FabSwingers.com forum: Help and advice on my profile

By *am882 OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Can anyone please help me make my profile abit more attractive please as I’m getting no luck

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
over a year ago

Chester

I’m honestly trying to write this without sounding like an arse, but I’m failing - you don’t have any profile text apart from pretty much what is automatically put in there - what are you expecting to happen?

Write something! What can you offer, what do you want? What kind of people are you interested in? It’s not rocket science.

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By *am882 OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I agree and honestly it’s fine. Would rather you be honest. I’m new to this and quite shy. Thank you ??

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By *ackandSarah2024Couple
over a year ago

All over

"Can anyone please help me make my profile abit more attractive please as I’m getting no luck "

No offence, but you call one sentence a profile?

We are genuinely surprised that you have had a meet, but well done.

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By *am882 OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

This is why I’m asking

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Have a look at some other single guy profiles to get an idea. Your profile is your ‘shop window’ - you need to get people interested and stand out from the gazillion other single guys. You’ll never appeal to everyone, that’s just life, but in my opinion anyway, you need to give people enough information to make a decision on whether it’s worth making contact.

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By *am882 OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Thank you I do appreciate it. I will have a look x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

You have no profile to comment on op?

Nothing about you or what you gave to offer, nothing about what your looking for....just nothing!

What makes nothing stand out amongst 1000's of single blokes.

The only positive I have is you've no cock pics, but a smile wouldn't go amiss.

Sorry OP.

Mrs

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By *OYFBWoman
over a year ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

Your first pic is lovely. I would crop it so your centre of the pic, and use this as your main profile picture.

Great that your profile isn’t flooded with dick pics.

We all know what a dick looks like.

You really need to add more to your profile text.

A little bit about you, what you’re about, what you can offer someone and what you’re looking for.

Hope this helps and good luck

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

... What profile?

Can't really critique what isn't there.

Try and wrote something at least

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Try writing a profile op, without being harsh there's absolutely nothing there.

What are you looking for on here, what can you offer a meet.

Sell yourself a bit, because I'm guessing many women will hit delete when they see just one line of text. I know I do.

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By *am882 OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I’ve updated my profile so if you lovely ladies who commented can please see what you think. I appreciate you even responding and I think It has helped Me. So thank you xx

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Better, 2 issues for me:

- you say ‘like-minded’ at least twice but don’t say anything specific enough to allow me to judge that. Common issue on profiles.

- you say you’ve never met a couple, but have a hidden veri from a couple. If it’s just a social veri, show it, otherwise it looks a bit red flaggy.

It’s still pretty generic - but if your message game’s strong, you may be in luck!

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