FabSwingers.com forum: How much does

By *mber Skies OP Woman
10 weeks ago

Cardiff-ish

A swinging club night cost you

For me I get the train down which is £10 to the nearest station then a taxi to the club is £6

Then pay to get in £10 (I think)

Buy drink about £24

Then a taxi back which is £60 I live quite a distance away

Or if I get a room that’s to do with the club it’s £35

Total £135 wish I could visit more but life get in the way sometimes

So how much does it cost you for a night out ?

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By *elloWoman
10 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"A swinging club night cost you

For me I get the train down which is £10 to the nearest station then a taxi to the club is £6

Then pay to get in £10 (I think)

Buy drink about £24

Then a taxi back which is £60 I live quite a distance away

Or if I get a room that’s to do with the club it’s £35

Total £135 wish I could visit more but life get in the way sometimes

So how much does it cost you for a night out ? "

Eyebrows waxed £10

New outfit £10

Petrol round-trip £11

Entry £10

drinks £10

Few Condoms £2

£53 not too bad, cheaper than hiring a gigolo.

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By *elloWoman
10 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Forgot hair dye £7

Total £60

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By *ickD80Man
9 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"A swinging club night cost you

For me I get the train down which is £10 to the nearest station then a taxi to the club is £6

Then pay to get in £10 (I think)

Buy drink about £24

Then a taxi back which is £60 I live quite a distance away

Or if I get a room that’s to do with the club it’s £35

Total £135 wish I could visit more but life get in the way sometimes

So how much does it cost you for a night out ? "

How have you got to the total cost of £135?

If you get a taxi back rather than getting a room then it’s 10+6+10+24+60 which is £110. If it wasn’t for the £60 taxi fare home that would be a cheap night, if i had only spent £50 by the end of the night before getting a taxi home i’d be well happy.

Why don’t you go to a club that’s closer to where you live? Or find someone to share the taxi journey home with? Or leave the club a bit earlier so that you can get the last train home rather than having to pay for a taxi?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
9 weeks ago

Flagrante

Not totally sure but I think it's £35 entry, we probably spend upwards of £50 while we are there and around 150 mile round trip. Sometimes we will stay over so add the cost of a room. All worth it though.

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By *addle12121212Man
9 weeks ago

s74

I don’t bother with the costs the put on single males

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
9 weeks ago

Sheffield

A night at chams and staying over….usually costs me around £150 minimum. That’s outfit, nails, wax, fuel, hotel, food, drinks and club entry x

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By *entleman JayMan
9 weeks ago

Wakefield

20 mins in the car to quest. Cost of entry.

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By *ondonMagicCouple
9 weeks ago

Durham

Erm….for us

30min drive -£10 fuel

Entry -£35 for 2/3 of us

Drinks - £50 quid

Parking -£6

Total £100 quid ish

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By *mber Skies OP Woman
9 weeks ago

Cardiff-ish

"A swinging club night cost you

For me I get the train down which is £10 to the nearest station then a taxi to the club is £6

Then pay to get in £10 (I think)

Buy drink about £24

Then a taxi back which is £60 I live quite a distance away

Or if I get a room that’s to do with the club it’s £35

Total £135 wish I could visit more but life get in the way sometimes

So how much does it cost you for a night out ?

How have you got to the total cost of £135?

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By *mber Skies OP Woman
9 weeks ago

Cardiff-ish

"A swinging club night cost you

For me I get the train down which is £10 to the nearest station then a taxi to the club is £6

Then pay to get in £10 (I think)

Buy drink about £24

Then a taxi back which is £60 I live quite a distance away

Or if I get a room that’s to do with the club it’s £35

Total £135 wish I could visit more but life get in the way sometimes

So how much does it cost you for a night out ?

How have you got to the total cost of £135?

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By *empted23Couple
9 weeks ago

Horsham

So we live hours of driving to any club as we are very countryside

So it’s

£15-20 in diesel there and back

Have to get a local hotel

£110

So then it’s food befor club

£25

Pre drink 20

Entry 40 usually

If its bring your own drinks

Maybe 15

If its an in club bar fuck knows

So between £230 and £280 ish

Which is why they are extremely rare treats for us even though we would love to go more

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
9 weeks ago

Sheffield

Not everyone has a local club. And the clubs closer to me don’t do events that I like.

So staying over is the best option and I can have a few drinks too, and I’m happy to pay it.

I wouldn’t get the last train home as a sole woman either sod that.

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By *assageVirtuosoMan
9 weeks ago

SouthEast

"A swinging club night cost you

For me I get the train down which is £10 to the nearest station then a taxi to the club is £6

Then pay to get in £10 (I think)

Buy drink about £24

Then a taxi back which is £60 I live quite a distance away

Or if I get a room that’s to do with the club it’s £35

Total £135 wish I could visit more but life get in the way sometimes

So how much does it cost you for a night out ? "

Surely you can easily find male drivers to accompany you.

The highest concentration of males on earth is fab.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
9 weeks ago

Sheffield

The OP wasn’t asking for alternative arrangements or complaining at costs. Simply asking how much it cost you.

Some of the suggestions from the single men baffle me. I don’t know anyone that would accept a lift to and from a club from someone they knew incredibly well nor take the last train alone. Safety and trust are paramount.

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Farnborough

I always stay over whenever I go, so a night in a room always adds to the cost xx

I guess I budget about £150 for a night out … worth every Penny - I always enjoy myself xx

R xx

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By *andPextraCouple
9 weeks ago

North West

Lucky. Many clubs within a hours drive.

25 petrol.

Cost of entry- 25-35 quid.

Hubby doesn't drink, and I prefer to be mainly sober, so 15 drinks maybe.

Not factoring in a beauty regime as i’d do that anyhow.

So all in all not much dearer than a trip to the bloody cinema

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By *nnandElleCouple
9 weeks ago

Brackley

Vanilla Alternative is our club of choice, typically costs us:

Fuel - estimate £30 total

Couples entry: £35

Drinks bill: £35

We usually go on a Friday night when single guys are allowed in, and prefer the vibe with single guys, especially on a bi night when theres more chance of both of us getting fucked.

But going on a Friday means no drinking for me (hence drinks bill is low), as we need to get back for the kids swimming lessons on Saturday mornings.

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By *elloWoman
9 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Surely you can easily find male drivers to accompany you.

The highest concentration of males on earth is fab."

Why male? Women drive too you know.

Also I could be wrong here and just speaking for myself , but don't single women go to clubs on their own because they don't want a man accompanying them. Nothing worse than a club of hot guys thinking you're with a partner just because your arrive together so they might be reluctant to approach.

OP was just asking an interesting question on how much people spend, not asking for mansplaining how better it would be for her to have a male.

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By *imply DeeWoman
9 weeks ago

Wherever

"A swinging club night cost you

For me I get the train down which is £10 to the nearest station then a taxi to the club is £6

Then pay to get in £10 (I think)

Buy drink about £24

Then a taxi back which is £60 I live quite a distance away

Or if I get a room that’s to do with the club it’s £35

Total £135 wish I could visit more but life get in the way sometimes

So how much does it cost you for a night out ?

Surely you can easily find male drivers to accompany you.

The highest concentration of males on earth is fab."

Why does it have to be male driver?

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By *nytime2023Couple
9 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

A recent visit to two clubs in two days-

Fuel - £25

Hotel room x 2 - £180

Meal out x 2 - £140

Club entry x 2 - £90

Drinks bill x 2 - £150ish

Total - £585

Worth every penny

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By *assageVirtuosoMan
9 weeks ago

SouthEast

Wow, some people are really uptight today!?!

You ladies, don't you ever feel like lightening up a bit and looking at life from the funny side of it?

Womansplain what "mansplaining" means. I speak 4 languages. Try any, I might just about understand you. No need of using gibberish made up woke culture BS, when there are perfectly usable words that can convey your apparent disdain for men.

I go on trips quite regularly. Traveling anywhere within the UK and Europe. I always take passengers, fellow hikers or skiers. Oftentimes women I never met till the day of departure. Never had an issue, neither they, that the driver is male. Everyone a happy bunny without mansplaining and trying to appear smart at the expense of others.

Your logistics to a club: nothing easier than going with others. Male, female, trans...your call. I'm not into men nor trans, but would readily give a lift to any of the 72+ supposed genders and sexual orientations.

The argument about "arriving together" is laughable! Let's leave it as a 1 April joke.

You all have a lovely Sunday! Nice and bright in the South East. Go out under the sunshine. Hopefully it'll brighten up your day and mood.

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By *elloWoman
9 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Maybe in 1 of the 4 languages you speak you could actually explain why you felt the need to ignore the OPs question and just tell her to find a man to accompany her, she's obviously ok with what she does seeing as she actually does it and wasn't asking others to help her solve her non-problem.

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By *imply DeeWoman
9 weeks ago

Wherever

"Wow, some people are really uptight today!?!

You ladies, don't you ever feel like lightening up a bit and looking at life from the funny side of it?

The argument about "arriving together" is laughable! Let's leave it as a 1 April joke.

You all have a lovely Sunday! Nice and bright in the South East. Go out under the sunshine. Hopefully it'll brighten up your day and mood.

Now that’s quite a tantrum right there.

Love when that happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Fuel 40

Hotel 90

Entry 40

Drink BYOB 30

Food (evening meal) 60

Condoms 10

Around 270 on paper but normally we budget 300, we only go a couple of times a year as it’s an expensive hobby

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
9 weeks ago

Hyde

Excluding anything Beauty related...

Entrance fee

A few drinks- neither of us drink alcohol really

Petrol

Problem £50-60 at the end end

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
9 weeks ago

Thurrock

For our local it’s about £55 entry and drinks going further and staying overnight averages about £200

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By *alandNitaCouple
9 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Could you find a "club buddy" to help spread the cost? Someone who can drive to the club and share a room? That could reduce both of your costs considerably, plus you get the bonus of a bit of company and you can watch each other's back whilst you're at the club.

Cal

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By *assageVirtuosoMan
9 weeks ago

SouthEast

"Could you find a "club buddy" to help spread the cost? Someone who can drive to the club and share a room? That could reduce both of your costs considerably, plus you get the bonus of a bit of company and you can watch each other's back whilst you're at the club.

Cal"

Getting the popcorn ready ...

(honestly, I've just finished half a packet)

You'll be slaughtered, mate.

I mentioned merely a driver ...The forum's extreme right menophob squad swooped on me in less than a minute.

See the comments above.

You advise that they share a room???

I'd suggest you double up on your security tonight.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
9 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

£10 fuel

£15 to get in

£2 water bottle

£27

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By *MFC PartiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Here, There & Everywhere

Cal

Getting the popcorn ready ...

(honestly, I've just finished half a packet)

You'll be slaughtered, mate.

I mentioned merely a driver ...The forum's extreme right menophob squad swooped on me in less than a minute.

See the comments above.

You advise that they share a room???

I'd suggest you double up on your security tonight.

Unfortunately you assumed the gender of suggested 'club buddy' ...

When I read the post, I assumed they suggested a female buddy

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By *assageVirtuosoMan
9 weeks ago

SouthEast

Cal

Getting the popcorn ready ...

(honestly, I've just finished half a packet)

You'll be slaughtered, mate.

I mentioned merely a driver ...The forum's extreme right menophob squad swooped on me in less than a minute.

See the comments above.

You advise that they share a room???

I'd suggest you double up on your security tonight.

Unfortunately you assumed the gender of suggested 'club buddy' ...

When I read the post, I assumed they suggested a female buddy

What happened to "gender equality"?

Just a good slogan ?

I'm sure someone will promptly come in here telling us both off that gender and sex are totally different and unrelated terms.

Perhaps I should've said in my first post "a male driver who identifies as a woman". It should've made whole lot of a difference. Who knows?

Some people are never happy...

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By *MFC PartiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Here, There & Everywhere

Cal

Getting the popcorn ready ...

(honestly, I've just finished half a packet)

You'll be slaughtered, mate.

I mentioned merely a driver ...The forum's extreme right menophob squad swooped on me in less than a minute.

See the comments above.

You advise that they share a room???

I'd suggest you double up on your security tonight.

Unfortunately you assumed the gender of suggested 'club buddy' ...

When I read the post, I assumed they suggested a female buddy

What happened to "gender equality"?

Just a good slogan ?

I'm sure someone will promptly come in here telling us both off that gender and sex are totally different and unrelated terms.

Perhaps I should've said in my first post "a male driver who identifies as a woman". It should've made whole lot of a difference. Who knows?

Some people are never happy...

You really need to read your posts thoroughly because you DID state that the driver should be male 'Surely you can easily find male drivers to accompany you.'

But I have no intention of arguing with you further - enjoy the rest of your day!

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By *alandNitaCouple
9 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Cal

Getting the popcorn ready ...

(honestly, I've just finished half a packet)

You'll be slaughtered, mate.

I mentioned merely a driver ...The forum's extreme right menophob squad swooped on me in less than a minute.

See the comments above.

You advise that they share a room???

I'd suggest you double up on your security tonight.

Unfortunately you assumed the gender of suggested 'club buddy' ...

When I read the post, I assumed they suggested a female buddy

Yes, I was thinking that another lady would probably be best...

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By *assageVirtuosoMan
9 weeks ago

SouthEast

Cal

Getting the popcorn ready ...

(honestly, I've just finished half a packet)

You'll be slaughtered, mate.

I mentioned merely a driver ...The forum's extreme right menophob squad swooped on me in less than a minute.

See the comments above.

You advise that they share a room???

I'd suggest you double up on your security tonight.

Unfortunately you assumed the gender of suggested 'club buddy' ...

When I read the post, I assumed they suggested a female buddy

What happened to "gender equality"?

Just a good slogan ?

I'm sure someone will promptly come in here telling us both off that gender and sex are totally different and unrelated terms.

Perhaps I should've said in my first post "a male driver who identifies as a woman". It should've made whole lot of a difference. Who knows?

Some people are never happy...

You really need to read your posts thoroughly because you DID state that the driver should be male 'Surely you can easily find male drivers to accompany you.'

But I have no intention of arguing with you further - enjoy the rest of your day!"

I wasn't arguing with you at all.

Just chatting

Enjoy your evening!

Rain arriving, hopefully

in the morning .

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By *elkieWoman
9 weeks ago

Durham

Locally: less than £50, including the cost of petrol, admission, my government issued Male Driver, a bottle, corkage and mixers. (I have never been Out Out in my local club with a licenced bar, but reckon it would be about the same)

Nationally:

£35 on petrol to get to Yorkshire, £200 on accommodation and food for me and my Male Driver, £50-60 for admission and drinks for me and my Male Driver. Obviously, places further away cost more to get to.

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By *assageVirtuosoMan
9 weeks ago

SouthEast

Cal

Getting the popcorn ready ...

(honestly, I've just finished half a packet)

You'll be slaughtered, mate.

I mentioned merely a driver ...The forum's extreme right menophob squad swooped on me in less than a minute.

See the comments above.

You advise that they share a room???

I'd suggest you double up on your security tonight.

Unfortunately you assumed the gender of suggested 'club buddy' ...

When I read the post, I assumed they suggested a female buddy

Yes, I was thinking that another lady would probably be best...

Better still, a dozen more ladies. Fill the club with ladies ??

...

Their male drivers can wait outside

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By *assageVirtuosoMan
9 weeks ago

SouthEast

"Locally: less than £50, including the cost of petrol, admission, my government issued Male Driver, a bottle, corkage and mixers. (I have never been Out Out in my local club with a licenced bar, but reckon it would be about the same)

Nationally:

Would it be cheaper if She was a Female driver ?

Just asking...

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By *alandNitaCouple
9 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Nationally:

Would it be cheaper if She was a Female driver ?

Just asking... "

Single ladies are always the cheapest, if there's no ladies in the club then you'll not have anyone else wanting to be there either.

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By *elkieWoman
9 weeks ago

Durham

Nationally:

Would it be cheaper if She was a Female driver ?

Just asking... "

Like, we’d save £5 on admission and spend £30 on cake and bad decisions. So no?

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By *oiluvfunMan
9 weeks ago

Penrith

The nearest club to me is 1 1/2 hours drive away, most are 2 hours drive, so call it £50 for fuel (my Audi Quattro runs on 99 ron).

Entry fee for a single guy £25 - £50 depending where you go, but £50 my absolute max for any event….

The cost to my self confidence for being the least wanted demographic in the place when I get there? Immeasurable

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
9 weeks ago

south coast IOW

My nearest is Bournemouth but even there i have car ferry which luckily i can get via work so cost around £50 (in summer could be anything up to £250 otherwise!!). Then petrol £30 entry £10 drinks £30 (including pre drinks). Hotel or bnb £80 as last ferry that way is around 9pm. Plus outfits and any pamper bits etc. it can be quite expensive.

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By *assageVirtuosoMan
9 weeks ago

SouthEast

Nationally:

Would it be cheaper if She was a Female driver ?

Just asking...

Like, we’d save £5 on admission and spend £30 on cake and bad decisions. So no? "

You are a smart girl

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
9 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

Depending on the club also the distance: for a premium night we’ll easily spend £250 each. We love some excellent clubs in London it’s typically £35-45 each for a couples ticket or two singles depending on the club.

Electric car: no congestion charge, £22 or so electric to and from Bristol/Daventry

Snacks: £5

Drive back coffees; £10

Light Dinner & filthy food for after; £55-80

Supplies (lube, rubbers, antibacterial wipes etc); £20

Pedicure: £45

Men’s cut: £20

Post session testing @ 3 weeks & 3 months: £75 each

Without buying a new set/outfit: c. £500 but absolutely worth it.

For a more low-key bored Saturday night: c £150 each (cheaper club entry and less travel, no need for dinner)

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