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By *ikelazowski OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Dundee

Hi I’m ovbs a newbie here don’t know what I’m doing wrong, trying to have a conversation and don’t even get a reply any one got any pointers don’t think my chats that bad

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

In the chat rooms or in general or on the forums?

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By *ucka39Man
20 weeks ago

Newcastle

Hiya op

Maybe look at other profiles see how they've created there's for ideas only, as people you're messaging will read your bio to find something interesting to them before any response to the message

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By *aisley guyMan
20 weeks ago

Paisley

Welcome to Fab we’re 99% of your messages won’t even get read

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By *uliette500Woman
20 weeks ago

Hull

Remember most women will look at your profile before reading or replying to a message. If the profile isn't appealing they won't reply and possibly will delete the message without even reading it.

Maybe that's where you should start.

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By *un and Games 2016Couple
20 weeks ago

Darlington


"Remember most women will look at your profile before reading or replying to a message. If the profile isn't appealing they won't reply and possibly will delete the message without even reading it.

Maybe that's where you should start. "

Exactly this!!

If a shop window looks appealing you want to go in for look.....

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By *issmorganWoman
20 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"Remember most women will look at your profile before reading or replying to a message. If the profile isn't appealing they won't reply and possibly will delete the message without even reading it.

Maybe that's where you should start. "

This, I'm afraid I'd delete a message if I received one from you.

Your profile doesn't tell us much and there's only the one pic.

It could do with a revamp.

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By *uckingFutzMan
20 weeks ago

Plymouth

Unfortunately men have to work extra hard on here! Read the profile, see if you have any connection, try to relate your message to their profile to show you've actually read it,, also what has been said before about your profile.

Oh and spelling and punctuation - admittedly I fall flat on those points

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
20 weeks ago

Pontypridd

I check a profile when I get a message. If there's no clear pics and the profile tells me nothing of value, I just delete the message. Are you selling yourself properly? And dont say that people can ask anything they want to know - why should they if you can't make an effort to create interest with a good profile?

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By *ikelazowski OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Dundee

Just mostly private messaging in general, chat rooms are abit chaotic for trying to have a conversation in, I lose track

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By *ikelazowski OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Dundee

Okay it’s good to get some feed back which is really appreciative, I’ll give my profile a little construction.

Thank you for the comments everyone

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