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By *hellgaz OP   Couple
43 weeks ago

amesbury

So my wife and me have been having lots of fun with a guy that we both enjoy being with and have become good friends with each other. The other night he came to ours for a glass of wine and some fun, which led to us all being in bed. I had suggested to my wife that he should fuck her from doggy while she laid over me kissing and sucking my cock, he pounded her hard and she was coming multiple times and was so hot. When we finished and he had left she said that he had fucked her arse and didn’t expect it, I was shocked as we don’t do anal but can’t get the idea of it out my head and the way she enjoyed it, she did say that his cock is long and thin and felt good were I have a big girthy head ….. should I allow him to do it again ??

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By *eeLikesLotsMan
43 weeks ago

Atherton

She enjoyed it. Was any harm done? If not, go for it. Maybe even try it yourself!

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By *armandwet50Couple
43 weeks ago

Not far away


"So my wife and me have been having lots of fun with a guy that we both enjoy being with and have become good friends with each other. The other night he came to ours for a glass of wine and some fun, which led to us all being in bed. I had suggested to my wife that he should fuck her from doggy while she laid over me kissing and sucking my cock, he pounded her hard and she was coming multiple times and was so hot. When we finished and he had left she said that he had fucked her arse and didn’t expect it, I was shocked as we don’t do anal but can’t get the idea of it out my head and the way she enjoyed it, she did say that his cock is long and thin and felt good were I have a big girthy head ….. should I allow him to do it again ??"

Surely it's your wife's decision, not yours?

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By *rettCoolMan
43 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Ye if she enjoyed it why not .. but her decision .. she might like to take both of u at the same time as well ..

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By *estman for the jobMan
43 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Can't get pregnant if he shoot up her arse lol

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By *ariadx2Couple
43 weeks ago

Wrexham

Most definitely your wife's decision, mine adores anal but it's her decision if it happens or not.

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By *rettCoolMan
43 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"Can't get pregnant if he shoot up her arse lol"

She's 60 think that boat has passed .lol

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago


"So my wife and me have been having lots of fun with a guy that we both enjoy being with and have become good friends with each other. The other night he came to ours for a glass of wine and some fun, which led to us all being in bed. I had suggested to my wife that he should fuck her from doggy while she laid over me kissing and sucking my cock, he pounded her hard and she was coming multiple times and was so hot. When we finished and he had left she said that he had fucked her arse and didn’t expect it, I was shocked as we don’t do anal but can’t get the idea of it out my head and the way she enjoyed it, she did say that his cock is long and thin and felt good were I have a big girthy head ….. should I allow him to do it again ??"

If she enjoyed it why not as long as she wants to do it again. Think it would turn me on even more that she let him and not you.

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By *issmorganWoman
43 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Why not let her decide op.

If she liked it, why not, but has to be because she wants to do it again, not for anyone else.

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By *estman for the jobMan
43 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Did he just slip it up her arse or did she guide him in would be my question to her if u never have anal op,I think it's a big no no if he just did it

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By *exy_HornyCouple
43 weeks ago

Leigh

Politically correct answer: It is her decision.

Otherwise, yeah just go for it. Get him to loosen her up ready for you to dive in after.

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By *ornycougaWoman
43 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Sorry but the idea that someone who doesn't do anal can just take a guy's cock and be fucked as if he was in her pussy without verbal communication between them and without you noticing the change of pace is inconceivable to me. Either this belongs in the fantasy section or she has been having anal without you knowing it.

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By *impcuckMan
43 weeks ago

edge of taunton

something very wrong with ''should i allow him to do it again'' sounds like she not allowed to have a choice herself she enjoyed it let her decied if she wants more not you

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By *ariadx2Couple
43 weeks ago

Wrexham

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By *ariadx2Couple
43 weeks ago

Wrexham


"Sorry but the idea that someone who doesn't do anal can just take a guy's cock and be fucked as if he was in her pussy without verbal communication between them and without you noticing the change of pace is inconceivable to me. Either this belongs in the fantasy section or she has been having anal without you knowing it. "

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
43 weeks ago

Sheffield


"Sorry but the idea that someone who doesn't do anal can just take a guy's cock and be fucked as if he was in her pussy without verbal communication between them and without you noticing the change of pace is inconceivable to me. Either this belongs in the fantasy section or she has been having anal without you knowing it. "

Was going to say the same thing. It hurts A LOT if not done right.

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By *oupleSouthEast69Couple
43 weeks ago

brighton


"Sorry but the idea that someone who doesn't do anal can just take a guy's cock and be fucked as if he was in her pussy without verbal communication between them and without you noticing the change of pace is inconceivable to me. Either this belongs in the fantasy section or she has been having anal without you knowing it. "

This!!!

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By *oan of DArcCouple
43 weeks ago

Glasgow


"So my wife and me have been having lots of fun with a guy that we both enjoy being with and have become good friends with each other. The other night he came to ours for a glass of wine and some fun, which led to us all being in bed. I had suggested to my wife that he should fuck her from doggy while she laid over me kissing and sucking my cock, he pounded her hard and she was coming multiple times and was so hot. When we finished and he had left she said that he had fucked her arse and didn’t expect it, I was shocked as we don’t do anal but can’t get the idea of it out my head and the way she enjoyed it, she did say that his cock is long and thin and felt good were I have a big girthy head ….. should I allow him to do it again ??"

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I'd be more concerned that he had anal sex with your wife without her consent!

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By *ady LickWoman
43 weeks ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Sorry but the idea that someone who doesn't do anal can just take a guy's cock and be fucked as if he was in her pussy without verbal communication between them and without you noticing the change of pace is inconceivable to me. Either this belongs in the fantasy section or she has been having anal without you knowing it. "

100% this, also 'should I allow him to do it again' leaves me a bit tbh!

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By *un and Games 2016Couple
43 weeks ago

Darlington

"Should I allow it?" Is that actually a serious question? Unless you are her keeper, it's probably best to discuss it and come to a mutual agreement

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
43 weeks ago

North West


"Sorry but the idea that someone who doesn't do anal can just take a guy's cock and be fucked as if he was in her pussy without verbal communication between them and without you noticing the change of pace is inconceivable to me. Either this belongs in the fantasy section or she has been having anal without you knowing it. "

Agree with this lol. There’s no way if you don’t do anal regularly it just happens without giving it away lol.

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By *ontroselad69Man
43 weeks ago

Montrose

Still mind 1st time I got in my wife's ass wow still love it now as does she.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago


"Still mind 1st time I got in my wife's ass wow still love it now as does she. "
hahaha OK then tell them how much you begged me for it babe. But yes I do love it lol somethings can be a secret tho hahaha ur on a ban babe

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By *itaandJohnCouple
43 weeks ago

Bristol


"So my wife and me have been having lots of fun with a guy that we both enjoy being with and have become good friends with each other. The other night he came to ours for a glass of wine and some fun, which led to us all being in bed. I had suggested to my wife that he should fuck her from doggy while she laid over me kissing and sucking my cock, he pounded her hard and she was coming multiple times and was so hot. When we finished and he had left she said that he had fucked her arse and didn’t expect it, I was shocked as we don’t do anal but can’t get the idea of it out my head and the way she enjoyed it, she did say that his cock is long and thin and felt good were I have a big girthy head ….. should I allow him to do it again ??

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I'd be more concerned that he had anal sex with your wife without her consent!"

Agreed, we can't believe that some people who commented above hadn't flagged this and somehow saw it in a positive light.

If he didn't ask permission and just switched to anal without warning that's a huge red flag and likely sexual assault (context dependant)!

Also the part about "allowing your partner" to do it again sounds worrying. Granted it might just be your wording of the sentence, but your partner is the only one who can make final decisions for/about themselves, irrespective of any D/s or dynamic you might have with them that allows perceived control (like TPE etc).

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
43 weeks ago

Plymouth, South west

As so many other posters I think a conversation is needed.

Anal without consent is a huge red flag.. is it something you had discussed and decided it wasn't something either of you wanted to do? I'm not sure why you would 'allow' any man to do anything to anyone that they hadn't given express consent to.

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By *awpleasureMan
43 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

When he initially tried to enter her, did the lady say say no?

I personally would talk about limits and boundaries first but if he was rubbing his cock around her anus and then went in without any objection, he must've thought he had the green light.

As for a repeat, it's her arse, her decision!

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By *hong80321967Man
42 weeks ago

Wakefield

Yes get anal included as well, go for it, you can clean the cum from her arse

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By *rand Central CoupleCouple
42 weeks ago

Glasgow


"So my wife and me have been having lots of fun with a guy that we both enjoy being with and have become good friends with each other. The other night he came to ours for a glass of wine and some fun, which led to us all being in bed. I had suggested to my wife that he should fuck her from doggy while she laid over me kissing and sucking my cock, he pounded her hard and she was coming multiple times and was so hot. When we finished and he had left she said that he had fucked her arse and didn’t expect it, I was shocked as we don’t do anal but can’t get the idea of it out my head and the way she enjoyed it, she did say that his cock is long and thin and felt good were I have a big girthy head ….. should I allow him to do it again ??"

YOU HAVE 70 PHOTOS ON YOUR PUBLIC GALLERY

ALL OF THEM ARE OF YOUR WIFE

THEY INCLUDE FULL SEX ORAL AND CUMSHOTS

ONLY ONE PHOTO SHOWS YOUR WIFE FROM BEHIND.

THAT SAYS SOMETHING.

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By *iddle ManMan
42 weeks ago

Walsall

I will say one thing, I've had my share of anal sex and at no point would I put it in there with the say so of the other half. Without pre planning and preparation it could be not as enjoyable, aswell to just do it on the fly takes trust on both sides.

So for him to put it in there and your wife to just take it without so much as you realising takes some skill and I'd say pre planning or experience.

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
42 weeks ago

Chester

The cynic in me is thinking that this can only be a way of driving traffic to their profile to boost numbers at their public social which took place yesterday.

Otherwise, as others have said, the fact OP doesn’t see this as at all troubling is A LOT.

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By *ayd100Man
42 weeks ago

clitheroe


"So my wife and me have been having lots of fun with a guy that we both enjoy being with and have become good friends with each other. The other night he came to ours for a glass of wine and some fun, which led to us all being in bed. I had suggested to my wife that he should fuck her from doggy while she laid over me kissing and sucking my cock, he pounded her hard and she was coming multiple times and was so hot. When we finished and he had left she said that he had fucked her arse and didn’t expect it, I was shocked as we don’t do anal but can’t get the idea of it out my head and the way she enjoyed it, she did say that his cock is long and thin and felt good were I have a big girthy head ….. should I allow him to do it again ??"
absolutely

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By *ybermanMan
42 weeks ago

Comberton

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By *ybermanMan
42 weeks ago

Comberton

Up the rectum, don't affect em!

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

As previously said.

This is a consent violation and sexual assault (if not prior approved).

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By *hilswhore1000Couple
42 weeks ago

tunstall


"So my wife and me have been having lots of fun with a guy that we both enjoy being with and have become good friends with each other. The other night he came to ours for a glass of wine and some fun, which led to us all being in bed. I had suggested to my wife that he should fuck her from doggy while she laid over me kissing and sucking my cock, he pounded her hard and she was coming multiple times and was so hot. When we finished and he had left she said that he had fucked her arse and didn’t expect it, I was shocked as we don’t do anal but can’t get the idea of it out my head and the way she enjoyed it, she did say that his cock is long and thin and felt good were I have a big girthy head ….. should I allow him to do it again ??"

Yes! Then as he’s opened her up you try going second and see if it’s easier

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
42 weeks ago

SW Scotland

It’s sexual assault, the guy clearly overstepped the line.

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By *omRachCouple
42 weeks ago

Wirral


"So my wife and me have been having lots of fun with a guy that we both enjoy being with and have become good friends with each other. The other night he came to ours for a glass of wine and some fun, which led to us all being in bed. I had suggested to my wife that he should fuck her from doggy while she laid over me kissing and sucking my cock, he pounded her hard and she was coming multiple times and was so hot. When we finished and he had left she said that he had fucked her arse and didn’t expect it, I was shocked as we don’t do anal but can’t get the idea of it out my head and the way she enjoyed it, she did say that his cock is long and thin and felt good were I have a big girthy head ….. should I allow him to do it again ??"

It's not your arsehole my friend, it's your wife's - surely she should be the one 'allowing' it???

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
42 weeks ago

Chester

The fact that this thread is a total binfire with so many people who don’t realise this story is a huge consent violation is really helping my blocklist….

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
42 weeks ago

Halifax

Hard to comment here without knowing if she knew what was happening and was happy for him to proceed or she didn't realise till it was too late.

Either way it feels like this gentleman crossed a boundary and is a safety risk to your Mrs and others.

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By *inkyandpinkyCouple
42 weeks ago

Birmingham

If she came multiple time then she definitely enjoyed it, I would say it wasn’t a surprise or unwelcome. Offer your arse next time you may enjoy it as much as your wife!

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

That’s so hot

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By *randMrsNorthernCouple
42 weeks ago

Cheshire


"Sorry but the idea that someone who doesn't do anal can just take a guy's cock and be fucked as if he was in her pussy without verbal communication between them and without you noticing the change of pace is inconceivable to me. Either this belongs in the fantasy section or she has been having anal without you knowing it.

This!!!

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Double this

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By *unchalMan
42 weeks ago

Dartford


"The fact that this thread is a total binfire with so many people who don’t realise this story is a huge consent violation is really helping my blocklist…."

OMG! I wish I understood these issues as well as you do. This is obviously not real. Anyone ever had an unexpected cock up the arse? It doesn’t happen without comment.

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By *randMrsNorthernCouple
42 weeks ago

Cheshire

I understand the people saying it’s her choice and not yours but if this is true and not something for the “stories and fantasies” section, then I wouldn’t be hapoy about it.

You’re a couple at the end of the day and while things may get a bit blurry when under the influence and/or in the heat of the moment, if he’s just slipped it up her arse without any form of consent or dialogue in advance and then pissed off, there’s a big consent and transparency issue there, regardless of whether she enjoyed it or not.

I await lynching.

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
42 weeks ago

Chester


"I understand the people saying it’s her choice and not yours but if this is true and not something for the “stories and fantasies” section, then I wouldn’t be hapoy about it.

You’re a couple at the end of the day and while things may get a bit blurry when under the influence and/or in the heat of the moment, if he’s just slipped it up her arse without any form of consent or dialogue in advance and then pissed off, there’s a big consent and transparency issue there, regardless of whether she enjoyed it or not.

I await lynching. "

Completely agree with you. I also suspect ‘story’ and OP’s non-return to the thread reinforces that.

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
42 weeks ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Consent, consent, consent as others have mentioned. No one would enter my arse without my permission or do anything to me in fact with consent. What’s wrong with the husband for allowing this to happen?

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By *hoirCouple
42 weeks ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

As has been mentioned, this is a major issue.

However another aspect is that she possibly lied to you about not expecting it.

C

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Thought I'd accidentally opened the stories and fantasies section.... no one accidentally fucks my arse .... and if they tried and someone else was there ... they would all know about it pretty quick.

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