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By *ensualkink OP   Man
32 weeks ago

hotel or at yours

I was talking to a couple, discussing interests and all. I shared my pic early on. Then was asked for more, which I did share. We were talking about planning a date etc.

Then they asked about my origin (where I am from originally). I shared and the next message is that they don't like people of that origin and I got blocked

I have been on here for a long time and never had this. Have others experienced whatever this is?

PS: for those that wanna respond about dealing with rejection. I get it, but this isnt about being rejected (been here long enough)

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Sounds ‘racist’ rather than just ‘weird’ ….?

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By *herryEatersCouple
32 weeks ago

East Cheshire

It's clear you're of a particular origin from your last public photo, so yes weird. More likely a poor excuse to duck out.

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By *ensualkink OP   Man
32 weeks ago

hotel or at yours

You are right. It's a poor excuse, just blocking may have been better

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Just curious ... What's your origin?

Cus if it's the depths of hell, maybe you can see where they are coming from, but I somehow doubt it.

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By *aughtystaffs60Couple
32 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Move on. They are not worth your precious time.

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By *teelballsMan
32 weeks ago

central london

Loads of people just want some kinky chat to wank over. Then they make any old excuse to duck out. Happens all the time.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
32 weeks ago

Wherever

Most likely just a guy wanking. Dodged a bullet OP.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
32 weeks ago

Central

It sounds like a lazy, insensitive excuse. Though they made effort to communicate. There are people who promote their partners' racial preferences and there'll be others who don't say anything.

Key thing is that it now feels your time to look for the right people

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By *inkyfilthymindMan
32 weeks ago

Heathrow / Berks

Thanks for the lovely comments, appreciate the feeling of community here

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By *essTTWoman
32 weeks ago

Birmingham

Racism is a big issue in the swinging community unfortunately

I would just report them and move on.

It won't be the last time that someone will make a comment about your race x

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
32 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

We get messages from people that have 'no Asians' in their profiles. Just ignore, block and move on!

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By *ensualkink OP   Man
32 weeks ago

hotel or at yours


"Just curious ... What's your origin?

Cus if it's the depths of hell, maybe you can see where they are coming from, but I somehow doubt it. "

Haha. That will be cool, I am the devil

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By *ensualkink OP   Man
32 weeks ago

hotel or at yours


"Most likely just a guy wanking. Dodged a bullet OP."

I like this way of thinking

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By *ensualkink OP   Man
32 weeks ago

hotel or at yours


"Racism is a big issue in the swinging community unfortunately

I would just report them and move on.

It won't be the last time that someone will make a comment about your race x"

It's not the first time or the 100th time either

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
32 weeks ago

Epsom

I’m sorry that happened to you and even though you can just “move on”, there’s always a bad taste left behind that just kinda lingers.

Hang in there you sexy beastie

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By *ensualkink OP   Man
32 weeks ago

hotel or at yours


"I’m sorry that happened to you and even though you can just “move on”, there’s always a bad taste left behind that just kinda lingers.

Hang in there you sexy beastie "

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By *oe n JayCouple
32 weeks ago

Surrey

We get that everyone has a preference but believe us when we say "their fucking loss!" We had the privilege of this man's company last Saturday and he didn't fail us in anyway Their loss, our gain!

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By *ensualkink OP   Man
32 weeks ago

hotel or at yours


"We get that everyone has a preference but believe us when we say "their fucking loss!" We had the privilege of this man's company last Saturday and he didn't fail us in anyway Their loss, our gain!"

You are too kind

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