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By (user no longer on site) OP   
38 weeks ago

What do you look for in a couple when wanting some fun...? X

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By *uenevereWoman
38 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I'm not looking for couples but being described as "female" sets my teeth on edge.

It sounds dehumanising. In my mind you describe animals as male or female and people as men and women. Not all will agree but best not put off your target audience.

Other than that... single women are in demand and need not to feel like a human sex toy.

There's nothing in your profile that says what you want or can offer. Why should they meet you rather than one of the multitude of other couples?

The fact that the lady is only bi curious will also put off many.

I would suggest trying a club. As a couple with my husband, that's where we've had success with single ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Not into gym bunny’s so that’s me out lol

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By *lue NotebooksCouple
38 weeks ago

Merseyside

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By *lue NotebooksCouple
38 weeks ago

Merseyside

100% this X infinity

'looking for females '...just makes me think of Martin Goodman from Friday Night dinner , or weirdos

WOMEN , they're called women...or ladies.

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By *ucka39Man
38 weeks ago

Newcastle

Down to earth, laid back, like minded people, hassle free... An attraction

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By *ornycougaWoman
38 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

As others have said, we are women. With feelings, sexual needs, preferences and personalities. Most need attraction to, and a connection with, both the man and the woman of the couple. I am sick of couples messaging me asking if I want to join them on x night straight of the bat. I have no idea which one has messaged. Sparse profiles, only pictures of the woman, stating that she is bi-curious. No chat, no effort - straight up asking to meet. I mean really?? What woman in her right mind is going to engage with that? I am not a human fleshlight to be procured for the couple's experimentation or sexual gratification, though some couples on here seem to assume otherwise.

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By *oleene HoneybeeWoman
38 weeks ago

on the naughty side of the street


"I'm not looking for couples but being described as "female" sets my teeth on edge.

It sounds dehumanising. In my mind you describe animals as male or female and people as men and women. Not all will agree but best not put off your target audience.

Other than that... single women are in demand and need not to feel like a human sex toy.

There's nothing in your profile that says what you want or can offer. Why should they meet you rather than one of the multitude of other couples?

The fact that the lady is only bi curious will also put off many.

I would suggest trying a club. As a couple with my husband, that's where we've had success with single ladies."

This is so true. I find it difficult to connect especially on fab. I've had 2 couples that I have connected with over the years of being in the scene.

I tend to meet couples at clubs and maybe if we connect we arrange a pvt meet after that.

I wouldn't play with a couple when the lady is only bi curious.

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By *oleene HoneybeeWoman
38 weeks ago

on the naughty side of the street


"As others have said, we are women. With feelings, sexual needs, preferences and personalities. Most need attraction to, and a connection with, both the man and the woman of the couple. I am sick of couples messaging me asking if I want to join them on x night straight of the bat. I have no idea which one has messaged. Sparse profiles, only pictures of the woman, stating that she is bi-curious. No chat, no effort - straight up asking to meet. I mean really?? What woman in her right mind is going to engage with that? I am not a human fleshlight to be procured for the couple's experimentation or sexual gratification, though some couples on here seem to assume otherwise. "

100% agree with this.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
38 weeks ago

Stockport

We absolutely see a single lady as someone special , and we treat them as an equal addition to any fun that we have

They are not something to tick off a list or brag about

It helps massively that Mrs j lived with a woman and had a girlfriend previously

So we are in a privileged position that she's been there , done that

Treat them as a human being and you're most of the way there

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By *ondonMagicCouple
38 weeks ago

Durham

1000% second all this.if anyone wanted to join us it’s never about “just us” it’s about all of us.London is definitely bi and we’ve had quite a few female encounters before we don’t always play but you never know what we find at a club

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