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I don’t see to get any replies. Help plz?

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By *ougarFinder OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Birmingham

I don’t seem to get any replies from anyone is there something I’m doing wrong or wrong with my profile?

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By *hilled_CplCouple
41 weeks ago

Exeter

Your profile consists of one sentence and one picture. What are you doing in your messages to make yourself stand out against the hundreds of other guys also looking to meet?

Also, I'd say that 'looking for a cougar' might also narrow your audience and limit your chances of a response.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
41 weeks ago

cahoots

Your status suggests you're just looking for a verification which isn't appealing. Most people say they will read a profile before responding so if yours sums you up keep it...if not change it.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
41 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

One sentence and one picture isn't going to be enough to hook interest.

What are you putting in your messages that would be interesting or exciting enough to get someone invested in knowing more about you?

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By *ost SockMan
41 weeks ago

West Wales and Cardiff

There’s thousands of us guys with profile texts like yours, tbh.

In my opinion, profile texts need to show character and be a bit different to the average.

Really though, Fab is all about becoming a part of the community through forums and socials etc. A lot of guys send loads of messages, but “less is more” with that, I believe. I’ve been on thirteen years and usually send about two speculative ones a year.

Finally, you seem focused on cougars. There’s problem not that many women who identify as one of them really. Some perhaps don’t like the term.

Good luck

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By *ikesEmBigMan
41 weeks ago

Herts


"I don’t seem to get any replies from anyone is there something I’m doing wrong or wrong with my profile? "

They're just busy with me

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By *uliette500Woman
41 weeks ago

Hull

As above. You need to improve your profile.

Most women will look at your profile before even opening your message. If the profile doesn't give them a good idea of who you are and what you can offer them they won't even bother with the message.

One picture and a single line about what YOU want is not going to get you anywhere.

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
41 weeks ago

Chester

As above. Drop the term cougar from your username and profile; I hate it, and I know I’m not alone. I doubt anyone at the age of 40 would identify as such.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
41 weeks ago

Leeds

What profile?

There's a photo of your back and one sentence?

Mrs

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By *ucka39Man
41 weeks ago

Newcastle

Hiya op

I'd suggest browse other profiles see how they've done there's for ideas and since you are a site supporter get adding loads of photos

Remember your bio is important so make it sound interesting it's your shop window which others will view before responding to any messages if it captures their interest

Good luck pal

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By *harAndBryCouple
41 weeks ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"I don’t seem to get any replies from anyone is there something I’m doing wrong or wrong with my profile? "

Your location is working against your poor profile. We visit Birmingham three or four times each year and get four times as many messages as when we're anywhere else.

As it's such a busy area, you really need to stand out and one pic and little text isn't going to do it, unfortunately.

(Bry)

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By *ohnssMan
41 weeks ago

halifax

I’m struggling to get attention on here is my profile all right ?

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By *oxy jWoman
41 weeks ago

somerset

no replys then theres no interest its really that simple

guys need to accept 2 things ...

one ..swinging is a attraction based lifestyle no attraction no fun and its not just attraction .... hence alot call it a rejection game because most will get rejected

two .. that there are so many men one this scene that if 95% left there would still be to many blunt yes but the truth simple maths will explain why most cant get into swinging

and no by being to the point im not anyi men i only meet guys via fab and heres another reason why its hard for all and in all the fake women n couples then add in all the women and couples who dont play (alot) and that very small pool of couples and women (by comparison to mens numbers) you soon realize how many or should i say how few really swing

then add in alot of swingers play very little like 3 or 4 times a year then couples / women who only meet couples/ women so are club only too and as you see that pool of couples and women is getting very small..

see alot of people on here will say dont worry there someone for everyone well thats not true in everyday life but it dont take many brain cells to work out that there is NOT someone for everyone one on this scene not even remotely close..

its a scene that really not good for most men

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By *harAndBryCouple
41 weeks ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"I’m struggling to get attention on here is my profile all right ? "

Bad form to jump on someone's post and ends up getting confusing as people don't know which advice is for them. Best start your own thread.

(Bry)

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