FabSwingers.com forum: Fill in later??

By (user no longer on site) OP
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over a year ago

As ive had fun today looking at who has been looking at us I noticed a profile that just has this on it....

Fill in later

Hate these things.

They have been on the site for over a year!

Now how on earth are they going to get any response from a profile like that?

I know they probably just want to perve at others but there is far more explicit stuff on the internet that you don't have to pay a penny for than what is on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As ive had fun today looking at who has been looking at us I noticed a profile that just has this on it....

Fill in later

Hate these things.

They have been on the site for over a year!

Now how on earth are they going to get any response from a profile like that?

I know they probably just want to perve at others but there is far more explicit stuff on the internet that you don't have to pay a penny for than what is on here!"

The thing is though,they have more chance of seeing someone they recognise on here far less than on the net.Thats ,as you say,probably the reason they're on here.We reckon the site owners should have a word or give them the boot.

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By *dinburgh_duoCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

"As ive had fun today looking at who has been looking at us I noticed a profile that just has this on it....

Fill in later

Hate these things.

They have been on the site for over a year!

Now how on earth are they going to get any response from a profile like that?

I know they probably just want to perve at others but there is far more explicit stuff on the internet that you don't have to pay a penny for than what is on here!"

We've seen quite a lot of them over the last couple of years. I guess it's up to them really - if this is all they have on their profile they are hardly gonna be stowed out with offers of meets

Dare any of them moan about no meets or messages..........

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By *dinburgh_duoCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

"As ive had fun today looking at who has been looking at us I noticed a profile that just has this on it....

Fill in later

Hate these things.

They have been on the site for over a year!

Now how on earth are they going to get any response from a profile like that?

I know they probably just want to perve at others but there is far more explicit stuff on the internet that you don't have to pay a penny for than what is on here!

We've seen quite a lot of them over the last couple of years. I guess it's up to them really - if this is all they have on their profile they are hardly gonna be stowed out with offers of meets

Dare any of them moan about no meets or messages..........

So it's their loss/choice really!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
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over a year ago

Yeh lol im waiting for that as well!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

true that yiu are hehehe x I loath ppl doing that n right enough tbeybnever fill itbin I think if a pro is not verifyed or not filled in should b auto deleted mwah namaste

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By *eavensg84uCouple
over a year ago

Harrow

We just assume that whoever has written something like that is not serious about meeting and has only joined the site so they can look at the pics. Its not about getting more explicit pics - for them, its about seeing 'real' people who are more accessible than porn stars.

Its hard to police it though. Some sites say that you have to have a minimum of 50 characters in the profile box or its auto-deleted - and the sad wankers then just type XRThgsvcahdgvjkldglafdg to use up the space! So unless the site owners want to manually check the profiles, there's not much you can do - except report them?

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By *lkmarcMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Just to add on, I not got time and will never contact someone who not made any effort.if they can write something like that they are NOT serious about meeting. I am more each day,Have a look at new members has to be about 50% with either "I fill in later or nothing" As I am seeking a woman or couple but find its mostly single women..... its reminds me of the old msn chat rooms.. lots of talkers with no intention, what happened to them, many joined sites like this cause there free etc, like mentioned already they get their kicks out of looking at profiles, or the fun of being mailed.

What can be done about it is the site owners to remove them, it can be policed by us the members who can report them. I would give all members 7 days to fill out the profile to keep things fair.

Thanks for reading .

Have a good sexy day .. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry guys but nobody should be under any obligation to meet anyone on here, some active posters on the forums will never meet anyone on line and only use clubs solely for there fun, this is a swinging website for likeminded swingers, as long is their profiles are not decieving anyone, then honestly cannot see any problem, the minute you start deleting profiles for lack of descriptions or photos etc, will see the death of any website, because lets be honest whether they are genuine ot not, who are we to decide how they should swing or use the website, we just don't have to meet them.

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

Taken from the following page:

http://www.fabswingers.com/articles/Terms

"Your profile must be properly filled in. If it isn't then we may delete it with no warning."

If I see profiles not completed properly then I report it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What constitutes properly filled in though? bearing in mind that the text box is optional.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Sorry guys but nobody should be under any obligation to meet anyone on here, some active posters on the forums will never meet anyone on line and only use clubs solely for there fun, this is a swinging website for likeminded swingers, as long is their profiles are not decieving anyone, then honestly cannot see any problem, the minute you start deleting profiles for lack of descriptions or photos etc, will see the death of any website, because lets be honest whether they are genuine ot not, who are we to decide how they should swing or use the website, we just don't have to meet them."

Spot on.

When we first joined these type of sites, especially the first one, we didn't know what to put on the profile, so ours stayed nearly blank until we had a nose round the site and nicked everybody elses ideas

But, it isn't a compulsory requirement when you join the site that you have to meet someone so until there is, I suppose anyone can join for whatever rocks their boat.

If who don't want to speak to those people you can just ignore them if thats what they want.

Isn't it funny though what puts different people off, the thing that instantly puts me off (mrs) is a single mans profile with pics of sex acts on it with a woman who may or may not know they are on here ( even if their faces are not shown)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
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over a year ago

I agree that no-one on here has to meet anyone at all and if I see profiles that say just browsing and seeing what its like then thats cool with me....it can be scary joining sites so its nice to take it slowly

But "will fill in later" a year down the line makes me wonder how much more they need to know about it

I know some will say well maybe they hav'nt been online and have been away for months but that can't apply to everybody surely?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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Yeah the impression I would get from that is, they probably joined when they were in a horny mood and are just on the site for the free cams to watch or the pictures to look at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree that no-one on here has to meet anyone at all and if I see profiles that say just browsing and seeing what its like then thats cool with me....it can be scary joining sites so its nice to take it slowly

But "will fill in later" a year down the line makes me wonder how much more they need to know about it

I know some will say well maybe they hav'nt been online and have been away for months but that can't apply to everybody surely?

Totally agree, and they might not get much contact, or maybe that’s the idea? Having said that maybe they have just added the will fill in later bit? After getting too much mail etc, either way there not really much we can do about it unless it made compulsorily to place an add or have one at all times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
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over a year ago

But "will fill in later" a year down the line makes me wonder how much more they need to know about it

I know some will say well maybe they hav'nt been online and have been away for months but that can't apply to everybody surely?

LOL thats a good point at least its not as abusive as some have on their profiles about receiving the wrong sort of messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats another good point, would rather see "will fill in later" written on a profile, than no fuckin single males, no fat people, no mingers etc.

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By *teve_SoleilCouple
over a year ago

Malaysia

it's funny how we swingers question when people judge us...saying we have the right to do whatever we want to do...so doesn't they have the right to write whatever they want? be it negative or positive of nothing?...we should all just get along with each other...and don't judge a book by it's cover...:D...

well...we also have the right to complain or to report..and to judge...so it's a matter of choice really...you can choose to be a person that ignore and move on...or a person that judged other but not like to be judged...or many other types...

It all boils down to choice...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
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over a year ago

"it's funny how we swingers question when people judge us...saying we have the right to do whatever we want to do...so doesn't they have the right to write whatever they want? be it negative or positive of nothing?...we should all just get along with each other...and don't judge a book by it's cover...:D...

It all boils down to choice..."

What a very politically correct answer and you're right but we all like to have something to discuss and question don't we? lol

world would be boring place otherwise

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