze on that persons snap account within 30 days of the report . Everything is retrievable from the snap account and conversation etc

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By *ust want fun 888Man
14 weeks ago

nearby

If the communication between both parties was chat, take a snapshot of that chat session and report that to Snapchat as well, keep that Snapchat as proof in case it goes any further

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By *lleyCat1969Man
13 weeks ago

Folkestone


"Does he know you and your address? If not fuck the divvy and not in the fabswinger way! Or if u know where he live we can arrange a men only group sex cnc party but don't tell him. All that said in this post is for entertainment purposes. "

How do you know the threat was made by a male?

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By *azzmanMan
13 weeks ago

ryhl

This is really sad; so much weirdos everywhere. Like the first commenter said OP, people threatening others online have little going on for them. Blocking is all you need; don't bother about them.

My only worry is them spoiling things for the numerous other genuine ones, and making sour your experience that was suppose to be pleasant. That's very sad. Sorry about that OP.

About the prick; just forget him/them

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
13 weeks ago

Leeds

Screenshot the communication & inform the police.

Snapchat itself would be enough of a red flag for me.

Mrs

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By *reedyHMan
13 weeks ago

bellingham


"Does he know you and your address? If not fuck the divvy and not in the fabswinger way! Or if u know where he live we can arrange a men only group sex cnc party but don't tell him. All that said in this post is for entertainment purposes. If a women is saying that she is gonna break your Mr legs I'd be very worried. Possibly a lorry driving scaffolder. Super women that wants to beat your man up rather than u

How do you know the threat was made by a male?"

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By *nebworthMan
13 weeks ago

Knebworth

It is so silly for stupid people to upset a lovely couple such as yourselves. I am sorry it happened. Please do not be put off by the experience. Plenty of decent people on here will make your lives fun. Just do not let a muppet ruin the day.

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
13 weeks ago

Hyde


" They can put a freeze on that persons snap account within 30 days of the report . Everything is retrievable from the snap account and conversation etc "

I'm afraid this isn't true .... having recently sat through a court case where an adult groomed a child over Snapchat the police could not retrieve the msgs sent.

In short ... unless you have screenshots of the msgs they're gone.

So the moral of the story is - don't use snap chat

X

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By *unnerbenMan
13 weeks ago

Dublin / Cork

The messages and all account information are retrievable . In that particular case it is possible the police did not make the relevant mutual assistance order to Snapchat in the aforementioned time frame . It is also possible in that particular case if the child was under 13 that Snapchat deleted their account as u have to be 13 yrs old to hold an account . Snapchat will delete the account if find out to the contrary .

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
13 weeks ago

Hyde

I guess we will have to agree to disagree... the child was 15 but the police could not retrieve any information

The adult has received 8.5 yrs in prison

It still stands .... dont use snapchat

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By *ellinever70Woman
13 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Think more carefully when interacting online with strangers

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By *oxy jWoman
13 weeks ago

somerset

never take fab stuff away from fab .. as once it leaves fab its no longer a fab issue ...

i screenshot every shitty message or abusive message and keep them in a little folder as many like to open other accounts after so that if ever i need its there ... theres a guy on these forums that years ago sent me some shocking nasty messages whos is well liked today has he changed i doubt it he did delete his old account but thats what they do to hide what nasty assholes they can be ... it takes seconds to screen shot tag it and takes no space with profile details and pics ... plus great for sharing with swinging friends away from fab so others can avoid the assholes online /in clubs

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By *esparate danMan
13 weeks ago

glasgow

I admire your commitment to the cause

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By *neforutoMan
13 weeks ago

Fantasy land in the SW

Some folks are just nasty little shits. If I was living closer I would offer to pop over and help 'soothe' the hurt. Have a groovy day OP

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By *ount TootusMan
13 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

Those were the days on mw2.

Nice to a cod mention.

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By *hawn ScottMan
13 weeks ago

london Brixton

As said most threats are empty and unlikely to be followed through.

I'm assuming their don't have your address? Your phone number?

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Weve had loads off this and its ok people saying your fine nothing will happen when theve.not been in the position.Dont call police complete waste of time as takes 6 weeks for them to call you back never mind anything else thats real world .Best thing trust me call there bluff act nuts tell them youve shit on them big shit things pure bullshit but enough for them.to believe you dont take any shit .If that dont work blame the boats xx

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