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By *moothCriminal_x OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Redditch

So during penetration i cant really feel much and often lose my erection. Have had viagra in the past but want to avoid relying on it. Alone no issues but i kinda feel after years without sex i have almost trained by body to only respond to quite vigorous wanking!

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago


"So during penetration i cant really feel much and often lose my erection. Have had viagra in the past but want to avoid relying on it. Alone no issues but i kinda feel after years without sex i have almost trained by body to only respond to quite vigorous wanking!"

You should probably stop masturbating so much. I was never a fan of the practice.

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
20 weeks ago

Northampton

Speak to a medical professional.

The brain does create pathways so be totally honest with them.

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By *moothCriminal_x OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Redditch


"So during penetration i cant really feel much and often lose my erection. Have had viagra in the past but want to avoid relying on it. Alone no issues but i kinda feel after years without sex i have almost trained by body to only respond to quite vigorous wanking!

You should probably stop masturbating so much. I was never a fan of the practice."

Easy to say when sex is a bit more frequent. When its 2 or 3 times a year it becomes almost a daily ritual just because of boredom

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By *1newfunWoman
20 weeks ago

Eastleigh

Do you wank with a death grip? Take a break and loosen your grip.

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By *unglevipsCouple
20 weeks ago

Somerset

Have you ever had numbness in the region other than just your penis? If so, get your back checked.

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By *uckcpl4biCouple
20 weeks ago

somewhere around there

Hubby has started out like that was always goin soft during sex and eventually became completely limp and completely changed our relationship he tried viagra but just made him sweat lol so now save him the stress n keep his little limp dick locked up x

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By *r PantyMan
20 weeks ago

Morpeth

Too much wanking. I'm the same when I get with a woman but in all honesty I prefer to wank so am quite happy to take the hit.

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By *uckcpl4biCouple
20 weeks ago

somewhere around there

Yea he now dent even wank tease his caged cock or been pegging him n he dribbles his pathetic load with no use of it love I've made him this way so hot

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By *4rkk1ttenWoman
20 weeks ago

East Mids

See your GP just to check no other issues that are causing this. Blocked arteries etc.

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By *moothCriminal_x OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Redditch


"See your GP just to check no other issues that are causing this. Blocked arteries etc."

I have spinal issues but cervical (neck). Circumcised so lack a lot of sensation anyway. Nerves and drink don't help i guess

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By *itegreensWoman
20 weeks ago

southampton

I’m sure I’ve seen successful studies where patients are given viagra everyday for a period to alleviate similar symptoms. They don’t take it forever

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By *merald CharmWoman
20 weeks ago

scotland


"So during penetration i cant really feel much and often lose my erection. Have had viagra in the past but want to avoid relying on it. Alone no issues but i kinda feel after years without sex i have almost trained by body to only respond to quite vigorous wanking!"

Do you go soft if you're getting a blow job?

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By *eronikapaulCouple
20 weeks ago

Reading

Vibration can do this. Do you by chance ride a motorbike? Esp 4 cylinder in line. Usually a temporary thing but it is affecting your pudendal nerve.

x

Dr I Google

CBd Hons.

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By *eronikapaulCouple
20 weeks ago

Reading

Maybe....

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By *moothCriminal_x OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Redditch


"So during penetration i cant really feel much and often lose my erection. Have had viagra in the past but want to avoid relying on it. Alone no issues but i kinda feel after years without sex i have almost trained by body to only respond to quite vigorous wanking!

Do you go soft if you're getting a blow job?"

Its more like im always 70% and when im getting head or inside i cant actually feel that im hard. Woman i was with the other night said i was def inside but i didnt get that rock hard sensation and couldnt feel any stimulation on my bellend when thrusting or with her on top

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By *moothCriminal_x OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Redditch


"Vibration can do this. Do you by chance ride a motorbike? Esp 4 cylinder in line. Usually a temporary thing but it is affecting your pudendal nerve.

x

Dr I Google

CBd Hons.

I also read about this. Na no bike riding or anything similar

"

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By *oeliamMan
20 weeks ago

Ballinteer

You could try getting your testosterone levels checked? Levels drop as us guys get older. TRT (testosterone replacement therapy) is becoming increasingly more common for guys these days.

Just another option you could consider mate.

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By *moothCriminal_x OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Redditch


"You could try getting your testosterone levels checked? Levels drop as us guys get older. TRT (testosterone replacement therapy) is becoming increasingly more common for guys these days.

Just another option you could consider mate. "

Cheers. I doubt it is this as jo other obvious signs - fatigue, sleep issues, etc... i go to the gym 4 or 5 times a week and my sex drive is still high but its more that it is so rare i have sex that when i do it doesnt quite feel like anything - my penis gets warm but isnt really stimulated by penetration. Even a blow job doesnt seem to feel of much!

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By *orkJackMan
20 weeks ago

York

A friend of mine had a similar issue, he got a prince albert piercing and that really helped.

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By *assageVirtuosoMan
20 weeks ago

SouthEast

When you masturbate, don't do it vigorously. Apply lube and gently touch just over the lube. Stay erect but don't aim to cum. If you orgasm from gentle touching, it's fine, but don't jack like mad to get there.

Don't watch porn while doing it. Close your eyes and imagine a woman with you.

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By *moothCriminal_x OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Redditch


"When you masturbate, don't do it vigorously. Apply lube and gently touch just over the lube. Stay erect but don't aim to cum. If you orgasm from gentle touching, it's fine, but don't jack like mad to get there.

Don't watch porn while doing it. Close your eyes and imagine a woman with you."

Will try this. Circumcised so genuinely questioning if it's partly that.

Fyi all inwas a virgin until 8 months ago and have only had sex 4 times

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By *assageVirtuosoMan
20 weeks ago

SouthEast


"When you masturbate, don't do it vigorously. Apply lube and gently touch just over the lube. Stay erect but don't aim to cum. If you orgasm from gentle touching, it's fine, but don't jack like mad to get there.

Don't watch porn while doing it. Close your eyes and imagine a woman with you.

Will try this. Circumcised so genuinely questioning if it's partly that.

Fyi all inwas a virgin until 8 months ago and have only had sex 4 times "

Well, life is varied ...39yo virgin ...It happens, even if

you weren't in a monastery.

Anyhow, you have a bit of catching up to do. You look fit , it shouldn't be hard to pull chicks at the bar.

If you need a tag , hit me up. It may actually be beneficial to build up confidence.

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By *moothCriminal_x OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Redditch


"When you masturbate, don't do it vigorously. Apply lube and gently touch just over the lube. Stay erect but don't aim to cum. If you orgasm from gentle touching, it's fine, but don't jack like mad to get there.

Don't watch porn while doing it. Close your eyes and imagine a woman with you.

Will try this. Circumcised so genuinely questioning if it's partly that.

Fyi all inwas a virgin until 8 months ago and have only had sex 4 times

Well, life is varied ...39yo virgin ...It happens, even if

you weren't in a monastery.

Anyhow, you have a bit of catching up to do. You look fit , it shouldn't be hard to pull chicks at the bar.

If you need a tag , hit me up. It may actually be beneficial to build up confidence."

I was 40 lol.

Define a tag?

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By *assageVirtuosoMan
20 weeks ago

SouthEast

Tag team

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
20 weeks ago

Stourbridge

See a medical professional.

I have diabetes type 2 and I’m on various heart drugs which can cause issues.

They don’t judge, there are various treatments. Be upfront and honest as has been said.

Don’t self medicate. Do contact doctors. You can’t be any more embarrassed than I was.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
20 weeks ago

Stourbridge

And if you want to talk to someone who knows about this message me anytime.

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By *egoMan
20 weeks ago

Preston


"So during penetration i cant really feel much and often lose my erection. Have had viagra in the past but want to avoid relying on it. Alone no issues but i kinda feel after years without sex i have almost trained by body to only respond to quite vigorous wanking!"

Me to, i feel this is common.

Stop wanking a few days, usually helps.

But wanking is my vice. Even if getting plenty of sex, ill still wank.

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By *moothCriminal_x OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Redditch


"And if you want to talk to someone who knows about this message me anytime. "

Cheers dude

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By *moothCriminal_x OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Redditch


"So during penetration i cant really feel much and often lose my erection. Have had viagra in the past but want to avoid relying on it. Alone no issues but i kinda feel after years without sex i have almost trained by body to only respond to quite vigorous wanking!

Me to, i feel this is common.

Stop wanking a few days, usually helps.

But wanking is my vice. Even if getting plenty of sex, ill still wank.

"

Just part of my bedtime routine pretty much. Prob 5 times a week on average.

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By *iscrete GloryholeMan
20 weeks ago

Ashford kent

Have you tried a cockring???...

it can delay erection disfunction..

BUT DONT DO IT TOO TIGHT.. dont garrot your penis, it should be warm with a cockring..not cold or clammy ..biggest mistake is too tight

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By *moothCriminal_x OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Redditch


"Have you tried a cockring???...

it can delay erection disfunction..

BUT DONT DO IT TOO TIGHT.. dont garrot your penis, it should be warm with a cockring..not cold or clammy ..biggest mistake is too tight"

Hoping its just the fact im unfamiliar with the sensation and need more time to warm up and get turned on. I assumed id just go off like a champagne cork and having opposite issues

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