FabSwingers.com forum: Not Sub, but prefer women who know what they want?

By *ust_Exploring OP Man
18 weeks ago

London

I'm still exploring and finding out what I like. I don't see myself as sub but I am attracted by women who are confident and vocal about what they like, and occasionally enjoy taking the lead.

Is there a "role" that describes this?

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By *issy_named_cTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Submissive leaning?

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By *andsome_MeeeMan
18 weeks ago

London

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By *andsome_MeeeMan
18 weeks ago

London

Roles are a spectrum not everyone who is sub, dom or switch is the same.

Sub doesnt mean sissy, sl4ve, or something demeaning.

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By *aTina HeadTurnerWoman
18 weeks ago

Newham

No need for labels OP, you like what you like and it’s all that matters.

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By *elkieWoman
18 weeks ago

Durham

A woman who knows what she wants is not necessarily dominant. Could be that you’re just attracted to sexual confidence.

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By *acko452Man
18 weeks ago

maldon

Definitely attracted to sexual confidence.

Big turn on

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By *ensualMan
18 weeks ago

Sutton

I would suggest its attraction not submission.

In any case confident, assertive people can be submissive, switch, or dominant.

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By *aptain_Crunch69Man
18 weeks ago

Bournemouth

This reminds me of the Welsh word 'radio-cassette'

I'm interested to see if someone comes up with a specific label for this

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
18 weeks ago

Weymouth

It's not related to kink, so not really.

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By *ust_Exploring OP Man
18 weeks ago

London

Thanks all

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By *heonixrising500Man
18 weeks ago

Barnsley

I prefer convident women that not afraid to tell what they want in a meet

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
18 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't think there's much need to label you just like a woman with sexual confidence.

That's easy enough to understand.

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By *andsome_MeeeMan
18 weeks ago

London

Porn and gender roles have both taught us that men need to take control and be rough.

Not everyone has a sub/dom role either. Sex doesn't always have to be about d/s.

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By *9 Love-To-TryCouple
18 weeks ago

East Anglia

I love Mrs controlling our our sex and play

she is 100% commited to ensuring everything we do is amazing

All I have to do is only cum when asked or told to

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
18 weeks ago

Bedale

I'm in the same boat. When push comes to shove im very slightly on the dominant side of the spectrum; but I much prefer a woman who is sexually assertive. Passivity is a turn off for me.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
18 weeks ago

South West London

Massive respect for women who know exactly what they want and are confident but I prefer to be dominant

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
18 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Assertive and confident are kind of separate concepts to dominant.

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By *ust_Exploring OP Man
18 weeks ago

London

Thanks all. Maybe my previous experiences in the vanilla world have affected my perception. As a guy I've always felt pressured to take the lead with partners who weren't really vocal or direct about what they wanted.

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By *andsome_MeeeMan
6 weeks ago

London

hi anyone like this in london message me

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
6 weeks ago

Coventry

Personally I'm attracted to women who are strong, frank and who understand themselves. I like a strong character in any frame. A woman who has got something about her is hot. Yet I have not desire to have them take the lead or them to dominate (quite the opposite). However in the bedroom and/or from a kink point of veiw I like someone who understands themselves, is comfortable in their own skin and is comfortable communicating with me. I think this is plus for me in a submissive woman. To me submission is knowing what you want in terms of an experiance and handing that trust over your mind and body into the hands of someone else.

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By *andsome_MeeeMan
6 weeks ago

London

"Personally I'm attracted to women who are strong, frank and who understand themselves. I like a strong character in any frame. A woman who has got something about her is hot. Yet I have not desire to have them take the lead or them to dominate (quite the opposite). However in the bedroom and/or from a kink point of veiw I like someone who understands themselves, is comfortable in their own skin and is comfortable communicating with me. I think this is plus for me in a submissive woman. To me submission is knowing what you want in terms of an experiance and handing that trust over your mind and body into the hands of someone else.

Mr"

taking the lead doesn't mean dominate

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By *andsome_MeeeMan
5 weeks ago

London

anyone in uk?

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