FabSwingers.com forum: First Club Visit

By *av1970 OP Man
over a year ago

Tattershall

I have bitten the bullet and decided to attend a swinging club for the first time. It has been a long term ambition of mine and think it is finally time I got it off the to do list....

Understand the etiquette, no means no, don't wander around drooling like a loon etc.....but...

Am still a little nervous and excited at the same time (always a good combo) and would appreciate any advice/hints for a first time attending single male?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just bite the bullet..... You sound to have it right etiquette wise. If still in doubt take someone else and go as a couple first time.

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By *av1970 OP Man
over a year ago

Tattershall

"Just bite the bullet..... You sound to have it right etiquette wise. If still in doubt take someone else and go as a couple first time. "

Thanks I think it is just a nerves thing now.

Should just say...booked to go in Tease II

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By *thlete0Couple
over a year ago

southend

Just treat it like a normal club except with more manners and just relax and have a drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sit in the social area and strike up a conversation with someone. Can be about anything (Grand National, something light that's happened recently) although avoid sex. Trust me your nerves will disappear, you will have a chilled and pleasant evening and you may get invited to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be respectful and polite to both in a couple and be aware that both single woman and couples have many to choose from. If you remember that and just enjoy it you will be fine. Tease II is a good venue, the cinema room is always good for a laugh, we have found in the past that the bar area us a bit too noisy ...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is like going anywhere for a first time..

socialise..have a drink and laugh...and go with flow if anything else does happen.

If u dont feel comfortable with anything then dont feel you have to do it.

u will soon see many peeps are respectful or each other at clubs..and im sure u will relax soon enough and feel at ease with people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just bite the bullet..... You sound to have it right etiquette wise. If still in doubt take someone else and go as a couple first time. "

Finding a stranger to pair up with will almost certainly not happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should just say...booked to go in Tease II"

Tease is a great club. The social area is pretty small, and whatever you do don;t justgo and sit on one of the sofa's - you will be in danger of drifting in to the background. The staff at Tease are very friendly, you'll get shown around, but most importantly it's pretty much impossible to go to the bar without them have a laugh and joke with you, so it's pretty easy from there to get talking to other people at the club.

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