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"I mainly just tell him about it afterwards haha "Does he just wave you off and carry on as normal? | |||
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"How do others keep there hubby involved when meeting guys alone. We've done lots of things but interested In hearing what others do and seeing if can spice things up. I have a regular FB who I meet and sometimes hubby is at home sometimes working away." We FaceTime when Ruth is meeting solo with her meet’s permission (it’s part of the deal in the build up). It’s a very erotic experience | |||
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"Very interested on suggestions for how others manage that contact. If a partner isn't keen is that a deal breaker for couples?" If he won’t FaceTime then yes it’s a deal breaker with us. | |||
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"Very interested on suggestions for how others manage that contact. If a partner isn't keen is that a deal breaker for couples?" Yes if either of us isn't keen it's a no, hubby usually chats to guys on here first and if they pass him they get to talk to me. | |||
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"Yes we've done that ourselves but some.guys ain't keen on videos" We do FaceTime and video. We only meet guys who we have both met previously and trust. If there’s no video or FaceTime then there is pretty much nothing for the husband so we never meet guys like that. Most guys we’ve talked to seem happy with the arrangement. | |||
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"Yes we've done that ourselves but some.guys ain't keen on videos"  I’m bringing lighting, tripod, gopro, making sure the video is awesome | |||
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"never had a solo meet but fucked guys while he watches. Hot. " That's next in our list | |||
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"Yes we've done that ourselves but some.guys ain't keen on videos I’m bringing lighting, tripod, gopro, making sure the video is awesome"Yes! Nicely done x | |||
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Does he just wave you off and carry on as normal?"We do x | |||
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"Yes we've done that ourselves but some.guys ain't keen on videos I’m bringing lighting, tripod, gopro, making sure the video is awesome"Someone who gets the whole dynamic. Many guys just want a shag with a hotwife but don’t think of what the husband will get out of a solo meet. | |||
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"We both play separately because we're in an ldr, and because we both enjoy it. Facetime, videos and photos are what makes it hot for us. Then watching the videos together when we meet up." Sexy | |||
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"Yes we've done that although I've found that the fb can't cope with it and he cums too quick lol" When I meet hotwives, the woman may call her husband telling him how I'm massaging her on my table, starting off fully professional ,etc. But how she is hoping that I'll get to touch her between her legs. Basically, speaking her mind to hubby as if I'm not listening. She continues to describe what is actually happening. No acting, real action. Hubby on the other side of the line is all crazy with arousal. So are we. Other times, hubby may turn up a lot later and is "shocked" to find his wife fucked to orgasm after orgasm by her masseur. Variety of scenarios . | |||
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"When Mrs goes on solo hotel meets she sends me pics and videos of them playing then comes home and tells me all about it while we have the best reclaim sex. "exactly how ours works, V also helps me pick my outfits too, he has great choice in how to dress a woman to be honest. | |||
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"never had a solo meet but fucked guys while he watches. Hot. " Both options can be so sexy. It just depends on what turns you on. Love meeting and playing with hubby watching. It adds a frisson of extra excitement of being watched. But it’s also sexy to send pics and vids to the hubby, especially when it’s a message from the wife showing what a fun time she’s having. | |||
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"never had a solo meet but fucked guys while he watches. Hot. " this is what we do. I like Mr watching me but then I enjoy it roles reversed. I wouldn't want to arrange a meet if we both were not there Cali | |||
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"How do others keep there hubby involved when meeting guys alone. We've done lots of things but interested In hearing what others do and seeing if can spice things up. I have a regular FB who I meet and sometimes hubby is at home sometimes working away." So....belive it or not, I get "hot husbanded". My wife is very much into it and the cuckqean kink (couples account named in profile). I'm a lucky guy I know and it's a lot harder as man to do this but I digress. She likes to watch or even be involved where possible (which is more the cuckqean thing) "but" when I go out solo her involvement is usually picking out and preparing what I wear before I go. She's not intrested in photos or videos and I don't bring women to ours (still have family at home) so usually what will happen is a quick text message before I head up to a hotel room or, with my previous girlfriend when I was with her, I'd message my wife I was "off to bed". And that is it. This would usually has her running upstairs for her wand as she likes to imagine what I'm doing. When I come back home, then it'll be reclamation sex. Depending on who I was with and their preffrence on if they are OK with details being discussed or not, I'll tell her what happened or not. | |||
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"Yes we've done that ourselves but some.guys ain't keen on videos I’m bringing lighting, tripod, gopro, making sure the video is awesome
Someone who gets the whole dynamic. Many guys just want a shag with a hotwife but don’t think of what the husband will get out of a solo meet. "This is probably the truest comment. They do just want a shag, not all of them we’ve had a few good meets where for example both Mrs and the guy look me in the eye when they’re fucking ect | |||
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"I usually tell him what happened etc. If he "hot husbands" I'm not bothered by hearing what happens on his meets. Neither of us are particularly into seeing photos or videos of each other with others. It is our own bit of "fun" " That's interesting and different to most I hear from | |||
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