FabSwingers.com forum: Profile advice

By *dodders OP Man
14 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Hi, I think I could do with some advice with my profile. I haven't had any luck despite practically messaging everyone in easy driving distance. Is it my profile or am I just not *it*?

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By *iker JackMan
14 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Your profile is confusing

Well the three lines are confusing. You say you are straight but you give “decent head” which would imply that you give blow jobs and that’s not being straight.

You cannot accommodate and without an explanation why people may make the assume you’re cheating.

You say you have messaged literally everyone within driving distance. Well how far is that?

I find quality over the amount of quantity of messages you send works better

Simply a confusing profile

Interact in the lounge forum threads if you’re comfortable to and people will view your profile.

I had 51 views yesterday, then it’s down to how well your profile is written

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By *rrolloutMan
14 weeks ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

"Hi, I think I could do with some advice with my profile. I haven't had any luck despite practically messaging everyone in easy driving distance. Is it my profile or am I just not *it*?"

Saying in your profile you haven't had much luck isn't really selling yourself to women who are inundated with emails every day.

Your profile pic is also more than a little uninspiring. Can you show yourself smiling or looking generally more positive and friendly instead of looking morbidly into a webcam?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Central

Assessing your own profile, how well do you truly think it sells you? A quarter to a third of it talks of poor luck. Hardly the tool to engender interest, is it? How many of the profile help tips posts have you read and used?

Ultimately your profile must reflect youz not what others think is right, as it wouldn't make it your profile

Sell what you have to give.

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By *dodders OP Man
14 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Thanks for the advice, I have attempted some changes to my profile

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By *midnight-Woman
14 weeks ago

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Hmmmm in 10 years you've only managed to take one photo

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By *dodders OP Man
14 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"Hmmmm in 10 years you've only managed to take one photo

I delete the older ones. They are similar but get out of date. I do have another photo on here, but that's for people who specifically ask for such a photo

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By *iker JackMan
14 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Your current accommodation isn’t accommodating for meetings

What does that mean

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By *dodders OP Man
14 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"Your current accommodation isn’t accommodating for meetings

What does that mean "

It not somewhere I can take people back to

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By *uenevereWoman
14 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

OP, I'm afraid that your profile isn't very good at all.

Only one uninspiring photograph and the text tells me nothing of any use. I have no idea what you can offer or what you are looking for, apart from the obvious.

You need to sell yourself, go to socials and clubs too.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

“Reasonably good” doesn’t really sell yourself

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By *dodders OP Man
14 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"OP, I'm afraid that your profile isn't very good at all.

Only one uninspiring photograph and the text tells me nothing of any use. I have no idea what you can offer or what you are looking for, apart from the obvious.

You need to sell yourself, go to socials and clubs too."

I don't know what I can sell myself on though. I have been to a club twice recently

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

If your cocks big, use that.. if not, then you're not it as you say.. get in the gym and make some changes

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By *dodders OP Man
14 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"If your cocks big, use that.. if not, then you're not it as you say.. get in the gym and make some changes "

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By *ucka39Man
14 weeks ago

Newcastle

Hiya op

Let your profile shine in your photos have a good selection of them which shows your personality and similar within the bio, be creative, let your imagination wonder

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By *allySlinkyWoman
14 weeks ago

Leeds

"I have been to a club twice recently"

Next time you go to club maybe ask a member of staff or someone you have chatted with to verify you.

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