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Confused... Straight or Bi- what!?

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By *r8 Lancs guy OP   Man
26 weeks ago

Tameside

Question:-

If you have only had one sexual experience with a guy. And have always been straight.

Does that mean you are no longer straight and are now bi-sexual?

As you can't be bi-curious, as you have already chose to have an experience with a guy, haven't you!?

This is so confusing!

If to leave straight on my profile or change it to bi- what?

Answers please...

Thanks

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By *alandNitaCouple
26 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"Question:-

If you have only had one sexual experience with a guy. And have always been straight.

Does that mean you are no longer straight and are now bi-sexual?

As you can't be bi-curious, as you have already chose to have an experience with a guy, haven't you!?

This is so confusing!

If to leave straight on my profile or change it to bi- what?

Answers please...

Thanks"

Surely you can be curious until you've made your mind up.

Cal

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By *alandNitaCouple
26 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Also, how you wan't to label yourself on here is more to do with who you are wanting to meet than your actual sexuality.

If you only want to have sex with women, then stay with straight, if you want to have sex with men, TVs, TSs etc... then you would probably be better ticking Bi.

Cal

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By *issmorganWoman
26 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It depends if you want to keep having meets with men or not..

If you enjoyed it and do want to carry on, you're bi /curious

If it's a one off never to be repeated that you weren't that keen on, I'd say still straight op.

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By *isntacrowdMan
26 weeks ago

Devonshire


"It depends if you want to keep having meets with men or not..

If you enjoyed it and do want to carry on, you're bi /curious

If it's a one off never to be repeated that you weren't that keen on, I'd say still straight op. "

I think that sums it up perfectly

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By *ustamanMan
26 weeks ago

weymouth

If I can stick my oar in, for me it's more complex than just straight/bi. I'm not attracted to men so straight yes?, however I can and have been attracted to tgirls so bi - I disagree as it's the woman I'm attracted to irrespective of their actual genitals. But the platform forces you to put something down that means it's an inaccurate description of ones sexuallity. Why can't I leave it blank?

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
26 weeks ago

Cambs

Sexuality is a spectrum, I know plenty of guys who enjoy cock in one way or another but aren't remotely into men romantically, fabs 3 options isn't even close to accurate, I definitely don't identify as just bi but you've got to tick a box so it's close enough to express an interest in more than one gender until fab does better on gender and sexuality options.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Herts

I suggest you’re overthinking this OP. One experience doesn’t make you anything unless it was that important to you. If you don’t think of yourself as bi then keep your profile as straight. If you find you look for more bi experiences then maybe rethink it, you’ll know if/when it feels appropriate.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Morning all. I would say curious as you are still questioning yourself. If you have another bi meet and like it, then definitely verging on being bi. Personally I'd say embrace it and enjoy the many options that are open to you.

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By *aughtyhubby372Man
26 weeks ago

Wrexham


"Sexuality is a spectrum, I know plenty of guys who enjoy cock in one way or another but aren't remotely into men romantically, fabs 3 options isn't even close to accurate, I definitely don't identify as just bi but you've got to tick a box so it's close enough to express an interest in more than one gender until fab does better on gender and sexuality options. "

So true. I have no interest in any form of romance in men apart I enjoy cock every know and then. I don’t kiss men as that’s not a turn on for me. I just enjoy sucking on a cock and need to have a real one inside of me to see how it feels.

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By *heonixrising500Man
26 weeks ago

Barnsley

Think we all curious really

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By *ustamanMan
26 weeks ago

weymouth

So someone who identifies as female, dresses as female, acts and behaves as female seeks only men but has a male body is bi/gay? No I don't agree with that to me they're straight, same as a straight man being attracted to Tgirls etc. this is the problem with boxes I think they should be removed so it forces folks to read profiles to find out what they're looking for, alternatively if you just go on pictures be prepared to be surprised

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By *rumguy1982Man
26 weeks ago

Birmingham

Fabs options on this subject are not the best, im bi curious on my profile, ive had fun with guys but im not attracted to them in a way that could lead to being with a man, if that makes sense i know im attracted to women 99% of the time, its just when i get that itch that needs scratching...maybe fab could put a blank box so you can put your own description or nothing at all.

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
26 weeks ago

Rotherham

They are just labels .

I am straight as I only find females attractive and only ever date females . As a cuckold I have performed many bisexual acts as I served my gf and her bulls as and when required

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Bristol

As many have said, abandon labels.

Stop restricting yourself based on your self assessment.

If you like something, do it.

And if you have done 'it' and liked it then you really should change it to 'bisexual'

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Central

The volume of sexual interaction doesn't determine your sexual orientation. It's about what you decide it is.

Many straight people have sex with others for money but aren't attracted to the same gender. Porn stars are included in the gay for pay group.

If you're sexually attracted to people, then you have your key focus on some bi or gay interests. You can remain curious, despite having sex. And remain straight, despite lots of same gender sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Always best to try it twice I'd say

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By *uckurcumMan
26 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

Current times make for blurred lines,many men in various age groups are more open to having some form of sexual experience with another man...

End of the day it's your life to live how you want,and you don't have to label yourself one thing or another unless you choose to ...

Just live life

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By *anGuy4funMan
26 weeks ago

Belfast

Labels I think are largely useless beyond giving you language to describe your sexuality to others. Fabs list as alot of people have said is very limited. Even with a full list they aren't great.

For me physical acts never dictate your sexuality. If someone chooses to be celebate does that change their sexuality?

It's more about about what you want romantically and what you think about minus any external influence. Even then could just be curiosity or could be more.

I wouldn't over think it like has been said before. If it interests you or feels good do it. How you define yourself sexually is down to how you feel, not what you do.

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By *lboy7Man
26 weeks ago

London

I really think they are labels as some people already said, more recently i had some fun with a trans girl had a great time and have been watching a lot trans porn but would never meet a one and one with another bloke so does that mean im straight i dont know lol

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By *itygamesMan
26 weeks ago

UK

i know what i am , and thats dead straight, dont wanna try it , would never try it , wouldnt even consider it...

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By *inosaur PantsMan
26 weeks ago

Stourbridge


"Question:-

If you have only had one sexual experience with a guy. And have always been straight.

Does that mean you are no longer straight and are now bi-sexual?

As you can't be bi-curious, as you have already chose to have an experience with a guy, haven't you!?

This is so confusing!

If to leave straight on my profile or change it to bi- what?

Answers please...

Thanks"

If you enjoyed it - Bisexual

Not sure - curious

Didn't enjoy it - straight

Happy to close your eyes and let a guy suck your dick again - fab straight

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By *isntacrowdMan
26 weeks ago

Devonshire


"Question:-

If you have only had one sexual experience with a guy. And have always been straight.

Does that mean you are no longer straight and are now bi-sexual?

As you can't be bi-curious, as you have already chose to have an experience with a guy, haven't you!?

This is so confusing!

If to leave straight on my profile or change it to bi- what?

Answers please...

Thanks

If you enjoyed it - Bisexual

Not sure - curious

Didn't enjoy it - straight

Happy to close your eyes and let a guy suck your dick again - fab straight"

Excellent reply

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By *uperted39Man
26 weeks ago

bushey


"Sexuality is a spectrum, I know plenty of guys who enjoy cock in one way or another but aren't remotely into men romantically, fabs 3 options isn't even close to accurate, I definitely don't identify as just bi but you've got to tick a box so it's close enough to express an interest in more than one gender until fab does better on gender and sexuality options. "

Spot on for me

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By *eavenscentitCouple
26 weeks ago

barnstaple

Does it really matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

I change between curious and straight depending on how I feel.

Don’t fancy guys but am a naughty sort!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
26 weeks ago

Cheshire

One experience doesn’t make you bisexual or gay. To answer your original question.

If you enjoyed the experience and choose to have regular same sex experiences, maybe then question your sexuality.

Very few guys become romantically bisexual, meaning they want to have relationships with both sexes, so if you think it’s just a sexual thing then label yourself as you choose.

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By *1bttmMan
26 weeks ago

Shoreditch east London


"Question:-

If you have only had one sexual experience with a guy. And have always been straight.

Does that mean you are no longer straight and are now bi-sexual?

As you can't be bi-curious, as you have already chose to have an experience with a guy, haven't you!?

This is so confusing!

If to leave straight on my profile or change it to bi- what?

Answers please...

Thanks"

I identify as 100% gay. No attraction to women (sorry ladies) however I've been part of a MMF, been dogging, to cinemas n clubs. It's the heat of the moment or scenario. Does my interaction make me bi? No. I'm 100% . Don't label yrself, it's yr journey and one experience shouldn't define u.

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By *rpeggioCouple
25 weeks ago

Baughurst


"It depends if you want to keep having meets with men or not..

If you enjoyed it and do want to carry on, you're bi /curious

If it's a one off never to be repeated that you weren't that keen on, I'd say still straight op. "

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
25 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

Who cares? Just be you!

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By *rpeggioCouple
25 weeks ago

Baughurst

In disagreement with many here, in Fab, labels do matter because there's 4 and only 4, and everyone is supposed to choose one.

In life, when playing, I agree labels don't matter, but responses saying labels don't matter are not helpful for people in need of help figuring out which of the 4 boxes is the right one for them to tick.

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
25 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire


" In life, when playing, I agree labels don't matter, but responses saying labels don't matter are not helpful for people in need of help figuring out which of the 4 boxes is the right one for them to tick."

There isn't a "right" one to pick for many people. Just click whatever best describes what you're looking for at the moment.

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By *rpeggioCouple
25 weeks ago

Baughurst


" In life, when playing, I agree labels don't matter, but responses saying labels don't matter are not helpful for people in need of help figuring out which of the 4 boxes is the right one for them to tick.

There isn't a "right" one to pick for many people. Just click whatever best describes what you're looking for at the moment."

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Exactly. There's no right label for us here, so we go for the one that is closer to the way we feel and play.

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By *ouple_ukCouple
25 weeks ago

London

If you're curious about it, such as wouldn't mind another experience to see if you enjoy it again, say curious. "Curious" seems to cover a range of things including enjoying play with another cock as part of a session but that's not the main event etc.

Don't get hung up on the label and lose the enjoyment of honest and open plesure.

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By *isntacrowdMan
25 weeks ago

Devonshire


"If you're curious about it, such as wouldn't mind another experience to see if you enjoy it again, say curious. "Curious" seems to cover a range of things including enjoying play with another cock as part of a session but that's not the main event etc.

Don't get hung up on the label and lose the enjoyment of honest and open plesure.

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To be honest, I think it all involves the heat of the moment. You can say you’re straight or bi, but sometimes when you’re in a scenario particularly as a group anything may Despite what it says on your profile

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By *uterspace1978Man
25 weeks ago

Bexley


"Question:-

If you have only had one sexual experience with a guy. And have always been straight.

Does that mean you are no longer straight and are now bi-sexual?

As you can't be bi-curious, as you have already chose to have an experience with a guy, haven't you!?

This is so confusing!

If to leave straight on my profile or change it to bi- what?

Answers please...

Thanks"

Trysexual ?

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