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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys,

Wonder if anyone could offer any advice, either to do with my profile or otherwise. I manage to get to the point where people are interested in meeting yet when it comes to arranging a date the messages go cold. Am I doing something wrong? Cheers for any advice or help. Thanks.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Lots of people get cold feet when it comes to actually meeting and lots have no intention of ever meeting. It is annoying and I suggest arranging a meet within two or three messages you will be able to tell by the tone of their replies of they're genuine or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this happens a lot and have found best ones are quick few msgs, pics and meet

long drawn out weeks of msgs usually end up by never meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were interested in meeting u but u never committed to a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were interested in meeting u but u never committed to a meet "

Interesting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were interested in meeting u but u never committed to a meet "

Does he have to?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Unfortunately work was being an arse at that point in time which is why I was unable to commit to any kind of a meet constantly changing my shifts to suit them. I didn't want to commit to a meet and then have to let you guys down at the last minute as I felt that would be unfair to the both of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were interested in meeting u but u never committed to a meet

Interesting!"

yes very especially as he wanted to meet and admitted to it

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"We were interested in meeting u but u never committed to a meet

Interesting!

yes very especially as he wanted to meet and admitted to it "

Maybe time for you both to try and arrange something again then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's not a problem sure we can sort somethin out n thanks.hun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were interested in meeting u but u never committed to a meet

Interesting!

yes very especially as he wanted to meet and admitted to it

Maybe time for you both to try and arrange something again then?"

yep on it now

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"We were interested in meeting u but u never committed to a meet

Interesting!

yes very especially as he wanted to meet and admitted to it

Maybe time for you both to try and arrange something again then?

yep on it now "

I love happy endings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were interested in meeting u but u never committed to a meet

Interesting!

yes very especially as he wanted to meet and admitted to it

Maybe time for you both to try and arrange something again then?

Lol

yep on it now

I love happy endings. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Glad to hear it. Hope we can speak soon and arrange a meet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will do xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is like watching a series on tv...find out what happens in the next episode!! haha will he wont he meet and finaly be virified.............

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

i get this alot too and they seem genuine and i still chat, but we never seem to get too meet. i don't wanna seem pushy and keep bringing it up, so it just goes on. maybe i should be a bit harsher and delete after a few trys with no meet in progress or on the cards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a nice thread... Love a happy ending

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were interested in meeting u but u never committed to a meet

Does he have to? "

Considering what the nature of what he has said for thois thread.. That seems a lil silly to ask if he has to

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"Hi guys,

Wonder if anyone could offer any advice, either to do with my profile or otherwise. I manage to get to the point where people are interested in meeting yet when it comes to arranging a date the messages go cold. Am I doing something wrong? Cheers for any advice or help. Thanks. "

no, that's how it works, you send mails back n forth and agree to meet, then the final mail with the place and time is the one they recieve when they "happen" to log off. Thats the mail that goes unread and ignored when they come back online, its just their way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My rule is, if you have met within two weeks of1st chatting in here it's rarely going to happen. If we're still chatting it moves into "friends" terroristy and any chance if the benefits is withdrawn x

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