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By *jww16scot OP   Man
19 weeks ago

ayrshire

why do most couples or single females want a 55 year old cut of age is just a number xx

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
19 weeks ago

South Down


"why do most couples or single females want a 55 year old cut of age is just a number xx"

It's obviously not just a number to them. It's not just a number to many.

Also, where is acceptable for a cut off point? Change it to any age you like and there'll still be someone bellyaching about it. Concentrate on those who are looking for those in your age bracket and don't worry about those who aren't

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By *orkshirefucktruckCouple
19 weeks ago

barnsley

Some girls do prerer a older guy

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By *heGreenMan555Man
19 weeks ago

Chichester

as someone in the over 50s category it can seem a bit arbitrary at times, but @lipstickkisses does have a point, some folk just aren’t attracted to an older person - and that’s their choice. Those who aren’t so set will usually allow messaging from people outside their expressed preferences.

but if folk don’t, it’s best to just respect that & move on ???????

happy fabbing folk

MC

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By *oxy jWoman
19 weeks ago

somerset

because people have a choice and thats their choice ...why worry or question something that you cant change ... swinging is a choice everything about it is down to preference especially if your a womam or couple..

as other say look for those who want older ...

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago


"why do most couples or single females want a 55 year old cut of age is just a number xx"

It’s called a preference

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

19 weeks ago

East Sussex

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1620006

This might be the thread for you op.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Certain private pensions become available at 55. Meh, bit cynical of us.

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By *jww16scot OP   Man
19 weeks ago

ayrshire

yes but how 55 why not 53 or 56 lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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19 weeks ago

East Sussex


"yes but how 55 why not 53 or 56 lol "

You could apply that reasoning to any age limit.

People choose what they choose. Their choices frequently exclude certain groups, it's life

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By *hoenix_1Man
19 weeks ago

richmond


"why do most couples or single females want a 55 year old cut of age is just a number xx"

Just wait till you get to 70 lol

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By *heelerMan
19 weeks ago

Northants


"Some girls do prerer a older guy"

That's good news to hear

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
19 weeks ago

South Down


"yes but how 55 why not 53 or 56 lol "

You're irked because 55 excludes you. The 54 year old is irked if it's 53. The 57 year old by 56. The point is, no matter what someone's cut off point is, it will exclude someone. So just accept that people have preferences. Some of those preferences will exclude you. Some won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago


"Some girls do prerer a older guy"

Good to know

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By *WANDTGCouple
19 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

Our problem is with the other end of the scale , where under 35s keep hitting on us, some might take this as a compliment ( we always thank them for their interest) but we won't go with anyone younger than our children.

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By *ensherman333Man
19 weeks ago

Newcastle/Durham


"Certain private pensions become available at 55. Meh, bit cynical of us."

All private pensions do x

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By *afetyFirstCouple
19 weeks ago

Durham

The wife absolutely loves older men, it's her kink.

We have to look for couples that satisfy us both, an older guy with a wife around my age is the sweet spot but with that you narrow your field of search...don't worry about something you can't change

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By * F 2018Couple
19 weeks ago

shropshire


"why do most couples or single females want a 55 year old cut of age is just a number xx"

Everyone has choices and they like what they like I'm afraid

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By *yesgreenMan
19 weeks ago

north and south


"why do most couples or single females want a 55 year old cut of age is just a number xx

Everyone has choices and they like what they like I'm afraid"

We just have to grin and bear it , means the over 55s can chat to us instead lol

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