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By *rojanhorse2024 OP   Man
over a year ago

town

would love people to look at my profile and give me your honest opinion on how i can improve it.

i am a little shy over the internet and selling myself doesn't come easy which is complete opposite to me in any other social environment.

all feedback gratefully accepted.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

The close up cocks would put me off as would the age range.

But then I'm not your target audience.

Mrs

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

If you struggle online, maybe socials could be the way to go op, there's lots of organised ones which are a great way to meet like minded people.

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By *rojanhorse2024 OP   Man
over a year ago

town

ok done the age range thing which i can understand and was an oversight and the close up cock pics may go all together ty.

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By *rojanhorse2024 OP   Man
over a year ago

town

what should i take from this charming interaction ?

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The biggest thing would be that in 20 yrs of marriage you didn't learn how to be charming tbh.

Like not even the basics... Put your knob away in public, don't make jokes (the weird threat thing) which could sound creepy to your audience, don't talk about your ex wife (throughout the entire fucking profile - and if all goes well it will be your profile for fucking!)

You mention building a longer term connection... Why would anyone want to do that with you specifically? There has to be some stuff in common besides the sex... So what are you into? Knitting? Competitive baking? Badminton? Philosophy?

It's pretty easy for guys to get laid on here tbh. The requirements are low. Just be remotely not awful and you will look like a prince among men xx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Single men need to reveal what they can give to women, so that we can choose who matches with us best, giving us what we need

Your profile is fairly good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you was here as a couple then can't you put into your profile what attracted you to single guys back then?

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By *ood Time RMan
over a year ago

London / Hertfordshire

I’m not really good at giving profile advice but the best thing I can suggest would be to go to a club night or a social. Speak to people mingle let your personality show. Do not have any expectations of getting sex just go for the vibe and social side. If you click with someone and have fun then even better. But at least that way you can talk to others etc. on here couples and females get thousands of messages they probably don’t have the time or get tired to go through them all so on here alone without clubs or socials will be difficult

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By *rojanhorse2024 OP   Man
over a year ago

town


"Single men need to reveal what they can give to women, so that we can choose who matches with us best, giving us what we need

Your profile is fairly good "

ok thankyou, i can understand that and act on your constructive comments .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

youll get no where unless someone wants you ie sexual attraction ... add in the sheer number of men on here to how few women and couples then you';; soon realise that its going to be hard ... for most impossible..

veri's mean very little now days with people giving them out willy nilly they've killed the verified approach with the waste of yime cam veris and the giving of fake meet veris ....

add into the fact alot of women and couples are fake run by men or they are real women and couples but they are not here to swing / meet then you'll see why this site is a nightmare for most men ...

but anyway get your veris go to socials and clubs but at the end of the day sexual attraction is key some will say its not but trust me there are very few women who will shag anything very few indeed .... but its down to you ask for advice then end up with a boring profile like all those others that asked ...

also one very very important thing your asking the forums for help ...its a tiny tiny part of fab 1 maybe 2 % use it alot of swingers who really do play dont ...food for thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same generic advice I give to ladies couples guys

Make your profile interesting enticing attractive through its words and pictures, after that the balls in others hands

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By *_yeahPartiesCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"If you struggle online, maybe socials could be the way to go op, there's lots of organised ones which are a great way to meet like minded people. "

We have Socials every few months and are always welcoming to respectful and friendly guys who can hold a conversation (and read a profile!).

Sheffield isn’t a million miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"youll get no where unless someone wants you ie sexual attraction ... add in the sheer number of men on here to how few women and couples then you';; soon realise that its going to be hard ... for most impossible..

veri's mean very little now days with people giving them out willy nilly they've killed the verified approach with the waste of yime cam veris and the giving of fake meet veris ....

add into the fact alot of women and couples are fake run by men or they are real women and couples but they are not here to swing / meet then you'll see why this site is a nightmare for most men ...

but anyway get your veris go to socials and clubs but at the end of the day sexual attraction is key some will say its not but trust me there are very few women who will shag anything very few indeed .... but its down to you ask for advice then end up with a boring profile like all those others that asked ...

also one very very important thing your asking the forums for help ...its a tiny tiny part of fab 1 maybe 2 % use it alot of swingers who really do play dont ...food for thoughts"

Sam here the female.

I absolutely love this reply. Very to the point and accurate. You seem like a knowledgeable lady and you know what you want. Very good advice.

I read your profile too and that’s also very clear and to the point. You’ve got a great personality indeed xx

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By *rojanhorse2024 OP   Man
over a year ago

town


"If you struggle online, maybe socials could be the way to go op, there's lots of organised ones which are a great way to meet like minded people.

We have Socials every few months and are always welcoming to respectful and friendly guys who can hold a conversation (and read a profile!).

Sheffield isn’t a million miles away "

I think this is the way im going to go ,just visited your page and looks exactly what i need.

as for respectful (always) hold a conversation (on all levels in person) thanks for the input.

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"what should i take from this charming interaction ?

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The biggest thing would be that in 20 yrs of marriage you didn't learn how to be charming tbh.

Like not even the basics... Put your knob away in public, don't make jokes (the weird threat thing) which could sound creepy to your audience, don't talk about your ex wife (throughout the entire fucking profile - and if all goes well it will be your profile for fucking!)

You mention building a longer term connection... Why would anyone want to do that with you specifically? There has to be some stuff in common besides the sex... So what are you into? Knitting? Competitive baking? Badminton? Philosophy?

It's pretty easy for guys to get laid on here tbh. The requirements are low. Just be remotely not awful and you will look like a prince among men xx"

They’re an idiot. They can’t speak for everyone. If you read through the forums you’ll see it definitely is not easy for single guys to get laid!

C x

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By *istressandSlut69Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

The forums are a tiny part of fabs and an even tinier part swinging…

Get out to clubs, meet people, chat and have fun, be a swinger…

Xx

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By *istressandSlut69Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

The forums are a tiny part of fabs and an even tinier part of swinging…

Get out to clubs, meet people, chat and have fun, be a swinger…

Xx

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By *ysonfuryMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I wouldn't just rely on the profile. I very rarely get a message from couples or ladies who have spotted my profile and got in touch.

Sending messages which shows you have taken time to read a profile helps but dont expect a reply or get disheartened if you dont. We can't be right for everyone and single ladies and couples do get loads of messages to wade through

Loom out for organised socials they are a great place to meet people in a no pressure to play environment

Good luck and happy fabbing

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