FabSwingers.com forum: Advice for first time

By *ojo1001 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Nr Bangor

Me and wife ready for first mmf , any do's and dont's

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By *icecouple561Couple
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3 weeks ago

East Sussex

Thats up to the three of you to decide together. Make sure you all know each others boundaries and don't overstep them.

Don't be afraid to stop things or ask for a time out.

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By *bxanfCouple
3 weeks ago

Bilston / Dudley / Anor Londo

Make your bondaries clear before anything happens.

Make sure you have a safe word.

Don't get put off if things are a little awkward, it's your first one.

Keep it light hearted and have fun.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
3 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

Pick the right guy

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By *oan of DArcCouple
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Me and wife ready for first mmf , any do's and dont's "

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Don't have statements on your profile that conflict with what you say you're looking for on the forum

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By *ojo1001 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Nr Bangor

Hopefully we will have a couple profile up soon

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By *aughtynottsCouple
3 weeks ago

Outside Nottingham

Picking the right guy is paramount in this scenario someone experienced with couples and respecting their dynamic and limits that will be the hardest challenge you'll face.

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By *ojo1001 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Nr Bangor

What about kissing

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By *armandwet50Couple
3 weeks ago

Far far away

"Me and wife ready for first mmf , any do's and dont's "

Yeah don't force it and do enjoy it

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By *layfullsamMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

"Me and wife ready for first mmf , any do's and dont's "

Change your profile to a couple and arrange a video call with your wife present so people know she’s real

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By *teveanddebsCouple
3 weeks ago

Norwich

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By *teveanddebsCouple
3 weeks ago

Norwich

"Me and wife ready for first mmf , any do's and dont's "

Get a couple's account

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By *iberius61Man
3 weeks ago

Pontefract

Everything above, I'll add from a process perspective, I find it best if the 2 men please the woman rather than thinking the woman is going to please 2 men. Let your wife lead it perhaps, asked her what she wants. E.g. one man at the top, one at the bottom, or one man each side. Does she have any fantasies to play out?

Finally, like you should never meet your hero's, I'm afraid that some fantasies just don't work as well in reality...but you gotta try them anyway.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Communication is key, talk and listen to your wife, you both have to be free and honest with everything, set boundaries and keep to them no matter what happens, boundaries can be changed later on. Explain what you would both vision in the scenario if it happens. Dont jump at the chance of the first person available. It's not a race. You must both be on the same page when you move forward if not it will fail.

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