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By (user no longer on site) OP   
31 weeks ago

Hey all.

I keep re-adjusting my profile bio as I feel I'm overthinking it and either not adding something important or adding something pointless.

I'm aware my picture gallery is lacking a bit in variety, but feel free to give feedback on the pics I do have uploaded so far too.

Thank you. x

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By *nytime2023Couple
31 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Hi OP. The profile is decent from our perspective and you’ve managed not to put a cock picture in which is always positive. Text is informative but no too much. We possibly remove the long term stuff, plenty of other sites will help you achieve that with more success.

Location could be difficult for you unless you’re on the mainland from time to time.

Perhaps expand on the bisexual information like are you fully bi, only top or bottom etc.

Lastly, as has been said many many times before. Single guys on Fab outnumber the other groups massively. As a couple we seek single guys but on Fab it’s been a useless task, now we meet them at clubs and it is far easier. If you can, go to a social or club. Meeting people face to face is far easier (in our opinion) than behind a profile on the internet. Good luck

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By *electableicecreamMan
31 weeks ago

The West

I like your photos and your bio and I think you can be happy with what you have there and work with that.

Most men don't get replies to messages. That's just how it is on fab

If you treat it as a social network and make an effort to get to organised social events you will, in my opinion, almost certainly have better luck making lasting connections with good people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
31 weeks ago


"Hi OP. The profile is decent from our perspective and you’ve managed not to put a cock picture in which is always positive. Text is informative but no too much. We possibly remove the long term stuff, plenty of other sites will help you achieve that with more success.

Location could be difficult for you unless you’re on the mainland from time to time.

Perhaps expand on the bisexual information like are you fully bi, only top or bottom etc.

Lastly, as has been said many many times before. Single guys on Fab outnumber the other groups massively. As a couple we seek single guys but on Fab it’s been a useless task, now we meet them at clubs and it is far easier. If you can, go to a social or club. Meeting people face to face is far easier (in our opinion) than behind a profile on the internet. Good luck"

Ah thank you for the feedback! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
31 weeks ago


"I like your photos and your bio and I think you can be happy with what you have there and work with that.

Most men don't get replies to messages. That's just how it is on fab

If you treat it as a social network and make an effort to get to organised social events you will, in my opinion, almost certainly have better luck making lasting connections with good people."

Thank you! x

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By *ameisnawtyMan
31 weeks ago

anywhere

Sorry for jumping on your thread any opinions on my profile

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By *electableicecreamMan
31 weeks ago

The West


"Sorry for jumping on your thread any opinions on my profile"

Best start your own. Most people would consider it rude to hijack someone else's thread.

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By *hrimper36Couple
31 weeks ago

Central France dept 36

Ok I guess the feedback didn’t help that much.

See you soon op.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Hi everyone just after advice. How do I get women to respond to me ? I get frustrated when you message hundreds and do not even get a no thank you. As I don’t know if they are not interested or if they just not read it? Also get a lot of men messaging which is fine I take as compliment but just not my thing. If I do get a nibble I soon get no reply after first message or two. I will send a face pic with each message. It’s when you see them on your updates and they put a veri on which is great but the man they had was some what disappointing no judgment. Just wandering if my profile could be better or if it is just the way it is on here? Thanks in advance

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
31 weeks ago

Central


"Hi everyone just after advice. How do I get women to respond to me ? I get frustrated when you message hundreds and do not even get a no thank you. As I don’t know if they are not interested or if they just not read it? Also get a lot of men messaging which is fine I take as compliment but just not my thing. If I do get a nibble I soon get no reply after first message or two. I will send a face pic with each message. It’s when you see them on your updates and they put a veri on which is great but the man they had was some what disappointing no judgment. Just wandering if my profile could be better or if it is just the way it is on here? Thanks in advance "

As most people are not mutually compatible with most other people, you have to expect that most messages won't reach the conclusion that you'd want. And when chats start, most of them will fizzle out, once compatibility isn't found.

The better your profile, the higher the likelihood that you'll get people who match and who can pick you, instead of men who aren't such good matches.

Photos that show how you'd look if you were with someone, will let people judge the attraction to you. 1 cock pic maximum is the usual recommendation.

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By *harAndBryCouple
31 weeks ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"Hi everyone just after advice. How do I get women to respond to me ? I get frustrated when you message hundreds and do not even get a no thank you. As I don’t know if they are not interested or if they just not read it? Also get a lot of men messaging which is fine I take as compliment but just not my thing. If I do get a nibble I soon get no reply after first message or two. I will send a face pic with each message. It’s when you see them on your updates and they put a veri on which is great but the man they had was some what disappointing no judgment. Just wandering if my profile could be better or if it is just the way it is on here? Thanks in advance "

You're far too far away from us, but if you were within our one hour distance, we'd reply and try and arrange a meet. You're profile's okay, though I'd lose the close-up dick pics as they're not doing you any favours.

We find that chats fizzle out if we don't meet within a few days - we have a very dull life and we don't do sex talk, and we're a much better pair of people face to face than we are in messaging.

(Bry)

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By *nytime2023Couple
31 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Firstly, you’re looking for FF couples and females so that’s difficult for single guys. Couple of things we’ve noticed which would be red flags to us in your profile, would you really sleep with a 99 year old? Currently you’re after any woman between 18-99 which may well be true but probably not. Lastly, you’re 39 years old and can’t accommodate. There may be a legitimate reason (which would be worth putting on your profile) but that screams married/attached to most of us on here. Some would be fine about it but most wouldn’t. We don’t fit your criteria so by all means disregard the above but you asked for an honest assessment and so there is ours. Good luck xx

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