FabSwingers.com forum: Newbies struggling to make connections….,

By *wanting3 OP Couple
24 weeks ago

st Austell

Hi, couple looking for genuine connections with single female, friendships and kinky fun, not having any luck, could anyone point us in the right direction regarding our profile? Also thinking about first club outing…. Where is best for newbie’s??

Thanks for any advice xx

Deb & Brett

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By *allySlinkyWoman
24 weeks ago

Leeds

"Hi, could anyone point us in the right direction regarding our profile? "

Your profile says you are looking for a lady to play with you both, yet there isn't a single picture of the man on your profile.

Also, except for your profile pic, all other photos are of the lady's bottom. Not enough variety ! Personally I am more attracted to breasts than bottoms.

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By *ornishboy88Man
24 weeks ago

Penryn

Cornwall is hard work on here! I’ve always had more luck the other side of the tamar!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
24 weeks ago

Leeds

If you want to meet single women and couples you need to show the man, it's not blind date.

I have a single woman's profile too and it drives me absolutely crazy.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Hey there, welcome to Fab, it takes a while to get going.

A social is definitely a good way to start off, no pressure, you know you are chatting and flirting with like-minded people.

Your profile has no information about the male half.

And it reads that you just want to find a woman for you both to have sex with. Which tends to put off single bi women.

"Why is unicorn hunting bad"

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By *iss DevilWoman
24 weeks ago

Bedford

OP, you have already been given loads of great advice but my bit is, get yourselves verified as soon as you can. You can achieve that by going to a club (if that's your thing) or a social. Also, it is much easier to meet people in person than just through Fab. Especially as you are looking for the most sought after category on here, bi women who are happy to play with both from a couple.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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24 weeks ago

East Sussex

We know what you want. What about the woman who you hope to meet?

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
24 weeks ago

There and Here

It's all been said already, but the lack of photos of your male half would instantly put me off and I wouldn't even bother to read your profile if you were to send a message.

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By *iss DevilWoman
24 weeks ago

Bedford

One more thing I forgot to mention- according to your profile, you can't accommodate. Are you expecting the single lady to be able to accommodate? Bear in mind it's much more risky for a single person to invite two strangers into their home. Maybe explain the possible arrangements on your profile?

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
24 weeks ago

Wherever

I’m not your target audience but seems like just another couple looking for a sex toy to fulfil their fantasy.

Not much for a said lady you’re so desperately looking for. Some great advice above to take into consideration, good luck.

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By *issmorganWoman
24 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

The lack of pics of the man will put many off op, women need to be attracted to you both, if you're both playing.

It looks like a single woman's profile going on the pics and some of the text.

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By *wanting3 OP Couple
24 weeks ago

st Austell

Thank you for the feedback, it’s very helpful and we will definitely be updating to cover the points you have added

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By *wanting3 OP Couple
24 weeks ago

st Austell

It sure is lol

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By *wanting3 OP Couple
24 weeks ago

st Austell

It sure is lol

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By *wanting3 OP Couple
24 weeks ago

st Austell

Thank you for the feedback. We will definitely update this

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By *wanting3 OP Couple
24 weeks ago

st Austell

Will add that to profile as this is a great point, I can sum up - we live with our teenage children, we wouldn’t expect anything like having the lady host us especially without knowing us well! But thanks for the feedback, I think it’s obvious we need to work on our bio and content

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By *wanting3 OP Couple
24 weeks ago

st Austell

Thank you we will be having a profile update

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By *wanting3 OP Couple
24 weeks ago

st Austell

Thank you to everyone who has taken the time to reply with help for us, it’s been very helpful and we appreciate the honest feedback, just one more question, when and where do I find social meets?

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By *ussle SproutMan
24 weeks ago

the middle

"Thank you to everyone who has taken the time to reply with help for us, it’s been very helpful and we appreciate the honest feedback, just one more question, when and where do I find social meets?

Use the reply +quote tab so we know who you are responding to.

Also check out the meets request and parties section of the forums to look for socials to attend.

All the best in your search

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By *ucianpoundCouple
24 weeks ago

Cap d’Agde, France

Good advice in this thread.

Since I (male) control our account I tend to put more photos of her than me but if we were looking for an extra female then it makes sense to be displaying the goods (and I don't mean cocks)

I'm as guilty as most on this site but in mitigation, since I take the photos, I have hundreds of sexy photos of her but theres only a few of me.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
24 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"Hi, couple looking for genuine connections with single female, friendships and kinky fun, not having any luck, could anyone point us in the right direction regarding our profile? Also thinking about first club outing…. Where is best for newbie’s??

Thanks for any advice xx

Deb & Brett

Done lose hope, there are fantastic lifestyle people in Cornwall and I’m particularly enamoured with a lovely maid in St Austell

. My advice is go to a Club Utopia night and / or the once a month Secrets night in Totnes - they’re full of sexy friendly people from all over the South West, you’ll have a blast I promise

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By *neeyedwillieMan
24 weeks ago

Darlington

Thanks for any advice xx

Deb & Brett

Go to a club OR social event. Fab is acctually the worst place to connect with single ladies imo.

So I'm on here with my wife (couples account listed in profile if you feel the urge to check what im saying) and our whole dynamic is about meeting the ladies (though we will meet couples).

I can count on one hand how many single ladies we've met through fab over the years. Not saying it can't happen but it's rare (at least in our area).

Once we started doing clubs and social events however..well...fun times have been had many many times and we've made some great freinds and connections.

The thing with single ladies on fab is...they get swamped with messages and there's always a safety aspect for many of them (which is something we've been told many times).

But you go to a club then its a safe space (or should be). You can socialise, see what happens and go from.there.

Your call (obviously) but sometimes it really is better to put down the phone / turn off the computer and do it the old fashioned way.

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By *evonnsfwCouple
24 weeks ago

Exeter

We are the other side of the Tamar but would recommend Within Temptations in Torquay. We are new to the scene as well and found it to be a welcoming and safe space.

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By *hat.coupleCouple
24 weeks ago

Dartford

I think clubs are good for newbies, we have the same dynamic as you as we prefer to only play with unicorns. It's not the easiest dynamic as unicorns are so highly in demand. We found that clubs work well for us, we have far more luck when we meet in person. There's simply too many accounts on here and for single bi ladies to chose from, they get so many messages that they just can't respond to all.

The best way to stand out is to go to clubs with events or themes aimed at couples and single ladies only. Connections are also very important, we was introduced to our first unicorn by a couple we had met in the lifestyle as friends. Recommendations are very important and say alot obout the ones that are being recommended. Embrace the lifestyle, make friends and have fun, the rest will follow naturally x

Mrs

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By *ev_1Couple
24 weeks ago

Bickliegh

Good luck OP Cornwall is quiet at the best of times for swinging fun plus the added difficulties of finding a single female makes it very hard indeed nr impossible but Hooe your dreams come true x

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