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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im looking for a small group of better class guys and so far seem only to attract, shall we say the not so nice guys, so what the heck am I doing wrong???

Please feel free to give advice on my profile

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Better class"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Professionals ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say RAF and Army officers lol

The ones I've met we're far from professional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Search yourself!

You say 'attract' - which suggests they are responding to you - rather than you making initial contact. If you want to ensure they're what 'you' want you'll have to do the leg work to avoid those not suitable to your needs/preferences.

Good luck and happy hunting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also says you don't accommodate so do you expect them to pay for a plush hotel for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You say RAF and Army officers lol

The ones I've met we're far from professional "

couldn't have put it better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can i ask....what's a trophy meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can i ask....what's a trophy meet? "

Was wondering that myself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can i ask....what's a trophy meet? "

She wears antlers and looks good set against oak panelled walls

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Im looking for a small group of better class guys and so far seem only to attract, shall we say the not so nice guys, so what the heck am I doing wrong???

Please feel free to give advice on my profile "
i would say your whole profile, I am surprised you are attracting anyone let alone the "NOT SO NICE GUYS".

You don't want to attract arrogant men, yet you sound it yourself, loving oneself is a nice trait, but too the extent you portray its ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very much a fan of people being specific in what they are looking for, But that said the more specific you are then the more you have to accept that your choices are limited.

Though I can't help but think the air of arrogance and superiority that is clear in your profile will potentially put off the very people you want to attract.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can i ask....what's a trophy meet?

Was wondering that myself x"

the mind boggles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am very much a fan of people being specific in what they are looking for, But that said the more specific you are then the more you have to accept that your choices are limited.

Though I can't help but think the air of arrogance and superiority that is clear in your profile will potentially put off the very people you want to attract."

I couldn't agree more I think most decent people would find your profile some what off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can i ask....what's a trophy meet?

Was wondering that myself x

the mind boggles

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I googled it and it came up with gymnastics lol

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"Im looking for a small group of better class guys and so far seem only to attract, shall we say the not so nice guys,

"

Bet this comment makes the guys you have met feel good

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Can i ask....what's a trophy meet?

Was wondering that myself x"
is it not the same sort of thing as a trophy wife.

she obviously thinks she is such a catch, the guy she is on a meet with would be so proud to have her on his arm or in his bed. Or perhaps he can stand her on the mantelpiece after fucking her and stand back and think wow!!

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By *egan_CDTV/TS
over a year ago

In the closet

RAF officers? She obviously hasn't heard any of the jokes:

You're trapped in a lift with a dozen people. How do you identify the RAF officer? Don't worry, he'll tell you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Classy and cleethorpes does not belong in same sentence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm lost as to what someones career has to do with anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, you asked for advice on your profile.

Arrogant, self centred, completely up your own backside and the poor guys you've already met are labelled as " not so nice"

You may look fantastic but we wouldn't meet you in a month of Sundays.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

pmsl I did ask didnt I?

I wished it had been constructive advice and much more helpful though but I should have perhaps known better than to ask.

Ah well, live and learn!!

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By *aveyf1Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

To many me! me! me ! Your not that special!

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I hate to point this out but you have rather set yourself up for the reaction you have received.

I suspect Fab may not be the right place for you to attract the type you seek

Your lack of ability to accomodate and travel will take you off a lot of gentlemens lists, despite your high opinion of yourself the world is not waiting for you...

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Well, you asked for advice on your profile.

Arrogant, self centred, completely up your own backside and the poor guys you've already met are labelled as " not so nice"

You may look fantastic but we wouldn't meet you in a month of Sundays. "

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Is a "trophy" when they cut of your feet and keep them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not try the clubs then you get to see any potential play partners face to face.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok then tell me what I should write on my profile not just point out what I have wrong on it?

It was a genuine inquiry you know but it seem I've brought out all the negatives rather than any positives

Ive already deleted the part about the officers, now what?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Ok then tell me what I should write on my profile not just point out what I have wrong on it?

It was a genuine inquiry you know but it seem I've brought out all the negatives rather than any positives

Ive already deleted the part about the officers, now what?"

Definetly take out the trophy bit it just makes you sound daft

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Leave it exactly how it is. You'll get the men who think they are the cream of Fab and the rest of us will get the fun friendly guys who don't think of women as things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok then tell me what I should write on my profile not just point out what I have wrong on it?

It was a genuine inquiry you know but it seem I've brought out all the negatives rather than any positives

Ive already deleted the part about the officers, now what?

Definetly take out the trophy bit it just makes you sound daft"

Thank you, I shall

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

As has been said you come across as arrogant, if that's how you are then fine..

If it isn't then show a little more of your softer side. You can be the most beautiful woman in the plant but as the forum keeps showing, there is, for some people, more to attraction than just looks...

Lots of not so skinny women on here (myself as one) meet some super, well educated, professional gents using this site

Perhaps change how you seek for these guys...they are rare but they are there...and boy it is worth it when you find one, or two.lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm actually not arrogant in real life and I'm sorry my profile is perceived that way, it was never my intention. So how?

I perhaps need to be more active rather than reactive as I have so far been.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I'm actually not arrogant in real life and I'm sorry my profile is perceived that way, it was never my intention. So how?

I perhaps need to be more active rather than reactive as I have so far been. "

Is what someone does for a living that important to you? This is after all an adult site...Is good intelligent conversation more important than how many degrees he has?

Other than the label he carries, what is important? I am with you on the tall, I specify that in my profile but I still get short guys messaging me..so yes that might be a deal breaker, but what else.....

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Your profile does make it sound like you think you are the best thing since sliced bread. However, what's wrong with that? If you are, then you are! Nothing wrong with a big of profile arrogance in our opinion, but you will of course put people off. But if that's you, far better to be honest about it!

The only real improvement would be to sound a bit more friendly, possibly...but doubt if will make any difference. Dare say that it's the selection process that is causing you to meet the wrong sort of guys for you, rather than the applicants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think being selective and specific (whatever the criteria) is a good thing rather than bad. People are turned on by different things and if success and achievement is one of those things than why not. It reduces the volume of those you might meet but again that to me is a good thing. We go to clubs so we can actually speak to people. For us, if they're beautiful but aren't interesting in the slightest then there's no attraction I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see it as necessary to copy and paste a verification that someone can read by going to your verifications, it just looks like over self promotion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are so sure of yourself! Why have you not got public pictures to look at,?

If you were near me I'm sorry but I'd give you a miss as I'd think you were demanding, and hard work and very needy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am well educated and think that talking to a person prior to, and after sex is important so his job just tends to reflect if the guy is educated too. I have to actually like the guy as a person and hopefully have things in common besides the love of sex.

I like to be treated as a lady as thats how I was brought up, so respect is important. Im from the old school which means I dont walk into a pub on my own, silly I know but that's me I still blush when complimented

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't see it as necessary to copy and paste a verification that someone can read by going to your verifications, it just looks like over self promotion "

I pasted those as they were from my last profile that I had to get rid of as I had a very nasty stalker. The police had to deal with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't fit your criteria so I wouldn't message you in the first instance but your profile wouldn't make me want to even if I did. It reads to much like your looking for the perfect man, which as we all know just doesn't exist.

Might I venture to suggest you look elsewhere than on a swinging site, you're seeking one in a million and your audience is the million as opposed to the one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a swinging site isn't really for you Honey, sounds more like your looking for dating, or maybe your unsure of what you want. I've been brought up with morals and to respect myself but I can walk into a party or pub on my own, think that's more to do with confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am well educated and think that talking to a person prior to, and after sex is important so his job just tends to reflect if the guy is educated too. I have to actually like the guy as a person and hopefully have things in common besides the love of sex.

I like to be treated as a lady as thats how I was brought up, so respect is important. Im from the old school which means I dont walk into a pub on my own, silly I know but that's me I still blush when complimented "

so a policeman? how do you know if he joined after uni? joined the forces at 16 or after uni?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am well educated and think that talking to a person prior to, and after sex is important so his job just tends to reflect if the guy is educated too. I have to actually like the guy as a person and hopefully have things in common besides the love of sex.

I like to be treated as a lady as thats how I was brought up, so respect is important. Im from the old school which means I dont walk into a pub on my own, silly I know but that's me I still blush when complimented "

Not sure if a certain job means a person is well educated a lot of non university people can be very good company and hold down good jobs. Missed the officer bit but from my experience (22 years other ranks) most where upper class plums who should leave well alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so his job just tends to reflect if the guy is educated too"

For a well educated lady, it surprises me that you would make that statement, let alone believe it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe a swinging site isn't really for you Honey, sounds more like your looking for dating, or maybe your unsure of what you want. I've been brought up with morals and to respect myself but I can walk into a party or pub on my own, think that's more to do with confidence "

I am absolutely not looking for dating I am looking for great NSA sex like everyone else is on here And a small group of guys to fill my sexual needs BUT I know Im picky and wont fuck just anyone as most women wont, I just needed a little help in finding the type of guys Im looking for.

For me its more about who he is rather than looks, apart from his height which is a must as Im quite tall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mom brought me up with these words

Be a lady on the street

A chef in the kitchen

A cleaner in the home

And a whore in the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In your profile you state what you prefer and what you find attractive.

You do not, however state what you seek.

I would say that that omission is what is leading others to think that you may be looking for something other than a swinging experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mom brought me up with these words

Be a lady on the street

A chef in the kitchen

A cleaner in the home

And a whore in the bedroom "

so did mine...shame for me though...she always wanted a girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mom brought me up with these words

Be a lady on the street

A chef in the kitchen

A cleaner in the home

And a whore in the bedroom "

Lol I like your mums way of thinking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In your profile you state what you prefer and what you find attractive.

You do not, however state what you seek.

I would say that that omission is what is leading others to think that you may be looking for something other than a swinging experience."

Oh, I never thought of that! Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Not sure if a certain job means a person is well educated a lot of non university people can be very good company and hold down good jobs. Missed the officer bit but from my experience (22 years other ranks) most where upper class plums who should leave well alone "

"Upper class plums"? I'd be interested to know if I'd put in most other ranks I knew were Working class shits how you'd react? Plenty of officers are state school educated, only change these days is they are almost all Uni educated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not sure if a certain job means a person is well educated a lot of non university people can be very good company and hold down good jobs. Missed the officer bit but from my experience (22 years other ranks) most where upper class plums who should leave well alone

"Upper class plums"? I'd be interested to know if I'd put in most other ranks I knew were Working class shits how you'd react? Plenty of officers are state school educated, only change these days is they are almost all Uni educated. "

Sorry I said in my experience which means in the experience I have of them that is what they are. I'm not saying i'v heard it or my mate told me I'm saying in my experience. So if your experience is that most other ranks you've met are working class shits say it but don't just put it because i'v upset your officer (or ex officer feelings)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One other thing I noticed, you don't travel or accommodate. Ask yourself if you we're contacted by a guy that had the same on his profile, would you even bother replying or pursuing anything with said chap?

It's possibly putting a lot off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not sure if a certain job means a person is well educated a lot of non university people can be very good company and hold down good jobs. Missed the officer bit but from my experience (22 years other ranks) most where upper class plums who should leave well alone

"Upper class plums"? I'd be interested to know if I'd put in most other ranks I knew were Working class shits how you'd react? Plenty of officers are state school educated, only change these days is they are almost all Uni educated.

Sorry I said in my experience which means in the experience I have of them that is what they are. I'm not saying i'v heard it or my mate told me I'm saying in my experience. So if your experience is that most other ranks you've met are working class shits say it but don't just put it because i'v upset your officer (or ex officer feelings) "

Most were good blokes, worked hard and didn't have a chip on their shoulders others were twats. A bit like society really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not sure if a certain job means a person is well educated a lot of non university people can be very good company and hold down good jobs. Missed the officer bit but from my experience (22 years other ranks) most where upper class plums who should leave well alone

"Upper class plums"? I'd be interested to know if I'd put in most other ranks I knew were Working class shits how you'd react? Plenty of officers are state school educated, only change these days is they are almost all Uni educated.

Sorry I said in my experience which means in the experience I have of them that is what they are. I'm not saying i'v heard it or my mate told me I'm saying in my experience. So if your experience is that most other ranks you've met are working class shits say it but don't just put it because i'v upset your officer (or ex officer feelings)

Most were good blokes, worked hard and didn't have a chip on their shoulders others were twats. A bit like society really. "

And I did meet some very good officers who knew what they where doing and trust me i'v no chip maybe just met the wrong ones that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can i ask....what's a trophy meet?

She wears antlers and looks good set against oak panelled walls "

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

If your more interested in what job he does it makes me wonder what your reasons are. It sounds like he needs to have a important job for you to be attracted to him. If its just sex and swinging then what does his job got to do with it.

You also state your quite tall but think in your profile it states you 5 7. My female friend is 6 foot bare footed. Sorry but your height I would describe as average. Quite tall for a lady is 5 11 plus in my book bare footed. I am about 5. 6 ish and certainly not tall for a lady.

In all honesty with viewing your profile a few mins ago I would say that his job is irrelevant to how good the chemistry is. Also your going to get the average bin man messaging you saying they are lawyers to impress you.

Sorry hunny but it all seems the wrong way inmy opinion.

Good luck tho in your search.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would you know what type of job he had? Would he have to show some indetification and salary?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is we all have our own very specific criteria for choosing someone. Thin, fat, younger, older etc. I'd be interested to know how many people would be less likely to meet someone who came from a very well off background because they were obviously a "posh twat" or someone who went to Eton because they don't know what it's like in the "real world".

She's made a choice in the types of

People she's interested in, unless you really would shag anyone,then you too have made choices.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

A persons job is irrelevant to me regarding a meet.

If I was looking to date a man then maybe I would prefer a man with a decent job. But for swinging purposes.....it makes no difference to me x

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I personally find the men I want to meet. Initially I did not do this, to my detriment

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

My two pence worth, and pretty much reflects what others have said,,

Some profiles can make the person appear arrogant, its difficult to capture yourself in text,,

at the moment your profile reads as a list of demands,, I had read your profile before and the only thing it appeared to offer was a 'trophy'

Introduce yourself, just the basic stuff, name age area youre from blond blie eyee etc,,

What youre looking for, , intelligence humour height etc,, be specific by all means might stop some out of your criteria messaging,,

What you bring to the meet,, intelligence, humour, you know yourself better than anyone,,your chance to sell yourself,,

What type of things you like to do,,, paint a picture, use this to give a flavour of what the gent might have to look forward to,,

Confidence is different to arrogance,,

Intelligence is different to educated,,

If all else fails read the advice threads for the single guys, its the same general rules for everyone,,

breast of luck

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


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breast of luck "

Predictive text or wishful thinking??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing is we all have our own very specific criteria for choosing someone. Thin, fat, younger, older etc. I'd be interested to know how many people would be less likely to meet someone who came from a very well off background because they were obviously a "posh twat" or someone who went to Eton because they don't know what it's like in the "real world".

She's made a choice in the types of

People she's interested in, unless you really would shag anyone,then you too have made choices."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you might be better on a "proper" dating site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got onto this a little late so will try to avoid repeating others...

I think considering you ask for face pics, accomodation or travel, yet ask for all three of others is a little arrogant, and perhaps as a professional I just think its odd you do that on your profile but seek the opposite.

The verifications copied and pasted is pointless when you have 5 on your profile anyway. You might attract guys more like your profile, than your specified type. I personally wouldn't message you.

Please don't take any of what I have said as anything but feedback, and good luck

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


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breast of luck

Predictive text or wishful thinking?? "

Always wishing for things,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I perhaps need to be more active rather than reactive as I have so far been. "

Why not just block all singlemen from contacting you and browse and contact those that interest you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand the point of the line about 'walking with authority/owns the world', and like others have said the job side of things would be irrelevant to me. I'd rather meet a shop assistant with a personality that a brown noser who was at the top of the career ladder (not that everyone who is successful is a brown noser!). Also, what about someone who has been made redundant from a fantastic career...do they need a job offer before they can apply? Would a self employed mechanic turning a good profit fit what you're after or are you wanting someone suited and booted...bit vague for something that seems important to you.

Cannot accom or travel is confusing...how do you meet? When you say you want a guy to have the means to accom are you implying he should pay for a hotel room as that's how that reads to me. To me that cost would be split equally....especially if he is having to travel to you too or if you refuse to go to his house. I can understand if you prefer hotels for safety, but then to me you should contribute...or is that the reason for needing a well paid job?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right Ive changed it. Hopefully for the better after taking on board the more constructive comments

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Charlotte.....a direct question.

Do you think your height is classed as tall?

I would honestly class your height as average x

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Apologies for another question.

You have no visible pics for general viewing other than your avatar.

I suggest you think about having some pics for everyone viewing you to see.

They need to make an informed choice too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fruit an average height for a woman in England is 5.5 and Im taller plus I wear minimum 3 inch heels that takes me up to 5.10. I prefer tall men so I can kiss them not bend don to kiss them.

I prefer to keep face pics private and dont have any other pics apart from 2 face pics on here. If a guy messages me and he fits my criteria and asks I usually send them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks ok now you state you want nsa with someone who has a sense of humour etc,it also looks a lot less hostile as well.

Just a shame i'm out of your age range

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I still wouldnt class a lady of your height bare footed as tall. As I said previously my friend is 6foot bare footed and when people meet her they comment on how tall she is.

Maybe our opinions on height in ladies are different.

Pics visible......I wonder if you would discard a male profile only with an avatar and no visible pics. I generally do as you need to help yourself. If a man has no general pictures then I tend to not be interested. Interesting that as yours is a single female you dont feel it important to get the right men attracted to you they need to be attracted to all of your profile. Just my opinion of course x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looks ok now you state you want nsa with someone who has a sense of humour etc,it also looks a lot less hostile as well.

Just a shame i'm out of your age range "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think we will have to agree to disagree about the face pics.

I dont have any sexy body pics as I prefer any man I meet to find out for himself how I look unclothes or partially clothed

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"I think we will have to agree to disagree about the face pics.

I dont have any sexy body pics as I prefer any man I meet to find out for himself how I look unclothes or partially clothed"

I have all my face pics in private. Apologies if you thought I meant suggestingbyou have face pics visible. I was referring to body pics hinting more to come x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am well educated and think that talking to a person prior to, and after sex is important so his job just tends to reflect if the guy is educated too. I have to actually like the guy as a person and hopefully have things in common besides the love of sex.

I like to be treated as a lady as thats how I was brought up, so respect is important. Im from the old school which means I dont walk into a pub on my own, silly I know but that's me I still blush when complimented "

You can re write that for your profile for starters - you have just said what you want right there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fruit an average height for a woman in England is 5.5 and Im taller plus I wear minimum 3 inch heels that takes me up to 5.10. I prefer tall men so I can kiss them not bend don to kiss them.

I prefer to keep face pics private and dont have any other pics apart from 2 face pics on here. If a guy messages me and he fits my criteria and asks I usually send them"

this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe a swinging site isn't really for you Honey, sounds more like your looking for dating, or maybe your unsure of what you want. I've been brought up with morals and to respect myself but I can walk into a party or pub on my own, think that's more to do with confidence

I am absolutely not looking for dating I am looking for great NSA sex like everyone else is on here And a small group of guys to fill my sexual needs BUT I know Im picky and wont fuck just anyone as most women wont, I just needed a little help in finding the type of guys Im looking for.

For me its more about who he is rather than looks, apart from his height which is a must as Im quite tall."

and this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you so very much xx

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I'd echo the height thing - I don't think you are particularly tall. It reads a little friendlier now than it did before - I looked but had to leave before I could comment.

I'd agree with a few more pics - not even anything naughty just a few good body shots.

Bit unsure why you state bisexual when there is no hint of looking for or wanting a lady?

I'd be wary of someone who would neither accom or travel, but good luck

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset

Came to this late, viewed profile and thought - not much wrong with this, quite a good effort - had not realised the changes made - you're getting there.

Good Luck.

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick with...

Introduction to yourself

Your interests

What and who you are looking for

and most important - BE POSITIVE

Keep negativity and anger towards those that dont read profile off your profile and just hit the block.. Thats the main thing that puts us off people!

But your profile reads much better now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're on a site dominated by horny single men of course you're going to get types that don't match what you want. Either just go get a bit of rough or just slap up a block on males whilst you search.for the ones you like the sound off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stick with...

Introduction to yourself

Your interests

What and who you are looking for

and most important - BE POSITIVE

Keep negativity and anger towards those that dont read profile off your profile and just hit the block.. Thats the main thing that puts us off people!

But your profile reads much better now."

Thank you so much for your help, its what I was asking for all along and youve really helped xx Ive tweaked it a little more too

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Stick with...

Introduction to yourself

Your interests

What and who you are looking for

and most important - BE POSITIVE

Keep negativity and anger towards those that dont read profile off your profile and just hit the block.. Thats the main thing that puts us off people!

But your profile reads much better now.

Thank you so much for your help, its what I was asking for all along and youve really helped xx Ive tweaked it a little more too"

Charlotte, that is so much better!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

Now to go searching for the men I like!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to agree it is much better than your previous one. And fairplay for taking the criticism and feedback on board when so many don't and some of it cannot have been easy reading

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im an ex nurse, (so yes caring and kind too) lol trust me I've heard worse

I ignored the nasty messages and concentrated on the helpful ones and between us all I now have a much better profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your written profile seems good to me. It states clearly the type of person you are looking for without being demanding or rude. The only thing i can see potentially holding you back is a lack of pictures.

I appreciate it if you prefer to send pics rather than have them on public display, but if you are expecting others to make the first move this could be an issue. There are some who will message you regardless, but these may not be the type of people you want to attract. As others have suggested, it might be better for you to be more proactive and message those profiles that interest you.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok then tell me what I should write on my profile not just point out what I have wrong on it?

It was a genuine inquiry you know but it seem I've brought out all the negatives rather than any positives

Ive already deleted the part about the officers, now what?"
im surprised at the response...your sense of entitelementvis not half as acute as some of the women on here...green eyed monster rearing uglyheads

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I ve read three variations of your profile, the secind still felt cold to me, the third one is chalk and cheese from the first,

Its one that gives all the information you d require, as is mentioned on numerous threads,, you ve just got to get the guys to read it now,, Que music for mission impossible

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

The thicko s you keep getting can't read all that posh stuff. It's quite clear what you want . Just have to out the chancers x good luck x

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"pmsl I did ask didnt I?

I wished it had been constructive advice and much more helpful though but I should have perhaps known better than to ask.

Ah well, live and learn!! "

And, there you have it!

Arrogance is not an attractive trait, and you have bucket-loads of it!

You ask for advice, and then throw your toys out the pram when it's given?

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By *aybecoupleCouple
over a year ago

handlope

"There is only a couple of face pics on here as I prefer a man to undress me and enjoy seeing my body for the first time, I think its more erotic and exciting. Adds a little mystery."

Not the best grammar for one who likes to promote the well educated angle. But that's just being pedantic, I know. The fact that you have no photos would prevent me from bothering to look further though, as your words are not sufficient enough to arouse my interest. Shame, because I and we fit your requirement in so many ways Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"pmsl I did ask didnt I?

I wished it had been constructive advice and much more helpful though but I should have perhaps known better than to ask.

Ah well, live and learn!!

And, there you have it!

Arrogance is not an attractive trait, and you have bucket-loads of it!

You ask for advice, and then throw your toys out the pram when it's given?

"

Except of course she did follow the constructive advice given. The abusive bollocks like this was quite rightly ignored.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Your profile reads better now.

My opinion on height still stands and body shots of course.

You have been on site for under a year now and hopefully you will enjoy the men you meet. Please remember thought that alot of men will discard your profile with a lack of pictures to tempt their tastebuds. Men do like to brouse the menu first and plan how to devour it.

We are always saying to single guys help yourself by getting some tempting pics up. I think for single ladies its just as important. You know and I do how many messages we grt with offers of meets. Its always good to get the offers from the men we like too.

I hope you find the men your looking for but remember you will still get men not reading your profile and lying about their job and also actually be married. Good luck in your search and have fun x

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

...abusive bollocks......there hasnt been any in this thread.

The lady asked a question and asked for advice. She got it. People will always have different opinions on her profile and attitude.

As long as she feels her profile now works then all is fine.

But saying the word abusive is rather rubbish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...abusive bollocks......there hasnt been any in this thread.

The lady asked a question and asked for advice. She got it. People will always have different opinions on her profile and attitude.

As long as she feels her profile now works then all is fine.

But saying the word abusive is rather rubbish. "

I think calling people names such as arrogant is abisive and not constructive in the slightest. Some people did it constructively and some didn't. She paid attention to those that were constructive and changed her profile rather than "throwing her toys out of the pram"

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Saying someone finds somebody else arrogant is not abusive.

If someone called the lady an arrogant bitch or something like that then yes your right its abusive.

Toys out of the pram is a phrase often used and is not abusive at all.

The lady hasnt been called a rude name in any form. She has listen to opinions and advice given in different forms. None have been abusive x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saying someone finds somebody else arrogant is not abusive.

If someone called the lady an arrogant bitch or something like that then yes your right its abusive.

Toys out of the pram is a phrase often used and is not abusive at all.

The lady hasnt been called a rude name in any form. She has listen to opinions and advice given in different forms. None have been abusive x"

I think perhaps we differ on the word abisive that's all. I feel that calling someone arrogant when asking for an opinion is. It's not the same as some who've said your profile comes across as arrogant which is constructive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abusive!! Bloody hell my predictive text is changing abusive to abisive for some reason!! Anyhoo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im looking for a small group of better class guys and so far seem only to attract, shall we say the not so nice guys, so what the heck am I doing wrong???

Please feel free to give advice on my profile "

Wasn't able to message you.. so perhaps you may be interested in using this edited profile wording.. feel free to edit as you wish.

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Hi, thanks for visiting my profile, but please do read it before you contact me, as I’m not one for being messed about! I like to be treated as a lady as that's how I was brought up, so respect is important. I'm from the old school which means I don't walk into a pub on my own, silly I know but that's me and I still blush when complimented.

I am an attractive slim blonde (size 10). I’m well groomed, articulate and like to keep fit. Unfortunately I don’t like to travel far, so only prepared to meet local-ish gentlemen. I also cannot and will not accommodate as I don’t want to bring men home with me, due to having a child at home, therefore you should have the means to do so.

I am well educated and think that talking to a person prior to, and after sex is important so a guys job tends to reflect if the guy is educated too. I have to actually like the guy as a person and hopefully have things in common besides the love of sex.

I am absolutely not looking for dating, but I’m looking for great NSA sex. I would like to find a few gentlemen who I cant meet on a regular basis to fulfil my sexual needs. I like to practise safe sex, so intercourse with a condom is required by you.

I’m picky and wont just meet and have sex with just anyone. For me its more about who a guy is rather than looks, apart from his height which is a must as I’m quite tall, so you should ideally be 6ft or taller, as I’m quite tall myself especially in heels.

I have a high libido and am very adventurous sexually with the right man, I love giving oral and can be quite dominant at times. Erotic play and teasing is such a lot of fun and sets the scene! Kissing is a major turn on for me, so kissing is a must. I dare you to engage my imagination as role playing is a great turn on for me and should be for you too.

There are only a couple of face pics on here as I prefer a man to undress me and enjoy seeing my body for the first time, I think its more erotic and exciting. Adds a little mystery.

Please send a face pic with your initial message and I will return one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am well educated and think that talking to a person prior to, and after sex is important so a guys job tends to reflect if the guy is educated too. I have to actually like the guy as a person and hopefully have things in common besides the love of sex.

On your profile you have wrote this, have you thought about wording it differnet?

Myself personally would of wrote.

I would like to meet a man who stimulates my mind as well as my body, I would like to have a mental aswell as physical connection.

Not looking for one off meets and I like to take things at my pace, where I feel comfortable.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"pmsl I did ask didnt I?

I wished it had been constructive advice and much more helpful though but I should have perhaps known better than to ask.

Ah well, live and learn!!

And, there you have it!

Arrogance is not an attractive trait, and you have bucket-loads of it!

You ask for advice, and then throw your toys out the pram when it's given?

"

So, do you think her comment, which I then commented on, wasn't arrogant?

She asked for advice, many gave it, she changed her profile and yet still basically thumbed her nose at those trying to help, just because some gave an honest opinion of how they perceived her?

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford


"Can i ask....what's a trophy meet?

She wears antlers and looks good set against oak panelled walls "

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By *aveandSue1Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Basically you're saying that you're " posh totty" and want to attract guys from the top of the range.

Instead of trying to attract why not be pro-active and you approach them ?

Ever heard of the expression "opposites attract" ????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you Torijames I shall continue to ignore negative comments while taking on board the more constructive ones

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

MissBlonde I thank you once again for your help and shall use the profile you suggested

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Basically you're saying that you're " posh totty" and want to attract guys from the top of the range.

Instead of trying to attract why not be pro-active and you approach them ?

Ever heard of the expression "opposites attract" ????"

I'm trying to find the people I prefer but sometimes its rather like trying to wade through treacle finding them.

I'm sorry but in this case opposites wont attract, I know myself too well to try that and even for a social meet I would be wasting the guys time as well as my own and that isnt fair on either of us is it?

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Basically you're saying that you're " posh totty" and want to attract guys from the top of the range.

Instead of trying to attract why not be pro-active and you approach them ?

Ever heard of the expression "opposites attract" ????

I'm trying to find the people I prefer but sometimes its rather like trying to wade through treacle finding them.

I'm sorry but in this case opposites wont attract, I know myself too well to try that and even for a social meet I would be wasting the guys time as well as my own and that isnt fair on either of us is it?"

so the guys you have met aren't your type??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would you know what type of job he had? Would he have to show some indetification and salary? "

I insist on a P60 emailed to me before I even chat to them, am I doing it wrong then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Leave it exactly how it is. You'll get the men who think they are the cream of Fab and the rest of us will get the fun friendly guys who don't think of women as things."

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"How would you know what type of job he had? Would he have to show some indetification and salary?

I insist on a P60 emailed to me before I even chat to them, am I doing it wrong then? "

I didn't think of a P60! Doh I have just been asking for a dna sample...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am well educated and think that talking to a person prior to, and after sex is important so a guys job tends to reflect if the guy is educated too. I have to actually like the guy as a person and hopefully have things in common besides the love of sex.

On your profile you have wrote this, have you thought about wording it differnet?

Myself personally would of wrote.

I would like to meet a man who stimulates my mind as well as my body, I would like to have a mental aswell as physical connection.

Not looking for one off meets and I like to take things at my pace, where I feel comfortable. "
I was sent to a private school for the latter part of my teens, so was well educated, am doing a job that has nothing to do with what I am qualified for. I will speak to anyone as long as they are relatively polite and a nice person. The meets ive had have been with different guys with different jobs, but all nice guys. Good conversation and ability to get on with each other is foremost for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im looking for a small group of better class guys and so far seem only to attract, shall we say the not so nice guys, so what the heck am I doing wrong???

Please feel free to give advice on my profile "

Lower your age bracket

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed some posts. Please keep it civil folks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Basically you're saying that you're " posh totty" and want to attract guys from the top of the range.

Instead of trying to attract why not be pro-active and you approach them ?

Ever heard of the expression "opposites attract" ????

I'm trying to find the people I prefer but sometimes its rather like trying to wade through treacle finding them.

I'm sorry but in this case opposites wont attract, I know myself too well to try that and even for a social meet I would be wasting the guys time as well as my own and that isnt fair on either of us is it?

so the guys you have met aren't your type??"

They have been my type which is why I met them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive removed some posts. Please keep it civil folks "

Oh goodness! What has happened? Or shouldn't I ask?

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By *gw1070Man
over a year ago

stourbridge

What someone actually does for a living bears no real relevance as it doesn't define them as a person . My plumber in particular was privately educated and has 2 degrees yet he chose to train as a plumber. On the basis of his job he wouldn't fulfill your criteria .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No perhaps not but we all have preferences

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By *gw1070Man
over a year ago

stourbridge

On another note my best friend would regularly get the cold shoulder from girls when asked what he did for a living. He told them he was unemployed. What he omitted to say was he didn't need to work as his family have featured in the top 150 in the Sunday times rich list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No perhaps not but we all have preferences "
We all do have preferences and yes try to stick to them, but what if the guy sends a really good message, just has a ordinary job, keeps in touch before your arranged meet (hypothetically), you chat on cam and he may not be fantastic looking but is just basically a good guy? Well, maybe im too easily pleased (btw im not) am a little choosy too but well I would go meet him, have a coffee see what happens. I can usually tell from messaging and cam whether they are my type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No perhaps not but we all have preferences We all do have preferences and yes try to stick to them, but what if the guy sends a really good message, just has a ordinary job, keeps in touch before your arranged meet (hypothetically), you chat on cam and he may not be fantastic looking but is just basically a good guy? Well, maybe im too easily pleased (btw im not) am a little choosy too but well I would go meet him, have a coffee see what happens. I can usually tell from messaging and cam whether they are my type."

To be honest, there's lots of people on here I'd have a coffee with buy far fewer that I'd have sex with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No perhaps not but we all have preferences We all do have preferences and yes try to stick to them, but what if the guy sends a really good message, just has a ordinary job, keeps in touch before your arranged meet (hypothetically), you chat on cam and he may not be fantastic looking but is just basically a good guy? Well, maybe im too easily pleased (btw im not) am a little choosy too but well I would go meet him, have a coffee see what happens. I can usually tell from messaging and cam whether they are my type.

To be honest, there's lots of people on here I'd have a coffee with buy far fewer that I'd have sex with. "

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No perhaps not but we all have preferences We all do have preferences and yes try to stick to them, but what if the guy sends a really good message, just has a ordinary job, keeps in touch before your arranged meet (hypothetically), you chat on cam and he may not be fantastic looking but is just basically a good guy? Well, maybe im too easily pleased (btw im not) am a little choosy too but well I would go meet him, have a coffee see what happens. I can usually tell from messaging and cam whether they are my type.

To be honest, there's lots of people on here I'd have a coffee with buy far fewer that I'd have sex with.

Exactly! "
yes im not disagreeing with you on that but there was a question in my message but was just trying to help. Im just a ordinary 5'7 redhead (fake) fattie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think its about who the guys is and yes if he is a nice guy who chats well, apart from height his looks don't generally bother me, so yes I may/would agree to meet for a coffee

There is nothing 'ordinary' about a 5.7 voluptuous red head x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Late as usual posting here so I've missed the officers and trophy bit....I like your profile, Charlotte.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Came into this thread really late but after reading the profile I can't see what the problem is.

It's better to be specific about what you want and who you want to meet rather than pretend to go with the flow amd waste people's time.

Fair play we wouldn't look into the other person's job as an indicator of intelligence as that is not always an accurate representation of a person's ability to hold down a conversation but if that works for the OP then all good

Silk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didnt actually write the new profile, MissBlonde kindly helped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well in that case, kudos to MissBlonde

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Most certainly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its about who the guys is and yes if he is a nice guy who chats well, apart from height his looks don't generally bother me, so yes I may/would agree to meet for a coffee

There is nothing 'ordinary' about a 5.7 voluptuous red head x"
Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done OP for listening to the advise

Profile looks great now and I hope you find lots of fun on here, good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Because any woman who chooses to be a red head is a fiery woman Extra ordinary!

More ordinary to be blonde as I am

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well done OP for listening to the advise

Profile looks great now and I hope you find lots of fun on here, good luck "

Thank you x

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