FabSwingers.com forum: First Club Meet as a Single Male

By (user no longer on site) OP
28 weeks ago

Looking to attend my first ever club meet as a single young male and looking for some advice regarding general tips and advice please. X

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By *ottsfun555Couple
28 weeks ago

Nottingham

Be polite and respect people's boundaries, don't be one of the W*nking dead and pestering people. Just be polite, have a chat and a drink and see what happens ??

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
28 weeks ago

bedford

Treat it just like a normal club , if you chatting to a couple chat to both male and female , they will let you know if they are interested in singles , be polite smile at people , by all means walk around the club But be sociable , if you get invited to play respect boundaries

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By *octordigitsMan
28 weeks ago

nearby

Choose your club well - and maybe look out for a party night when you will probably get a bigger turn out …. And try to mingle

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By *elloWoman
28 weeks ago

alpha centauri

I recommend going to a club when they have a social event before the club officially opens, like the monthly socials at abfabs.

It's a great way to meet people you've interacted with on the fab forums.

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By *octordigitsMan
28 weeks ago

nearby

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By *octordigitsMan
28 weeks ago

nearby

"I recommend going to a club when they have a social event before the club officially opens, like the monthly socials at abfabs.

It's a great way to meet people you've interacted with on the fab forums. "

Great advice ……. i ve never been to the relocated club … but nothing else other than positive experiences from the old one

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Looking to attend my first ever club meet as a single young male and looking for some advice regarding general tips and advice please. X"

Dont be a wanking zombie

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By *ichardHereMan
5 weeks ago

London

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By *1ggyDogMan
5 weeks ago

Malvern

my experience was made lovely by the staff at our place for fun.

But the atio was all off and I was not into standing around a woman with a bunch of guys wanking. It was undignified. Just relax be yourself, It is weird figuring out the etiquette and depending on the venue the wayth women were objectified wigged me out maybe im to sensetive.

Next time im going with a female but do go.

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By *1ggyDogMan
5 weeks ago

Malvern

I need to do a correction the women at our place 4 fun were fine it was the first one i went too they were all paid to be there which I didnt know and non commercialised sex is just a more expensive and compplicated wank there is nothing there unless you connect with the sex worker which is fun!

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
5 weeks ago

Coventry

Also make sure you get the practical bits right. It may sound boring but can remove any extra stress on the day. Things like:

Is it cash or card?

Is it dress to impress or dress down?

Is it bring your own bottle or licenced?

Is there any membership paperwork to complete prior?

Do you need to bring ID and if so what is valid?

What's the transport/parking situation?

Are there any times single males not allowed?

Can you even just turn up as a single male? (Some clubs have a waiting list for men)

This information is normally on the website and you can always give the club a call prior to check. It just makes things better when you go correctly prepared.

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