FabSwingers.com forum: Getting a bit fed up with this site

By *arriorMonk60 OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Getting a bit miffed with the site 180 messages sent not one reply,sometime ago had 2cpls a nd 1 lady reply they said very interested,let's meet socially I agreed then nothing more .

A profile is listed and some pics,I a emit not brill but they are and shoulder shots.

Can any females give some advice .

Thanks

James

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet people socially at socials and clubs (if you can afford to go to clubs).

Most people prefer getting to know people in person, not over the internet and gauge a person that way.

Whilst we "try" to meet people from the site, getting to know them over messaging - it's far better to do it in person at clubs etc.

TBH we dont need the site to meet people (although we do try to keep a active profile), perhaps just stay in contact with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That first pic is terrible, you look like you're in your 70's. Makes me not trust your age 54? are you sure?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Dont blame the site...

Blame the individuals.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Can any females give some advice .

Why only females ?

I never get that approach at all.

You may find that if you open your mind to ideas that it is those you DON'T wish to attract that can sometimes offer you the better advice.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I simply dont like cock pics....Think its safe to assume you have one, so dont need a pic of it....

And you hardly crack a smile in any of your face pics.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That first pic is terrible, you look like you're in your 70's. Makes me not trust your age 54? are you sure?

gotta agree with this. I'm nearly 50 and you look like my dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, if you sent all those messages you are owed a meet, right? Why not just pick a few profiles that really interest you and send good messages. If i had sent that many messages, i doubt much thought would have gone into most of them.

You're not going to be for everyone, and sending lots of messages doesnt guarantee finding someone who will like you. And as others have pointed out, if i saw your profile i would assume you were lying about your age. I hope you arent offended by this but you do look very old for your age, and this may be what is putting people off meeting

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh

so leave, more for the rest of us

but seriously you get back what you put in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the pic comments. Some of them make you look really old. You would be much better off with a select couple of pictures which actually flatter you.. Forget cock pics and legs in strange positions.. not attractive. Also the suit pic and then the exact same but with sunglasses on made me actually laugh!

Socials are the way forward for many single men for sure. I've met people at socials who I click with, but have previously ignored messages from.

Change your pics and go to socials. Simple. Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That first pic is terrible, you look like you're in your 70's. Makes me not trust your age 54? are you sure?

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as I've always told people, your age won't put me off but lying about it will!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

OP if youre getting a bit miffed with the site then its maybe time to take a break.

You can always hide your profile and then come back to it when you're feeling a bit less miffed and youve worked out what is the best thing for you

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