FabSwingers.com forum: First MMF.

By *eenfeet OP Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Hi,

Myself and my girlfriend (22) have decided to have an MMF threesome.

She wants to be blindfolded and let myself and the other M do what we want with her.

Would you recommend anything for a first time? boundaries etc, how to go about it? is it wise to use a hotel room?

Thank You.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

Myself and my girlfriend (22) have decided to have an MMF threesome.

She wants to be blindfolded and let myself and the other M do what we want with her.

Would you recommend anything for a first time? boundaries etc, how to go about it? is it wise to use a hotel room?

Thank You."

You should defiantly set your limits before the event, esp as she is blindfolded. She is trusting you with a lot! (possibly set up a safeword)

as for location, use somewhere where you both are most comfortable.

and above all.... Have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't rush, there are so many single guys on here, make sure you find one that you feel really comfortable with...

And of course one who understands your situation/what you're wanting to get out of this, thus also your limits..

We always went for a no pressure social, chit chat drink before but everyone has their own way of going about meets.

(Used to be a couple playing mmf and know the single guys perspective too)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmmmm mmf

She trusts you, otherwise she wouldn't allow you to control the situation. Biggest hurdle cleared.

Relax, find someone you both think is compatible and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

Myself and my girlfriend (22) have decided to have an MMF threesome.

She wants to be blindfolded and let myself and the other M do what we want with her.

Would you recommend anything for a first time? boundaries etc, how to go about it? is it wise to use a hotel room?

Thank You."
yes I recommend me hehe, set your limits

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Hi,

Myself and my girlfriend (22) have decided to have an MMF threesome.

She wants to be blindfolded and let myself and the other M do what we want with her.

Would you recommend anything for a first time? boundaries etc, how to go about it? is it wise to use a hotel room?

Thank You."

Make sure you are somewhere she feels safe; she clearly trusts you to control what is going on so make sure you choose a guy that you can trust.

There may come a point (and it could come at anytime) where she decides to stop. At that point you need the guy to respect the rules and stop.

She needs a safe word, and so do you.... So any of you can stop it if you feel it is going wrong (and wrong may not be outside the rules set, it may be inside those rules that suddenly doesnt feel right).

There are loads of nice guys on fab, but there are some idiots too.

Do you know what she wants; or are you going to let the other guy have free rein ?

Like someone has said, be careful.... but enjoy.... you will ALL love it i am sure.

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset

You need to know your girlfriend really well, and to talk it through completely and be sure of your rules and boundaries.

Safe words for both of you and take time, if the single guy seems right go for it, if at any point it feels wrong - stop. I would choose home over hotel - personal choice, but somewhere I know, am comfortable with and somewhere I feel in control.

If single guy is experienced with 3somes and used to hotels he may feel more in control than you.

Early on, give the single guy instructions, if he follows them well, it's a good sign that he will carry on doing so.

Your GF has given you control. (unless she says the safe word) You need to be in control, stay in control and know you are in control.

Suggest, for the first time, sticking by your rules and boundaries, even if tempted in the heat of the moment to exceed them.

With experience boundaries can be re set - but not on the fly.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Has your girlfriend been blindfolded in a sexual situation before? It can be very exciting but disorienting too. Pick your third well, make sure you know your girlfriends boundaries and that he does too and take all the others advice, them have a bloody good time, we always do

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By *av1970Man
over a year ago

Tattershall

Can't say anymore than the others above really. Be safe, set limits, know exactly what you both want out of it...and most of all if you go ahead then ensure you both enjoy it.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"mmmmm mmf

She trusts you, otherwise she wouldn't allow you to control the situation. Biggest hurdle cleared.

Relax, find someone you both think is compatible and enjoy.

How many guys????lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

Myself and my girlfriend (22) have decided to have an MMF threesome.

She wants to be blindfolded and let myself and the other M do what we want with her.

Would you recommend anything for a first time? boundaries etc, how to go about it? is it wise to use a hotel room?

Thank You."

The way that you word that suggests that she is passing all control to you. Which is cool but in my opinion she needs to be actively involved in the selection process. And I'd echo others that have said meet socially first. If you don't you need to consider that there will possibly be some suspicion of a guy arranging a 3sum in a hotel room for a female who hasn't cammed or spoken to prove they are genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

GHB

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