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By *xcum OP   Man
over a year ago

kidderminster

A local couple put an add on here for a bj and go. Well ok I seem to match there requirments let's give it a go, so a nice and polite message was sent. Waited, no reply then barred. W T F is this all about ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have the right you know to do this so stop whining

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By *itboyslim2Man
over a year ago

stevenage

Blocking is just a lazy way of saying..

You are not or me

Get use to it as it happens a lot on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Outrageous. How ungrateful they must be. I doubt they were snowed under with replies and maybe couldn't get around to replyng to everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A local couple put an add on here for a bj and go. Well ok I seem to match there requirments let's give it a go, so a nice and polite message was sent. Waited, no reply then barred. W T F is this all about ?"

You thought that you matched their requirements

They obviously didn't !

Smile, shrug your shoulders and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A local couple put an add on here for a bj and go. Well ok I seem to match there requirments let's give it a go, so a nice and polite message was sent. Waited, no reply then barred. W T F is this all about ?

You thought that you matched their requirements

They obviously didn't !

Smile, shrug your shoulders and move on "

This !

Assuming you meet criteria based on the written word in profiles never works!

Attraction is an individual concept - and everyone has the right to say no - or delete - or block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they recognised you? Who knows??? People in the driving seat make the rules

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"A local couple put an add on here for a bj and go. Well ok I seem to match there requirments let's give it a go, so a nice and polite message was sent. Waited, no reply then barred. W T F is this all about ?

You thought that you matched their requirements

They obviously didn't !

Smile, shrug your shoulders and move on

This !

Assuming you meet criteria based on the written word in profiles never works!

Attraction is an individual concept - and everyone has the right to say no - or delete - or block! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well after having preference for no males to contact us, decided yest not all messages are the same.

after 100 of the same messages i.e fancy a fuck? yous into 3somes? are yous fucking just now? can i join yous?

yea we on a swingers site but block button easy to hit when u hear the same messages, and yes rather than say thanx but no thanx some we just block if know we hav no interest.

free up space for the type of people we are looking for, but tempted to go bk to filter and stop males from messaging and bk to browsing and contacting if we like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A local couple put an add on here for a bj and go. Well ok I seem to match there requirments let's give it a go, so a nice and polite message was sent. Waited, no reply then barred. W T F is this all about ?

You thought that you matched their requirements

They obviously didn't !

Smile, shrug your shoulders and move on

This !

Assuming you meet criteria based on the written word in profiles never works!

Attraction is an individual concept - and everyone has the right to say no - or delete - or block! "

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Remember that anyone putting up an ad is not dumping their preferences. They are not saying 'first person who messages' or 'anyone who messages', and it is not personally directed at you.

It might have been nicer to simply have said 'no thanks' but that's the way it goes.

When I have put up an ad before I have had loads of messages from guys who are clearly completely outside my preferences. I spend ages trying to say 'no thanks' - to those who bother to send a face pic, at least. But I always get some who say that they 'match my criteria' or 'match what you are looking for' and demand some kind of explanation.

Actually, the only person who can say who matches what I want is ... ME!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't lose any sleep over it.

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By *arkMan
over a year ago

Alnwick

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