FabSwingers.com forum: xxx's

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know this has been done before but in a little confused lol, i have a vanilla friend who i used to work with,, we kept in touch, we both send a x at the end of messages which obviously mean nothing, then she occasionally sends xx, again not meaning anything, but i just received a text simply "xxx"? Is that a text to say she maybe interested? Curious as she is in a very un happy marriage, thinking may be best to leave it as friends x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the xxx is a call for a chat if she in a un happy marriage she mite just want a friend to talk to...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

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Ask her

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Will ask if she wants a chat,, but that's all I think,, don't wanna push and or scare her, thank you

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

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"Will ask if she wants a chat,, but that's all I think,, don't wanna push and or scare her, thank you"

Wise move.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will ask if she wants a chat,, but that's all I think,, don't wanna push and or scare her, thank you"

Oh go on, be daring, even if just a wee bit!

But you're right, with a lot of people 'x's mean little or nothing. Personally, I only use them when I mean it.

However, in the scenario you describe, I think a little gentlle questioning is required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And dont forget if she puts a smiley face at the end of a text she's gagging for you lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know this has been done before but in a little confused lol, i have a vanilla friend who i used to work with,, we kept in touch, we both send a x at the end of messages which obviously mean nothing, then she occasionally sends xx, again not meaning anything, but i just received a text simply "xxx"? Is that a text to say she maybe interested? Curious as she is in a very un happy marriage, thinking may be best to leave it as friends x"

Trust me , on this don't text her till Monday when she is at work and then txt her saying only 3 x you get approx 160 letters in a text where's the 157 you missed .

It can be taken two ways without losing face on both your parts , she can take it as a joke obviously or she can take it you want more, whichever way she wants to see it

If you get the rest of the x text her back saying oh babes now your looking desperate lol

then send another text if you want to slap me I am free for lunch in 2 days time see you at wherever at her normal lunch time x

Most married women and bearing in mind I was with one for 8 years , are unhappy at home , getting loads of pressure , last thing they need is pressure outside the home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know her marriage is unhappy? Is that an assumption on your part?

I can't help thinking that a real friend would not be trying to shag a married friend and based on this thread not be intent on an affair with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had some fun last night and after he dropped me home I got a text from him asking if I was ok with x at the end, i replied saying I was fine x, then he sent me one X so I sent one back, but then we are having fun etc so is a bit different to your situation but you could ask her if she is ok

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